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johnnyjae
The guy....



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Virgins
#14422620 - 05/08/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Im 23 male and a virgin... Not by choice but due to lack of social skills such as small talk and initiating conversations with chicks nonetheless. Wondering how many people on this site are virgins and curious of your age range. Also wondering how to overcome this obstacle of losing my Vcard. As of late been thinking of going to a rave and finding the most fucked up chick there and doing the dirty deed.... But that would probably be rape..... LOL
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Anonymous #1
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Im a virgin and 18 by choice, yes by choice, I have had many opprotunities but just never went for it. Im kind of half and half when it comes to socializing, kind of introvert, and kind of extrovert depending on the situation and mood. It is not that hard to talk to girls or anybody for that matter. You just gotta keep calm and relaxed, and just talk.
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Boheim
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not polishing skills or initiating conversations is a choice...you made several choices throughout life to not do so,so now your social skills have suffered as far as girls go....go socialize...you don't have to(and I wouldn't advise it) hunt down the one retarded whore at the party.
everyone is different.some people tease,others only have shiny phones and cars...you have to figure out what gets your type of girl to come your way....or you can be like countless other people and settle for less just because she/he is willing without effort
don't creep on people.and don't cling.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Virgins [Re: Boheim]
#14422977 - 05/09/11 02:15 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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the hardest part is making the first move, just remember "lesser men have done more."
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Bipolarbear
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Don't think so hard on it johnnyjae. Go talk to girls and just ask them questions and keep asking them questions if there is about to be a lull in the conversation. Like "what do you do for work?" "do you like it? why not? well what would you rather be doing? you want to work with giant pandas? wow me too! they're so cute! so have you always been into pandas?"
Just keep going on like that and you'll be conversing and she'll relax enough to maybe start asking you some questions back at which point, you've got it, you'll make sexy times before you know it. Remember, no matter how hot a chick is there is a guy somewhere who is tired of her shit. Keep that in mind.
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Funkadelics
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Registered: 08/09/10
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The biggest obstacle you could have is giving virginity importance. It makes you feel like you have to try and be different.
Go talk to girls for the fuck of it, just for talking for playing for teasing and kidding around. Don't expect sex, that way you don't get yourself disappointed.
Sex will come to you when you stop trying so hard to be something you are not. You need to be natural and yourself.
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owls
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Quote:
johnnyjae said: Im 23 male and a virgin... Not by choice but due to lack of social skills such as small talk and initiating conversations with chicks nonetheless. Wondering how many people on this site are virgins and curious of your age range. Also wondering how to overcome this obstacle of losing my Vcard. As of late been thinking of going to a rave and finding the most fucked up chick there and doing the dirty deed.... But that would probably be rape..... LOL
i'm that exact age and still a virgin. hell i'll probably be 24 before i lose it but who knows
i wouldn't try to rush it necessarily unless that's what you want. i'd rather have my first time mean something
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Virgins [Re: owls]
#14438405 - 05/12/11 02:20 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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18 and a virgin. Feels bad man.
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monkeyheaven



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Loc: yonder
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Quote:
johnnyjae said: Im 23 male and a virgin... Not by choice but due to lack of social skills such as small talk and initiating conversations with chicks nonetheless. Wondering how many people on this site are virgins and curious of your age range. Also wondering how to overcome this obstacle of losing my Vcard. As of late been thinking of going to a rave and finding the most fucked up chick there and doing the dirty deed.... But that would probably be rape..... LOL
Creepy weirdos at raves trying to bang fucked up chicks isn't funny at all. I've been to enough raves to know your type and you really need a psychologist and a hooker. Don't fuck up the music scene. If you're not attractive enough to have been seduced by a lady at 23, pay for help and pay for lessons.
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MisterMuscaria



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Re: Virgins [Re: owls]
#14439876 - 05/12/11 12:04 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I lost my virginity the first day I didnt try to get laid.
I said to myself in my head "Im NOT gonna try to fuck this girl" even though she was hot. Before I knew it I was up in her.
Years before that I had all kinds of girls who wanted to have sex with me but I was either too daft to see it or had too much performance anxiety and didnt want to admit that I was a virgin and didnt know how to do it.
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eqt146
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18 and a virgin here (never even ahd a girlfriend, kisseda girl, anything). Oh well, there's really no need to have sex for purposes other than procreation. The only reason humans have a desire for casual sex is because of our sex hormones, which evolved in order to make non-sentient animals have an urge to procreate. Humans know that sex is needed to procreate so we don't really need that extra "push" from sex hormones. I can just ignore it, and masturbate when ever I feel like it.
I wouldn't mind having sex, but I stopped being all depressed about how no girls ever talked to me when I was like 15... Also I have pretty bad social anxiety so trying to make things happen myself isn't really an option. Whatever.
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shLong



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Re: Virgins [Re: eqt146]
#14440632 - 05/12/11 03:17 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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eqt146 said: there's really no need to have sex for purposes other than procreation.
Spoken like a real virgin, well done!
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Virgins [Re: shLong]
#14441580 - 05/12/11 06:54 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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shLong said:
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eqt146 said: there's really no need to have sex for purposes other than procreation.
Spoken like a real virgin, well done!

^^ Sex. Not for procreation. Just for funsies. There's really no need for flavour, art or colours either. They are all just distractions.
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MattyBong
Infected Mushroom



Registered: 03/14/10
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I was a virgin up until I was 21 which was 3 years ago.
Im right with ya with the lack of social skills and self esteem.
I was picturing myself in The 40 Year Old Virgin Part 2.
HOWEVER.....Some bisexual chick PICKED ME UP at a strip club and we proceeded to do the deed for the next 3 months with her girlfriend.....
.....till she got prego and I got the fuck up outta that scene.
NOT MINE BITCH!!!
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shLong



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Quote:
MattyBong said:
.....till she got prego and I got the fuck up outta that scene.
NOT MINE BITCH!!!
U sure?
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MattyBong
Infected Mushroom



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Re: Virgins [Re: shLong]
#14445110 - 05/13/11 11:41 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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absolutly not, but she was 100% convinced that it was her ex's cause she was still fucking around with him. and he was 100% convinced too.
GOOD NUFF FOR ME!!!
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shLong



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Good luck, pal...
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MattyBong
Infected Mushroom



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Re: Virgins [Re: shLong]
#14445158 - 05/13/11 11:52 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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shLong said: Good luck, pal...
Since its been over 3 years, yeah I'd say my lucks been good. THANKS!
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shLong



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Oh, well you shoulda said that to begin with 
Nevermind, I re-read, you did
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Lennyk
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Quote:
MattyBong said:
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shLong said: Good luck, pal...
Since its been over 3 years, yeah I'd say my lucks been good. THANKS!
unwanted kids make me sad
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