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pwnasaurus
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Re: Meeting your girls freinds/ family [Re: LoveOverAll]
#14388448 - 05/02/11 12:51 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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theblackhole said: So when you guys are out with a group of friends say dennys or a concert or what have you, and its a cool crowd, not one weirdo, you have your life of the party controls the shots and then you look around and notice theres always that one person that looks like they just aint having the same experience. What do you honestly think when that happens?
And thanks for the ideas thus far, its actually giving me background and support.
The first people party is her friends kids, im probly gonna be the only 25 yo without a kid.
classy sounding crew.
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badchad
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Re: Meeting your girls freinds/ family [Re: LoveOverAll]
#14388555 - 05/02/11 01:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You have to size up the crowd.
Since everyone will have kids, just comment about a kid. If you see a toddler do something aimless, comment on how "smart" it is. All parents believe their own kids are superior and they'll run with a positive comment and talk your ear off.
Talk about jobs. Everyone has a job. Most people have a boss or coworker they can't stand. If anyone works with the public, they've got an interesting story about a client, customer etc.
If people own homes they'll love to talk about their latest home project. What they're doing to the lawn, the new cabinets they want, the new paint color.
If people have gone to college ask them their major. Comment on that "one party they want to one time where they got so drunk they....."
The weather, politics. The food on the table. It's small talk, not rocket science.
-------------------- ...the whole experience is (and is as) a profound piece of knowledge. It is an indellible experience; it is forever known. I have known myself in a way I doubt I would have ever occurred except as it did. Smith, P. Bull. Menninger Clinic (1959) 23:20-27; p. 27. ...most subjects find the experience valuable, some find it frightening, and many say that is it uniquely lovely. Osmond, H. Annals, NY Acad Science (1957) 66:418-434; p.436
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frith
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Re: Meeting your girls freinds/ family [Re: badchad]
#14388627 - 05/02/11 01:29 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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badchad said: It's small talk, not rocket science.
QFT
just chill..
dont get on a soapbox and start preaching. positive or negative, no one likes that.
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Anthony917
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Re: Meeting your girls freinds/ family [Re: LoveOverAll]
#14388676 - 05/02/11 01:37 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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theblackhole said: We just started dating and in a month i will be at one of her friends party for her kid, plus talking to her family.
I'm awful at this, im always quite and strange, and when i do talk its not usually about weather or sports or eateries, it crazy shit like mushrooms are amazing, Government is corrupt, shit like that, how the hell does a person make it?
Im afraid this amazing girl will move on from a guy who is weird when it comes to talking to others.
why can't you talk to other people...? What do you talk to your girl about? Or does she know that you can't hold decent conversation?? Small talk is one of the easiest things to do on earth. it's basically like spacing out, and tossing in a few words here and there.
When talking to her family, I'm sure they will direct the conversation. Introduce yourself, be polite, compliment some of their shit that you actually don't like...they will thank you, and ask you some bullshit questions that THEY don't care about, and probably won't listen too closely to your replies.
Keep it simple  Make jokes. People like funny people.
-------------------- Prisoner#1 said: I got my ass kicked by a 9yo when I was 17 Trippin? Click Me
What is life? I'm tired of life...
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