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Jiji
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: pouihi]
#14447082 - 05/13/11 06:37 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Ahh sorry I missed the point and just read the I have massive tits bit.
I'm sure. But I shouldn't have expected anything different on the net.
My fault really, I suppose. Though I wouldn't ask a guy for photos of his Dick if he mentioned his size. *shrugs*
lets trade, i PM u my big cock and u post tits...deal.
I think I'll pass, Penises are ugly. I'd be getting the shit end of the deal.
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JesusGoneRogue said: props to you for the fight club sig. fuckin love that movie.
Thank you! I need to watch it again, even if my partner thinks I'm obsessed. Haha.
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pouihi said: I look to one eye (usually their right one, go figure ) eventually I may switch. But I have questioned myself the same thing.
I hate it when people talk to me looking at my hair (up) and even worse when looking at my boobs, I may actually automatically change my tone and stop being so nice to that person.
Yeah I do the same if it's more than a glance.
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the human abstract said: left eye is considered feminin and right is masculine so if you feel weird look left eye to left.
Wait... what? Considered by whom?
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Brugman]
#14447098 - 05/13/11 06:39 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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the human abstract said: left eye is considered feminin and right is masculine so if you feel weird look left eye to left.
Wait... what? Considered by whom?
I believed the flying spaghetti monster was once quoted as saying that.
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Anthony917
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14447128 - 05/13/11 06:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Ahh sorry I missed the point and just read the I have massive tits bit.
I'm sure. But I shouldn't have expected anything different on the net.
My fault really, I suppose. Though I wouldn't ask a guy for photos of his Dick if he mentioned his size. *shrugs*
lets trade, i PM u my big cock and u post tits...deal.
I think I'll pass, Penises are ugly. I'd be getting the shit end of the deal.
hey I have a pretty penis tyvm
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Anthony917]
#14447260 - 05/13/11 07:11 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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hey I have a pretty penis tyvm
Prove it, tough guy!
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DarkMatterOfFact said: i generally try to stare people in the eye when im talking but seem to not when im thinking of things to say during a conversation.
unless im really tired and looped. or really stoned, then my mind tends to wonder from thing to thing.
although i would consider myself just a bit crazier then most people. 
also no one mentioned the mythos of evil eye beliefs, which a lot of people actually holds some truth to eye contact.
check it out 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_eye
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I used to just stare at people. Lol... then I realised you can't do either extreme.
Gotta look at them, then glance away occasionally so as to not make them uncomfortable. =]
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Brugman]
#14447476 - 05/13/11 07:49 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Brugman said:
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hey I have a pretty penis tyvm
Prove it, tough guy!

haha naw I don't really want to post my dick on the shroomery
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14448651 - 05/13/11 11:11 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Its true to an extent.
People fake it though and theres many possible reasons for the body language.
I've pretended to be submissive in fights before by bowing because it makes your opponent underestimate you. Jedi mind tricks. I won the fight. Or at least I walked away, he was knocked out because he didn't think I would strike after acting submissive. In fighting nobody wins but he picked it and I was sneaky.
alot of times you can avoid a fight by just seizing control of the situation and scaring them out of it. but theres different responses for different situations, theres no one reaction fits all response in these type of scenarios.
like in certain situations you can scare them out of it by saying something particularly nasty or screaming at them. other times if someone nuts up at you, what i've found can actually settle a situation and throw an odd ball at them is when they lunge toward you aggressively you lunge forward as well but put your hand out and say relax man theres no problem here. because it shows your not scared to fight and that your disregarding their threat, and most times it will make them think and reconsider, in which time you can talk them out of it. but if they guy is like a raging bull and still doesn't respond , not much you can do about that. i reckon its better just to run most of the time. why bother with that.
i've had it happen to me though in reverse. we were in teh carpark of a pub and a few friends of friends were having a bit of an animated arguement with other people for some reason or other, and i was laughing while watching, and this dude comes up from the side and behind me and goes ' you piece of shit ' in a reaaaaaaaaaaaaally bad tone. and i turned around and put my arm out open palm facing up at him and i go ' what the fuck , im not a piece of shit your a piece of shit '. i wasn't going to start anything i was just replying, and then out of no where man he threw a glass at the ground and kicked me in the inner thigh with these like sharp pointed boots at the same time. and it fucken cained man, i thought he stabbed me for a second and i froze up. he did the same thing on me, he seized the situation and controlled me. i looked down and realised i'd just been kicked, and then i slowly and controlledly stood upright and stared him in the face, well within striking distance and didnt move or say anything but just stared him down intensely. i was ready to wreck that cunt man if he hit me again he would have left in an ambulance lol. but yeah he bowed out and went back inside the pub. and thats all folks. its all about controlling the situation. my leg was farked for about two weeks though. had a bruise the size of soccerball.
but yeah i'd say the best thing to do where possible is just run, why risk getting hurt/arrested/sued/whatever.
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I dont have a problem with looking at people while i'm talking to them.
i have more of a problem of where to direct my eyes when standing in a group of people when i'm not the one talking.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Pigasus]
#14448696 - 05/13/11 11:24 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah me too, i usually just turn to face the person talking or look at whoever is talking.
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the worst is when you're on a crowded bus sitting in those inward-facing seats so you've got people two feet across from you, and you're trying to focus on some part of the window between two people or something...
I dunno why, those situations just make me uncomfortable
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Changsta said: What I do is look at them in the eyes for like 2-5 seconds, then switch off and look away from them, then repeat 
me too but just the whole face for 1.5 - 2 seconds then switch off.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Epigallo]
#14448738 - 05/13/11 11:32 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I got shifty eyes, man.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Pigasus]
#14448742 - 05/13/11 11:33 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah, i really hate public transport, or at night time when the windows become like mirrors and everywhere you look theres someone. its awkward as.
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i have been having a problem with walking through the grocery store lately. i can't seem to look at people without feeling like i am glaring at them. i would like to know what kind of people are surrounding me, but for me to look at them long enough to absorb all of the details it feels like i am trying to initiate a staring contest. haha
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I wouldn't say i hate public transportation in general.
it's what more people should do, so I get to stroke my ego about being green and I really don't mind sitting by a bunch of a strangers as long as i'm not seated so i'm staring directly into their faces. unfortunately where I live the public transportation is woefully inadequate
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Epigallo]
#14448986 - 05/14/11 12:33 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah im a bit awkward in grocery stores too, i mostly just ignore people and go about my business.
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its harder for me to focus on the conversation during eye contact
all i can think about is the eye contact itself
which is weird cuz they probably think im not listening as intently when im gazing off but it actually helps me pay attention
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Natorade]
#14449065 - 05/14/11 12:53 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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don't you just love when you start thinking about which eye to focus your eyes on, then end up switching from eye to eye, then trying to focus on the nose area between the eyes, etc.?
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