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rational


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I'm in love with my best friend
#14419429 - 05/08/11 12:44 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't have many people to talk to about this issue, so if I could get some feedback i'd greatly appreciate it. I haven't smoked for months until last night when I went to Philadelphia to hang out with my sister's friends.
I smoked to the point where I was higher than I've ever been. As we headed to a club, I was enjoying myself but then I realized the people I was around and it felt so foreign. It wasn't that my sister's friends weren't good people, i just felt removed from everyone there.
Then I started thinking of my best friend, who is my ex-boyfriend and all I wanted to do was see and be with him. it really made me feel like a horrible friend: This is the boy I love, who I can't see because I'm scared of what my parents will think and because I'm afraid I could never make him happy. In my mind and heart, what makes me happy is being with him but I'm just so scared. What should I do? He doesn't want to communicate or be together until I'm not restricted by my parents and my fears.
-------------------- I want to explore all the facets of my mind
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: rational]
#14419552 - 05/08/11 01:07 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sounds like your a lil young? and he May be a lil older? or whats wrong with him that your parents wont like him? Are you a boy and thats why your parents wont like him?- But best bet would to be to do what your parents say within reason- dont want to get knocked up and ruin your life, how would you pay for a child if you still live with your parents?especially in this economy. He sounds a lil controlling,he doesnt want to communicate, till your not "restricted" by your parents. And remember there are plenty of other people, and lots more life. The first One is not neccessarly the Long term ONE. Yadda mean. So in short introduce this guy to your parents,then make a decision,but he should respect your parernts rules,they take care of you, not him.
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rational


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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: 2jew4u]
#14420571 - 05/08/11 05:16 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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We are both in our early 20s, I'm 24 and he'll be 23 in June. They don't like that he smokes weed. He doesn't like it when I choose what my parents do over him because he sees it doesn't make me happy. I'm just scared of my parents will think of me but I miss him alot and vice versa
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2jew4u
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: rational]
#14421052 - 05/08/11 06:40 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh then thats totally different, you 2 move out, get your own apt, live a lil. and if everything goes bad your parents will just tell you i told you so. Just take Birth controll, every thing will be alright. Your parents are just being really protective B/c u are a girl,(only child?) dont want anything bad to happen to you. Just be smart, use your head.
Edited by 2jew4u (05/08/11 06:42 PM)
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: 2jew4u]
#14421595 - 05/08/11 08:25 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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What the guy above me said. Your parents love you and they will take you back if you make a mistake.
So go and be with him, nothing should hold you back from love.
-------------------- No one behind, no one ahead. The path the ancients cleared has closed. And the other path, everyone's path, easy and wide, goes nowhere. I am alone and find my way.
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: MoxyOx]
#14422185 - 05/08/11 10:08 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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this thread is cute
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14422476 - 05/08/11 11:08 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: this thread is cute 
you're cute. wanna make out?
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Re: I'm in love with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14424002 - 05/09/11 10:56 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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ok
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