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OfflineBumm
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How do I overcome a fatal attraction?
    #14411678 - 05/06/11 06:14 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

So I have this friend that I am very attracted to, like every time I see her my blood just boils and its hards to stop looking at her. In my eyes she is so beautiful and I honestly cant help striping her down in my mind, and every time she has a boy I get so incredibly jealous that he probably gets to see and touch her naked body. The thing is we are really good friends and we both love it that way. Our personalities match for a great friendship, and we have talked about the matter if we were in a relationship and we both agreed that we wouldn't be that compatible.  I mean perhaps we would and we don't know it. I don't think so though and honestly I don't think I wanna be in a relationship with her. My problem is that I am so tantalized and fatally attracted to her I cannot help it. Like I just want to hold, feel and caress her  body all over. However, there is no way that I would initiate anything because One,I have the highest respect for her, Two I know she isn't even close to being as attracted to me as I am to her, and Three if we turned into fuck buddies or had a one night stand I think the friendship would suffer in the end. So I need advice, What do I do here? How do I stop myself from being so god damned attracted to her body?


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14411690 - 05/06/11 06:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

There's no cure but time :shrug:


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14411691 - 05/06/11 06:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Get with someone else.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm] * 1
    #14411698 - 05/06/11 06:17 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Is she seeing anyone? Yes or no...if no, ask her out. Life's too fucking short to sit there and tease yourself. And guess what, most relationships are gonna go bad at some point anyway, and if you aren't friends afterward, so what? Better than being teased every moment anyway, might as well chance it and go for it.

If you're just wanting to be not attracted to her - then I don't know, masturbate a lot, watch a ton of porn, find a girlfriend??? Other than not hanging around her anymore I'm must not sure what you can do.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14411708 - 05/06/11 06:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Get really drunk together one night and ask her why she's so fucking sexy and inform her for the sake of science you two should play hide the weenie.

Kidding, the problem seems insoluble. If may help to remember that if you had her attention and ease of access, you would quickly lose your fascination. I've had a hot friend become a lover and I gradually had issues achieving erection just because I knew the chase was over.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14411717 - 05/06/11 06:20 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Been there, done that.
There's no easy answer to that one, dude.
I always ended up totally screwing that friendship because I couldn't handle it any longer. I always just ran away, because that's who I am.
There are three ways to handle that situation, go for it full pelt, stay friends or run away from her and your feelings. Do what you think it's right.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: sandi] * 1
    #14411722 - 05/06/11 06:21 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

:whacker: or...  :doggystyle: :thumbup:


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: wow] * 1
    #14411833 - 05/06/11 06:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

For what you describe she really doesn't seem so in to you as you are in to her.
You admit you don't want a relationship with her so you just want to have sex.
She doesn't?
Not much you can do about it but hanging out with her is not going to help for sure.
Sometimes the fatal attraction is just so fatal because in fact you know it's something you can't have, that just makes it so much more desirable.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: pouihi]
    #14412054 - 05/06/11 07:33 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

DS THAT SB

also, post a picture of her.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14412730 - 05/06/11 09:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

DSHSB

Life is short and men and women aren't meant to be just friends. You shouldn't worry that things will go bad because they are already bad. Sure you might enjoy being friends, but obviously its a source of stress for you. How long do you plan on being friends anyway? If she gets married you might still be "friends" kinda, but the relationship between the two of you will basically be over. So think about it this way, would you rather die a slow and painful death, or a quick and painful death?


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: psilyguy]
    #14412807 - 05/06/11 10:01 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

All good answers guys thanks for helping me out. The thing is I basically know a relationship or anything like that is no go. So idk i think i just need to bottle the beast and enjoy her company. The more I think about it I think I just need to tell her that she is a tantalizing goddess of beauty in my mind, leave it as a compliment between friends and establish that i just wanted to tell her shes beautiful and that I am not making a move just getting it off my chest. I mean i have complimented her before may times but I think I just need to get off my chest and tell her how sexy she is. Idk i feel stupid about this thread now, just seems like how I was in high school to afraid to make a move but ive realized now that i dont want to make the move i just want to tell her something and not make the friendship awkward after that


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: psilyguy]
    #14412840 - 05/06/11 10:09 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

psilyguy has a good point.

Look here bumm.I have been in this situation like 4 times. Where i had a good friend who was hott as fuck and i didnt even try for it, and yet i liked them sooo much. What happens? well as time goes by somehow-someway you will eventually most likely stop being friends. Its just how life works. You both will not be friends forever. ok?


