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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: AUX]
    #14434251 - 05/11/11 10:31 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

You should've just replied "now"

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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: shimishimiman] * 1
    #14444793 - 05/13/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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shimishimiman said:
I ended up not going to that party which was probably for the best.

However, there has been an interesting development.  She came up in a conversation I had with an old friend of mine about a week ago, and for some reason he took it upon himself to tell her that she "fucked me up."  I know this because she brought it up to me while I was texting her about random bullshit last night (also she said she was drunk).

She followed that up with a bunch of "OH BOO HOO, I HOPE THAT ISN'T TRUE WHAT A JERKFACE FOR TELLING ME THAT LOL."  I told her I didn't want to talk about it over text and we should discuss it in person over some drinks when she is back in town.  She texted me back saying ok that sounds fair, and then immediately afterwards sent another text saying "what I really mean is its now or never."  I responded with just lemme know when you are back in town and we'll discuss it then.  She hasn't responded back.

What do y'all think?  I feel like I should be stoked at how this has played out, but there is also this lingering feeling that the proverbial shit might have really hit the proverbial fan.





I'm late into this thread but I saw you poke your head into another thread I was in so I followed the lead and found you here :smile:

My thoughts:

Find someone else to seduce.  Any girl who would let you get anywhere near her while she has a boyfriend (local or LDR) is a big red flag, and the guy who will try to seduce her knowing she's got a man already is a predatory slimeball.

Don't think that the eligable, potentially interested, healthy single chicks won't notice and warn all their friends.  Any chick that is aroused by your action is decidedly UNhealthy (no matter how hot she is) and unhealthy hot chicks know how to mess your head around (and your finances) more than you've ever experienced.

Respect yourself.  There's some nice joy in finding a healthy single girl to seduce and having the one who said "now or never" (how's that work? are you supposed to drive to where she is RIGHT NOW?) see you happy and with someone who isn't sneaking around behind another guy's back.

Guys don't tend to respond well to other guys honing in on their chicks, either, and some of your "Friends" you think may back you up if he comes to rough you up may not back you up because they've been cheated on themselves and have no respect for cheaters.

Tread carefully :wink:


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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: potgrrl]
    #14444804 - 05/13/11 10:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I also agree with your friend:  She DID fuck you up.  Otherwise you wouldn't be having such vindictive fantasies of getting back at her by potentially screwing up her current relationship.


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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: potgrrl]
    #14444993 - 05/13/11 11:19 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

So what should I do?  Just say fuck her and leave this whole mess alone?  I deeply feel as though there is some sort of action I need to take in order to "fix" this situation. 

Whenever I decide that I no longer want to pursue any sort of relationship with her, she usually ends up trying to talk to me after a while, which totally confuses the shit out of me.


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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: shimishimiman]
    #14445021 - 05/13/11 11:23 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Give me her number and I'll fix the situation for you
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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #14446785 - 05/13/11 05:35 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Don't worry about "fixing" it.  It kinda makes you look weak.  I mean, unless you were completely inappropriate and then deliver a single, specific apology and then let it go forever.  Don't repeat your apology, and don't try to change her reaction to your apology (let her have her reaction, it's hers).

And we women come back to talk to you after you've given up because the attention you lavished on us (and hey if you bought us stuff hoping to buy our sexual attention and failed, bonus for us!) was fun and we like attention.

Especially attention from guys who get confused about the push-pull and don't verbalize anything about what they'd like to do with us.  It's nice to feel wanted, and feels very powerful to be wanted and know that the guy is too scair't to make a move.

So, the moral of the story is to be more clear about what you want from a woman if you want to be with her sexually and not just as a flirt buddy.

But this one?  She's with another dude.  Go find something else to obsess on, and when she talks to you, let her know you'd love to hear from her when she's unattatched because you've thought a lot about her soft, silky skin...

Then don't get sucked into general conversation with her.  If she talks to you, ask her about her boyfriend.  Each and Every Time.  When she says they're still together, your response is "see ya later then".  When says she's broken up with him, ask her out on a date and then escalate right from the very beginning to make it clear what you're interested in.  You'll know right away whether she's just an attention whore looking for guys who will try to win her affection while tucking their penis between their legs (clue: she'll get mad at your directness), or if she's interested in you that way too (she'll giggle, be shy, or hold serious eye contact and not say a thing).


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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: potgrrl]
    #14450586 - 05/14/11 11:05 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

HOLY SHIT!  That is some sound fucking advice.  Good god potgrrl, you need to write a book on this shit.


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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: shimishimiman]
    #14450624 - 05/14/11 11:11 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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shimishimiman said:
HOLY SHIT!  That is some sound fucking advice.  Good god potgrrl, you need to write a book on this shit.




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Re: Seducing old friends [Re: g00ru]
    #14450647 - 05/14/11 11:16 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

exactly, if she's still with a guy turn around and say see ya, very good, no need to play 3rd fiddle.

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