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EternalCowabunga
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How do you feel abother another's hate?
#14435742 - 05/11/11 04:45 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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When someone around me is full of hate, it makes me uncomfortable.
When someone who is full of hate looks at me in the eyes I have to roll my eyes away.
When someone who is full of hate is around me I must breathe deeper and more expansive.
But I don't think this is the case for everyone. I am just getting out of a hateful place in my heart. Before that I was in love. And before that I was in hate.
The thing about hate is that nobody wants to share it with you. Which makes hate re-inforcing. Being full of hate will isolate you, which will make you hate people more, which will isolate you even more...
Are you at a place within yourself where hatred doesn't phase you?
How do you act towards a hateful person?
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I hate people who use the word 'abother'.
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others hate doesnt effect me at all. 99% of the time that persons hate is founded in ignorance of the greater context of the situation, whatever that may be, or it is their own damn fault. I look at a person who has hate in them as someone who is just lacking in perspective, and I try to offer new ways of looking at situations or emotions.
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: Greenvalley]
#14435779 - 05/11/11 04:54 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Once they realize how awesome you truly are, the hate just melts away.
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only some of the time
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I know allot of people that love to share hate with one another, especially with me!! Hatred hates loneliness!!
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EternalCowabunga
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: Altered States]
#14435904 - 05/11/11 05:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Now that I think of it I used to have no problem spreading my hate.
Maybe when we feel hate is justified we don't mind sharing it, but when we know the hate is just a personal issue we may be ashamed or embarrased of the hate
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EternalCowabunga
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Quote:
OrgoneConclusion said: I hate people who use the word 'abother'.
thats weird, I was sure I wrote "about"
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What's it all anout?
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EternalCowabunga
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a lot of people see OC as senile, cranky and cynical
not me
but won't it be funny when he gets a little older and he's lost his mental acuity
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Quote:
EternalCowabunga said: Are you at a place within yourself where hatred doesn't phase you?
Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't..I don't know why I let it phase me sometimes, I think a part of me just really wishes that people weren't like that. 
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EternalCowabunga said: How do you act towards a hateful person?
It depends..I usually just ignore them, but if I have to interact with them for some reason, I'm usually friendly and courteous.
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EternalCowabunga said: a lot of people see OC as senile, cranky and cynical
not me
but won't it be funny when he gets a little older and he's lost his mental acuity
*cue rap beat*
Senior Citi-zen Just another has-been
Looking for the answer He could never find Now he's lost his mind And his bus transfer
Maybe we should feel for him Spin a prayer wheel for him
Crop circle jerker Just another lurker
Quantum reality Farm bestiality
Death anxiety False humble piety
Niburu Guru, Swami and Master Tells you how to live When his own life Is a total disaster
Smart-ass Smoke some grass Shroomin' zoomin, Fourth dimensionality Talking about potentiality
Woodstock Roll & Rock Hunka-hunka Burning Man
LSD, DMT, Mantoids on Opioids Ripping open reality Snap, crackle, pop! Uh oh, they have come for me!
Self-transforming Elvii Dribbling jewels Bunch of blind fools They have left the Building 7.
World Trade Center Nine eleven Truthers Osama, Obama Even yo mama The conspiracy you enter.
Above Pop Secret Abduction, liposuction The truth is out there But no one is listening
Tommy can you hear me?
Government lies New World Order of Fries Super-size me Nothing can surprise me
Overdose Should have died When I was just Just thirty fried.
White light Here I come Judgement Day Let's have some fun!
*end rap beat*
I think the drugz wore off now. Please return to your regulary scheduled post.
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I'll produce the beats if you rap the flows, OC. We'll make millions. 
On topic: when a person is acting hatefully towards me it usually makes me more calm and collected; for some reason the more passionate and angry they get, it becomes easier for me to observe the situation coolly and unemotionally. This usually angers the person even further because their behavior is having no effect, and I typically end up laughing at the ludicrousness of the situation.
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Quote:
OrgoneConclusion said:
Quote:
EternalCowabunga said: a lot of people see OC as senile, cranky and cynical
not me
but won't it be funny when he gets a little older and he's lost his mental acuity
*cue rap beat*
Senior Citi-zen Just another has-been
Looking for the answer He could never find Now he's lost his mind And his bus transfer
Maybe we should feel for him Spin a prayer wheel for him
Crop circle jerker Just another lurker
Quantum reality Farm bestiality
Death anxiety False humble piety
Niburu Guru, Swami and Master Tells you how to live When his own life Is a total disaster
Smart-ass Smoke some grass Shroomin' zoomin, Fourth dimensionality Talking about potentiality
Woodstock Roll & Rock Hunka-hunka Burning Man
LSD, DMT, Mantoids on Opioids Ripping open reality Snap, crackle, pop! Uh oh, they have come for me!
Self-transforming Elvii Dribbling jewels Bunch of blind fools They have left the Building 7.
World Trade Center Nine eleven Truthers Osama, Obama Even yo mama The conspiracy you enter.
Above Pop Secret Abduction, liposuction The truth is out there But no one is listening
Tommy can you hear me?
Government lies New World Order of Fries Super-size me Nothing can surprise me
Overdose Should have died When I was just Just thirty fried.
White light Here I come Judgement Day Let's have some fun!
*end rap beat*
I think the drugz wore off now. Please return to your regulary scheduled post.
new world order of fries
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: Satyapriya]
#14438524 - 05/12/11 03:10 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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It wasn't my best work and the cadence was off, but sometimes I hit a double.
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: deCypher]
#14440321 - 05/12/11 01:52 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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deCypher said: This usually angers the person even further because their behavior is having no effect, and I typically end up laughing at the ludicrousness of the situation. 
I do that sometimes, too.
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: Poid]
#14440503 - 05/12/11 02:39 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Aside from having this face of mine, I don't do much to provoke. If someone has a problem with me then they more than likely have a problem with my face
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Quote:
EternalCowabunga said: When someone around me is full of hate, it makes me uncomfortable.
When someone who is full of hate looks at me in the eyes I have to roll my eyes away.
When someone who is full of hate is around me I must breathe deeper and more expansive.
How do you act towards a hateful person?
I rarely have to deal with such hateful people. If someone acts this hateful toward me I avoid them if possible. I think people put a lot of pressure on each other to conform, and that causes resentment.
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Re: How do you feel abother another's hate? [Re: HippieChick8]
#14456719 - 05/15/11 02:57 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm quite emotionally fragile. Unless everyone around me is in a really good mood I feel like shit. When there is a lot of hate around me I tend to absorb it. Luckily I havn't had what you'd call a red mst moment in a few years.
I can't be around hateful people, or even mildly unpleasant people because I end up being the primary source of agression and anger. I think this is a good thing because it makes me seek out very kind, gentle and beautiful people.
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I think this is a good thing because it makes me seek out very kind, gentle and beautiful people.

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