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Reflection of human maliable sexuality
    #14400256 - 05/04/11 02:34 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

In healthy individuals, an sexual drive is innate, aesthetics and such are not any more known to the mind than historical facts. Through a period of both conscious, and unconscious development, tastes are formed. Some of these we are aware of, but a good deal is formed beyond our control prior to the years we can remember.

The perception of beauty, like food preferences, can change over time. Beauty, is truly a subjective matter, as take any two people to describe the same thing and variances will exist no matter how akin the two may seem.

A danger exists in this ability to cultivate desires, as specifics are not innate, merely the drive. This danger is being seen now in wide exposure. For there is another innate system, one that senses violence and danger and attempts to react.

To the mailable mind, things can be reinforced through strong stimulus. Unless and obsession forms, there would seem little risk to if one had a preference to something a minor as purple or blue panties. By chance if there was some trauma associated with the one, then an irrational fear could form, but I don't wish to focus on fear. I want to focus on the dangers of desire.

Desire is a strong motivator for humans and other mammals. Desire for more of something, or thrill can lead one over the edge in drug abuse. They can alter reality, but I think it would be naive to say that sexual arousal cannot be considered a drug that could also alter perception. The most dramatic shift can be observed in some males that go from being so 'in tune' with their lovers to never being more distant after sex.

Seeking sexuality through a thrill based means is a fruitless effort. One can only make something seem so 'intense' (whatever that be will vary due to taste) and the mind is quite clever at not allowing for such, despite its constant message to go seek it.

Besides leaving one helpless to truly find a fix, the constant desire to 'one up' one's pleasure, is that easy means by doing so can couple themselves with other areas of the mind that deal with extreme thrill-those that process danger and violence. A violent sexuality that begins to form out of mere desire for 'more' stimulus is quite dangerous. One can only go so far, but yet continue to crave more. Porn has catered to this area, for more violence doesn't take much thought process to perform, despite the heavy toll it can take on people receiving it-both physically and mentally.

Violence and sexuality that didn't cross before in this sort of way, is quite common place for many men and women that get into contact with the material or those that it has effected.

Even I, who does enjoy BDSM, cannot be for certain I did not become twisted by some sort of stimulus beyond my ability to remember, or from sexual abuse. As much as I would like to say it hasn't, something as complex as this-I cannot be for certain.

The biggest issues I see are:
1 Where does one go from here? People that don't realize how far they have sunk into the matter, can hit a glass ceiling that extreme stimulus not longer has an effect on.

2 Even if man and woman alike, enjoyed extremely violent sex-how long before injuries or death occur? Choking is a risky act, as it much rougher play that people do.


I think everyone strongly aroused by such thoughts, should take a step back, and really consider how they approach sexual desire. It is a dangerous path to be so clouded by sexual thrill that they can lose touch of finer emotions. Many come to a point that they only feel very strong emotions-being horny, being angry, not being horny, being sad. It is to succumb to thrill, it feels amazing! The feeling though, can numb other areas of life, and lead one down a path where they end up with thoughts that both arouse and disgust them.

I truly think this era has lost complete grasp of sexuality as a whole. Each generation suffers from some sort of issue, whether it is repression or let the flood gates open. None have taken the effort to properly educate and perhaps it because they didn't know anything except their own experiences and cannot muster the courage to give a proper way to go about it.


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Re: Reflection of human maliable sexuality [Re: Lennyk]
    #14403469 - 05/05/11 02:41 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Even I, who does enjoy BDSM, cannot be for certain I did not become twisted by some sort of stimulus beyond my ability to remember, or from sexual abuse. As much as I would like to say it hasn't, something as complex as this-I cannot be for certain


Good point that is useful.

Another issue I have is that the basis to which our sexual drive is shaped can and possibly even be subjective, therefore understanding or attempting to understand your own sexualities formation or direction is quite possibly limited if we leave it to others experiences to guide us. For example, my sexulity could have been shaped prior to being 5 years of age, whereas anothers could potentially be shaped during time spent in the womb.

What if there are experiences that trigger the shaping of our sexual desires and equally that close its formation off from any other experience. For example, what if violence triggers our sexual desires to stop changing/developing?

As you say, because we are dealing with subconcious forces that we cannot easily verify causality for, we are stuck making questions up that we can't answere.

So stick with the basics, acknowledge that some parts of your drive won't be changed, acknowledge that we must take various guilts/shames into account for emotional health(especially if your were rasied in a religious household) and most of all take care of your health. If you can take care of these things and find someone you can exercise this type of simplicity with, theres not much left to do but stretch your desire to its furthest limits and enjoy, enjoy, enjoy.


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