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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14445076 - 05/13/11 11:33 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Haha maybe he has a big dick? Yeah I know but I get a little over defensive sometimes. Sorry, I have my grumpy days. I'm going to sleep, night all!
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14445175 - 05/13/11 11:56 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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probably, hes a massive bloke so it would be stupid if he had a tiny one
Now you got me thinking about dick 
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: thoughts]
#14445196 - 05/13/11 12:07 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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iwasaClown said: I find it extremely hard not to laugh a little bit when i first talk to a cross-eyed or one-eyed person. I'm not really laughing at them, but more at myself as i'm struggling to see which eye is their good eye.
It bugs me so bad i completely lose focus on the conversation thinking the whole time "Oh shit, oh shit, find the right one."
This happened to me not too long ago. I can feel the person noticing the problem. I bet it makes them want to laugh as well,when someone cant choose which of their eyes is "the good one".
I wish we were all more honest is social situations. Things would run a lot smoother. I love how the movie "Human Traffic" portrays social paranoia and awkward moments.
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directly at their crotch at all times, occasionally raising my eyebrows as if i'm surprised by something happening.
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aNeway2sayHooray said:
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iwasaClown said: I find it extremely hard not to laugh a little bit when i first talk to a cross-eyed or one-eyed person. I'm not really laughing at them, but more at myself as i'm struggling to see which eye is their good eye.
It bugs me so bad i completely lose focus on the conversation thinking the whole time "Oh shit, oh shit, find the right one."
This happened to me not too long ago. I can feel the person noticing the problem. I bet it makes them want to laugh as well,when someone cant choose which of their eyes is "the good one".
I wish we were all more honest is social situations. Things would run a lot smoother. I love how the movie "Human Traffic" portrays social paranoia and awkward moments.
I'm with you on that. Gotta check that movie out now.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14445301 - 05/13/11 12:33 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Ahh sorry I missed the point and just read the I have massive tits bit.
I'm sure. But I shouldn't have expected anything different on the net.
My fault really, I suppose. Though I wouldn't ask a guy for photos of his Dick if he mentioned his size. *shrugs*
lets trade, i PM u my big cock and u post tits...deal?
on topic: i always look people in the eyes when I talk to them. Sometimes I'll break eye contact for a second or two, but I always like to stay focused on their face/eyes. Besides, it makes a lot of people uncomfortable, and it's funny to see how different people react to different amounts of eye contact. Also, if you're looking someone in the eyes, and they look down, it's a sign that they are submissive to you, not intimidated though....it happens a lot w/ the opposite gender. If I make eye contact with a cute girl and she makes it back, then bows her head down, it means she thinks I'm cute and is a little nervous about the eye contact. If she looks away, but not down, it means she's uninterested. At least, that's how I've seen it my whole life and it's proven to be true.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Anthony917]
#14445446 - 05/13/11 01:08 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Its true to an extent.
People fake it though and theres many possible reasons for the body language.
I've pretended to be submissive in fights before by bowing because it makes your opponent underestimate you. Jedi mind tricks. I won the fight. Or at least I walked away, he was knocked out because he didn't think I would strike after acting submissive. In fighting nobody wins but he picked it and I was sneaky.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14445458 - 05/13/11 01:11 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hahah nice tactic...
seriously though, try it out on the street, or anywhere. Make eye contact with everyone you pass and don't break it. Watch how many people are intimidated by eye contact and bow their heads down...especially chicks (who may find you attractive)
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14445524 - 05/13/11 01:26 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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when i talk to people i switch between looking into their eyes and looking elsewhere. variety is good. but i dont find it awkward. eye to eye is making a connection.
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AntiEverything said: some people find eye contact to be weird?
weird.
not so much weird, but it can be intense. I don't maintain extended periods of constant eye contact with anyone other than my girlfriend. I feel like people I don't know well are trying to establish an unnecessarily intimate connection by maintaining constant eye contact and it creeps me out a little. I usually look at the person's eyes as they're speaking to me or while I'm speaking to them.
Theres no need to stare at people. I hate it when people stare at me as if they're trying to read me or "figure me out". People fucking stare me down allll the time. One of these days I'm gonna start flipping them off.
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thissongis said: Being insecure as fuck my whole life, I would be so afraid to even talk to someone I wasnt comfortable with, especially if they kept eye contact the whole time. I would NEVER make eye contact and look past the person. Got a few diff jobs and learned how to interact with people correctly, eye to eye the whole time when a conversation is taking place with an occasional glance away, or at titties if they are present.
I have a friend who has the exact same issue, but probably a lot worse. He's a good guy but when he's in a conversation with someone (including me and we've been friends since childhood) he stands at an angle from them and faces straight ahead rather than looking at them. Its kinda weird to have someone talking to you while you're facing right at him, but he's standing at an angle that faces slightly away from you and staring off into the distance while he's talking to you.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: BoneMan]
#14445921 - 05/13/11 02:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I stare at the gap in their teeth or their nose hairs.
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you only talk to people with gaps in their teeth and nose hair? bigotry!
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: BoneMan]
#14446018 - 05/13/11 03:13 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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BoneMan said: People fucking stare me down allll the time. One of these days I'm gonna start flipping them off.
I would not choose to play their game. If people want to feel good and powerful in their ego by staring people out - just let them.
If you choose to participate then your only stooping to that level. Really it just shows how insecure they are if they have to do shit like that to feel good - you can pretty much guarantee they have a very sad life.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14446048 - 05/13/11 03:20 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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nice1 said:
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BoneMan said: People fucking stare me down allll the time. One of these days I'm gonna start flipping them off.
I would not choose to play their game. If people want to feel good and powerful in their ego by staring people out - just let them.
If you choose to participate then your only stooping to that level. Really it just shows how insecure they are if they have to do shit like that to feel good - you can pretty much guarantee they have a very sad life.
good thing my mom told me not to stare
left eye is considered feminin and right is masculine so if you feel weird look left eye to left.
but dont feel weird bc that is just dumb
you are the master of thoughts dont be negative.
if youre worried youre going to make them worried.. thats never good. be nice
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i look at the right eye, but then i switch to the left, and ya know off into the distance every now and then
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i generally try to stare people in the eye when im talking but seem to not when im thinking of things to say during a conversation.
unless im really tired and looped. or really stoned, then my mind tends to wonder from thing to thing.
although i would consider myself just a bit crazier then most people. 
also no one mentioned the mythos of evil eye beliefs, which a lot of people actually holds some truth to eye contact.
check it out 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_eye
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14446985 - 05/13/11 06:18 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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props to you for the fight club sig. fuckin love that movie.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Mello Kitty]
#14447024 - 05/13/11 06:25 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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ellenallien said: where do you look?
this mite sound weird. but ive noticed now that im not so high, i almost dont know where to look at people when i talk to them without it being weird. maybe im just over thinking things lately but im almost uncomfortable with it. its impossible to look into both of their eyes. do you stare between the middle of their eyes? or into just one eye? its even harder if someone has lazy eye. i will look away before i let my eyes burn a hole into them.
I think the same thing. Eye contact is so awkward if you don't really care what the person is saying but you're being polite by keeping eye contact.
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Changsta said: What I do is look at them in the eyes for like 2-5 seconds, then switch off and look away from them, then repeat 
Ditto.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Brugman]
#14447065 - 05/13/11 06:33 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I look to one eye (usually their right one, go figure ) eventually I may switch. But I have questioned myself the same thing.
I hate it when people talk to me looking at my hair (up) and even worse when looking at my boobs, I may actually automatically change my tone and stop being so nice to that person.
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