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Larrythescaryrex
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Domestic Violence: It rarely stops.
#14414891 - 05/07/11 11:55 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is an issue that I think all of use need to be concerned about. It can start with a something simple like a slap or a shove, but once it starts it really does rarely stop. Lets give emy reynolds the credit she deserves for this emotional cover of peter gabriel's "mercy street."
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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The Ecstatic
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am I concerned? sure
am I gonna hand out flyers and urged others to spread awareness? no
Americans (myself included) are too lazy to transition from the awareness stage to the action plan. Surely no one is FOR domestic violence, yet it will continue to happen.
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Larrythescaryrex
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another nice version, but lacking the emotional punch.
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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Larrythescaryrex
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: The Ecstatic]
#14414929 - 05/07/11 12:05 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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you'd be amazed at the violence that would continue if we were in the same room right now.
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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lil_demented
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Damn, Larry just said something scary. Did you beat your ex? Is that why your Larry the scary ex?
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But what can I do about it?
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Larrythescaryrex
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: lil_demented]
#14414952 - 05/07/11 12:10 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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can you imagine a Rex that would not be scary?
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Quote:
Larrythescaryrex said: can you imagine a Rex that would not be scary?

Oh, I see it now. I thought it just said "ex" not "rex" So you beat her just to scare her then? Thats cool. I feel ya. Sometimes they talk too much.
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Larrythescaryrex
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: lil_demented]
#14415211 - 05/07/11 01:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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people just don't realize how things slowly escalate.
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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lil_demented
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I've been a victim of domestic violence. My dad was and is crazy. He would start yelling and screaming at me if there was something he had a problem with. If I said, "Fine, your right." He'd stop and feel better because he was right.  But if I even slightly argued with him and tried to tell him my side of the situation he would just start swinging at me. He is 4 inches taller than me and about 100 pounds heavier than I am and he did it the entire time I lived at his house for as long as I can remember.
I ended up calling the cops on him one day, and I told them he didn't hit me cause I didn't want him to get in trouble, only to be embarrassed about they way he was acting.
Then shortly after, I moved the fuck out. I realized it was really unhealthy for me to stay there, even though him and mom tried to talk me out of leaving.
I joke only because it makes me feel better. I'd never hit another person in anger, only in self defense cause I know the mental damage it can cause someone.
Since I left, I've gotten so much self confidence back. So much more motivation to keep myself taken care of. I found I screwed off and quit jobs just to defy him cause there wasn't any other way I could get back at him.
Edited by lil_demented (05/07/11 01:31 PM)
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Larrythescaryrex
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: lil_demented]
#14415273 - 05/07/11 01:31 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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my dad was like that too.
he also taught karate.
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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Bodhi of Ankou
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Theres really nothing you can do for them, If the silly bitch was smart enough she would leave the asshole and never see him again there are shelters out there for woman looking for an escape from a abusive relationship and almost all of them go crawling right back to them. Its so fuckin stupid I cant even wrap my head around it
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14415309 - 05/07/11 01:39 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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They feel like they don't have any other option. They are not just physically abused but mentally also. They are told they can't do it on their own, they are wrong, they don't know... Anything to keep their confidence down so they don't leave.
The person doing the abusing wants to be in control and they will use manipulation and violence to keep that control they so desire.
The abused need to be educated that they are living with a sick person. That sick person needs help, they will never get help until they get in trouble. Sometimes getting in trouble helps and the couple can go on with their lives. Most of the time it just keeps happening until the woman leaves or is killed.
Especially women, they think "I can fix him, I just have to keep working with him. He takes care of me." When he actually tells her she cannot get a job cause he doesn't want her to be independent. He needs that control.
It takes a sick sick person to feel like they deserve to control someone using violence and manipulation. Especially someone they claim to "LOVE"
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: lil_demented]
#14415346 - 05/07/11 01:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I know how the cycle runs Ive seen it to many times with my own eyes, No matter what it doesnt negate the fact that they can make it on there own if they really need to and there are resources freely available to people in that exact situation. I'll never get how abused woman can be so naive as to fall for a bit of emotional manipulation and go right back to the man who laid into her.
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14415360 - 05/07/11 01:52 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I see your point. I probably look at it a little different because the domestic abuse I was involved in was my dad. And he did it since I was old enough to talk.
But a woman was somehow supported before she met said man, why would she think she can't get back out and support herself again? That is pretty naive.
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: lil_demented]
#14415375 - 05/07/11 01:55 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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if I was aware of someone that abusive.. i would likely ice pick the lung of the abuser and if I couldn't get off with a lawyer, either run or say fuck it and go on a streak until they catch me fucking up other known fuckers-like real sex offenders. There are certain times I would rather just go in black and white mode and do shit and pay for it.
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Larrythescaryrex
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: Lennyk]
#14416632 - 05/07/11 09:21 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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Larrythescaryrex
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Some people right here on the shroomery like to smack chicks around.
-------------------- RIP Acidic_Sloth Sunset_Mission said: "larry the scary rex verily scary when thoroughly vexed invoke the shadows and dust, cast a hex mercifully massacring memories masterfully relocate from Ur to 8th density and become a cosmic bully mulder and scully couldn't decipher his glyphs invoke the shadows and dust, smoke infernal spliffs" April 24th 2011
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Violence is the greatest sign of weakness.
Even if you disagree with my sentiment above, here is a fantastic and emotional song about the subject.
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Quote:
Larrythescaryrex said: Some people right here on the shroomery like to smack chicks around.
Who? I'll kill em!
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: thoughts]
#14436250 - 05/11/11 06:23 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Domestic Violence: It rarely stops. [Re: thoughts]
#14436498 - 05/11/11 07:22 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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iwasaClown said:
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Larrythescaryrex said: Some people right here on the shroomery like to smack chicks around.
Who? I'll kill em!
I beat bitches up if they hit me first.
You all sound like a bunch of fucking anti-suffragists. Whatever happened to equal opportunity? 50/50? Old enough to hit and you get hit back?
For what it's worth I don't agree with reciprocal violence except for in a heat of the moment situation when it's required to defend oneself.
Sounds like none of you have been serenaded by lady Holiday.
Ain't Nobody's Business, especially not yours ^_^.
If bitches with pussy can't figure out how to give the pussy away to a motherfucker that won't be beatin' and bangin' all upside their head, they need to be where they're at.
You ain't even gotta sell pussy man it sells itself. They say "like nothin' else" but I dunno, dope is pretty similar.
How you gonna feel bad for a dope dealer that lets motherfuckers beat him on sacks? That's his problem, he's the one with all the cards and yet fucking up time and again.
Bitches need to slang their dope in the right hoods.
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