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Anonymous #1
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Dealing with pathological liars?
#14372539 - 04/29/11 01:04 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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how do you cope?
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auronlives69
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14372698 - 04/29/11 01:50 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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you cant stop someone from lying, all you can do is pay close attention to what that person says/does and use a bit of common sense to decypher the truth
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: auronlives69]
#14372761 - 04/29/11 02:04 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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yes, I would like to point out that when the one does not make eye contact or even look at you when they talk it is highly likely they they are lying, if they are trying to talk too fast when doing that it could mean they are hiding something and have guilt about it. Just a though
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14374662 - 04/29/11 08:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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or they could have social anxiety disorder or something
just ignore the folks. if they constantly keep lying, i call them out
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: tito123]
#14374937 - 04/29/11 09:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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im doing some projects with someone who i think has no remorse from lying imo but i think he has gain from not fucking me over because of the property i have. im very sketchy about doing this with him but if he doesnt try to fuck me it could be the best thing ive ever done.
i guess worst comes to worse i could threaten to rat him out but im hoping he'll be straight with me, ive known him a long time
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14378614 - 04/30/11 04:55 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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no you just have to make it in his best interest to NOT lie to you.
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14380228 - 04/30/11 11:25 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: yes, I would like to point out that when the one does not make eye contact or even look at you when they talk it is highly likely they they are lying, if they are trying to talk too fast when doing that it could mean they are hiding something and have guilt about it. Just a though
Most of the time when I talk I am not looking the person in the eyes. IMO it's a little creepy to stare at someone like that, and in some cases threatening. Unless they're your partner or whatever.
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14384666 - 05/01/11 08:12 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: how do you cope?
My brother is a severe compulsive liar/alcoholic. He pulled a gun on my mother once and also my cousin and her husband. He had his nose broken 3 times by 3 different people because he said he was going to pull guns out on them. This was all because people were calling him out on his lies. He fucked me over more times than I can remember and everything that he says is total bullshit.
I forgave him so many times and he is lucky I did. But then one day I decided I was not going to put up with it anymore and I so I disregarded his lies, we fought, and the last thing he said was that he would never forgive me. We haven't talked since.
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: XUL]
#14386977 - 05/02/11 06:00 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I know quite a few. Just let them lie and act interested? Deep down all they really want is your acceptance, so give it to them
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: XUL]
#14387067 - 05/02/11 06:42 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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XUL said:
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Anonymous said: how do you cope?
My brother is a severe compulsive liar/alcoholic. He pulled a gun on my mother once and also my cousin and her husband. He had his nose broken 3 times by 3 different people because he said he was going to pull guns out on them. This was all because people were calling him out on his lies. He fucked me over more times than I can remember and everything that he says is total bullshit.
I forgave him so many times and he is lucky I did. But then one day I decided I was not going to put up with it anymore and I so I disregarded his lies, we fought, and the last thing he said was that he would never forgive me. We haven't talked since.
you brother is an asshole
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Re: Dealing with pathological liars? [Re: AIRDOG] 1
#14387652 - 05/02/11 09:58 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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so many pathological liars on this forum, fools that spew spiritual bullshit, and when they are called out on it, they use fake facts to support their shitty opinions.
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