Besides the obvious of jus maybe getting drunk and talking about it. I suggest also MDMA. If you could somehow convince her to take MDMA with just you alone, that could cause a HUGE breakthrough.

The other strategy i want to give you, is get a girlfriend. somewhat hot (compared to her) This girlfriend is only for the sake of trying to get the girl that you really like. Selfish and somewhat cruel i know. But this will allow you to get a hot girlfriend easier. Heres what i mean when you have your eyes on another prize, getting that other hot girl will be easy because you wont give a fuck about her. Anyways back to the strategy. Once you get this hott girlfriend it will show the girl you like that you get girls on her level. Plus she will be jealous. You dont want to look like a scum bag so dont hit on the girl you like directly obvious while your with another girl. but kinda make hints. Break up with the hott girl. Because you werent "into her" or "feeling it". Then with the memory of you dating a hott girl in her mind. Make a move. ok brosky?


oh almost forgot, if you get this hott girl, make sure you treat her like a fucking queen and make it look like you guys are having so much fun. Do this in front of the girl you like. Tell her your taking your GF here and there and blah blah blah. The girl you like, will want to see how good it really is.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: dshow]
    #14412907 - 05/06/11 10:26 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

dshow said:
psilyguy has a good point.

Look here bumm.I have been in this situation like 4 times. Where i had a good friend who was hott as fuck and i didnt even try for it, and yet i liked them sooo much. What happens? well as time goes by somehow-someway you will eventually most likely stop being friends. Its just how life works. You both will not be friends forever. ok?


Besides the obvious of jus maybe getting drunk and talking about it. I suggest also MDMA. If you could somehow convince her to take MDMA with just you alone, that could cause a HUGE breakthrough.

The other strategy i want to give you, is get a girlfriend. somewhat hot (compared to her) This girlfriend is only for the sake of trying to get the girl that you really like. Selfish and somewhat cruel i know. But this will allow you to get a hot girlfriend easier. Heres what i mean when you have your eyes on another prize, getting that other hot girl will be easy because you wont give a fuck about her. Anyways back to the strategy. Once you get this hott girlfriend it will show the girl you like that you get girls on her level. Plus she will be jealous. You dont want to look like a scum bag so dont hit on the girl you like directly obvious while your with another girl. but kinda make hints. Break up with the hott girl. Because you werent "into her" or "feeling it". Then with the memory of you dating a hott girl in her mind. Make a move. ok brosky?


oh almost forgot, if you get this hott girl, make sure you treat her like a fucking queen and make it look like you guys are having so much fun. Do this in front of the girl you like. Tell her your taking your GF here and there and blah blah blah. The girl you like, will want to see how good it really is.




Too bad I am not that good looking of a guy. I don't let it discourage me cause i break through with my personality and being funny and working on my appearance, but the hot ones usually just shrug me off at any attempt to mingle.  But Ill try it, if I can find a hot chick haha


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14413004 - 05/06/11 10:51 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

look at it this way man. Your not caring about them. Use that personality to find them and talk to them. and get them interested. You not caring.. will do the rest. They will be like WTF? im Hott? .. when someone doesnt care, the other one likes them more. You show interest but you NEVER admit they are hott or pretty, or any of that shit (cuz they already know it) so you never give them that

at least try it man. dont you want this girl? I hope this shit works out. Your life would be extacy.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14413457 - 05/07/11 01:25 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

i'll just leave this here. :noose:


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #14414282 - 05/07/11 08:54 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

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JesusGoneRogue said:
i'll just leave this here. :noose:






holy lmfao  :laugh2:


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Bumm]
    #14414355 - 05/07/11 09:19 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Bumm said:
The thing is we are really good friends and we both love it that way.





obviously this is untrue

just tell her she needs to get nekkid


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #14414481 - 05/07/11 10:07 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

fuck bein friends with females. try to get with her. if it goes well, awesome, if it doesnt, one less thing to worry about.

i was in a "similar" situation to you, OP, and i had to just tell her to fuck off cause she ended up being a stupid bitch who was in love with a guy who beat her.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: Ajaxx]
    #14414485 - 05/07/11 10:07 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

fuck her mom.


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Re: How do I overcome a fatal attraction? [Re: s0nny]
    #14414519 - 05/07/11 10:22 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

With another fatal attraction


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