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Registered: 06/05/07 Posts: 19,584 Loc: outer space Last seen: 8 months, 6 days |
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Quote: How interesting is it that you judge somebody who has many sexual partners then. Do you know me, or my ideas? Just saying, if you're going to start shit and slut-shame somebody else for HAVING SEX (as if it's something immoral), then you'd better believe that I'm going to assault you and your ideas. And yes, you're fucking 19. ALL 18-19 year olds are the fucking same. Even if you aren't a dumb illiterate teenybopper who watches the Kardashians and listen to Justin Bieber, the fact of the matter remains is that you're still INEXPERIENCED in life and love. Unless you grew up in the hood raised by abusive parents, and ran away from home at age 12 and survived completely on your own, you have literally NO ROOM to talk about "life experience." You are a fucking KID compared to me. You probably still have that teenage baby-face. I wouldn't even date a 19 year old anymore, because they lack several things, the most common being lack of maturity, lack of a world beyond their own self-absorbed selves, and lack of life and love experience. And their brain aren't even anywhere close to full maturity at that age, not to mention they're pumped full of teenage hormones, so they have a tendency to get angry or bitchy or annoyed really easily. They tend to be more impulsive, more judgmental of others, while at the same time lacking judgment in key areas. Quote: People like you are too young to understand, that in the 1950's, only TWO billion people on this world existed. Now, it's 7 billion people. If we keep promoting this "nuclear family" bullshit, we are going to kill ourselves, literally. All the seafood will be fished out the sea, all wildlife will be killed to expand agriculture and residential areas. 50 years from now most American cities are going to be like the equivalent of New York City--one stinking pile of garbage and litter, real estate will die and people will only be able to live in outrageously over-priced apartments. The world will be so overpopulated in the next few decades, primarily due to backwards-ass people thinking that getting married and having their own ugly, dumb children are the most important things in the world. But of course no, a woman in her 30's being single--THAT is the real tragedy here, right? That's exactly what I mean. Typical 19 year old thought process. You even think like a 19 year old. The imprint you leave in society is far, FAR more important than having children or getting married. Nietzsche, Hemingway, Steinbeck, Liszt, Mozart, Bach, Andy Warhol, Mother Theresa, Komako Kimura… do you think any of them are remembered for their marital partners or for their kids? No, they are remembered for their WORK. Frankly, I don't even know about, or care if any of them had kids, because it's fucking irrelevant. Hell, Newton died a fucking virgin. But he was a LEGEND. The only kid who is remembered is one of Bach's children, out of the 30-something that he had, because he was the only one out of his family that was a true musical prodigy as well. The only kids who people even know about are Hemingway's children, and that is only because they wrote a memoir and biography of what his father was REALLY like. In other words, nobody would have known about them or given a shit about them if it wasn't for their father's fame. Nietzsche, by the way, died a schizophrenic homeless man with gonorrhea on the streets. Mozart was so penniless and debt when he died, he was buried in a deep grave with 100 other nameless people. He didn't even become famous until after death. Quote: I am way too jaded for my age, I'll admit. The funny thing is, I'm actually an optimist and happy person IRL. I'm really only jaded online, because you can't say this kind of shit IRL. It's like a comedian talking about how shitty his life is, it's like a personal relief for me. For the most part, all my boyfriends treated me well, I never had a truly bad experience in love. When shit happens, I always find a way to turn it into something better. I'm open to love, but for now I'd rather be single and focus on my career. My career is more important than any man. Because if I gave up a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and me and that man don't work out, I'm going to regret it. He would have wasted my time for nothing. So I will be ready, but in my own time, after I've achieved where I want to be. The thing is…. you expect to be married in your 30's, but I can guarantee you, life almost never, EVER works out how you planned it 10 years in the future. Life has taken me to some weird places, some awful, and some awesome, and life always has a surprising lurking for you no matter how WELL-planned you have your life. I've been around for quite a while longer than you, and I've seen it first-hand myself happen to a BUNCH of people. This is the list of shit that I have actually seen, witnessed, or experienced personally in my life: -People getting pregnant by accident while they're only 18-20 and are in college or only have a diploma and have no money whatsoever. -You could be in a car accident that leaves you severely injured or paralyzed for 6-24 months or longer. -you could buy a house only to get laid off from work 6 months later -Your husband or wife could suddenly die and leave you with a huge mortgage because you didn't have life insurance -The economy could collapse (again) -You could develop a medical illness and have to file bankruptcy due to not being able to pay your medical bills -Your family member or best friend could die suddenly and you might spiral into a deep depression -You could get hooked on drugs or alcohol -You could graduate with $200,000 student loan debt and find yourself unable to find any decent-paying job afterwards -You yourself could die in your 20's, etc… etc… These examples are all REAL LIFE SHIT that has happened to friends of mine over the years. Any number of things can happen, and to simply feel like you can control and plan every outlet of your life 10-20 years ahead of time, to me, is a symbol of a young mind. A mind that does not have much life experience. Let me tell you an interesting story. Two of the smartest kids in my high school, one was a boy and one was a girl. The boy got a perfect score on his SAT's, was accepted to Harvard and got a full scholarship at Cornell. He chose the full-scholarship. He now works at the same private school he graduated from as a high school teacher. The other girl got a 4.3 GPA and a 1500 on her SAT score (this was back when SAT scores were out of 1600, not 2400), and got a full-scholarship to UC Berkeley (a top 10 school in the USA). A couple years later, she got disillusioned with life and society, and dropped out to become a masseuse. A fucking MASSEUSE!!! I was like, "DUDE!!!! If I had your BRAIN do you know what I would be DOING with my life???!!?!?" It's almost like a slap in the face to us average folks. You really just never know how life works out, life is very interesting from what I've seen, and leads many brilliant minds to different paths. Mozart and Nietzsche are great historical examples of life never working out the way it was intended, even if they had truly brilliant mind. Quote: I never claimed uneducated people were arrogant. I said they were ignorant, unsophisticated, and uncultured (as a broad generalization). The only person I've met who didn't meet this criteria was a guy who didn't even graduate high school, he got his GED, and never went to college. But he self-studied a lot of political theory and philosophy, and was far to brilliant for his age. He went to the library, and at age 17 he was reading dissertations and analyzed studies that students of PhD levels study. I lost in touch with him around 12 years ago (not much of a time difference since you were born), and I wonder what he is now. Maybe he is a professor now. Maybe he is doing nothing like he always was. Such a brilliant mind gone to waste. Also, arrogance and ignorance are two different things. And arrogance works in the corporate world, because frankly, you HAVE to be aggressive and over-confident in your abilities to make it in the corporate workplace. If I wasn't arrogant and confident as fuck about my abilities, they would just pick somebody else who was way more aggressive than me to do my job. Quote: Well, no offense, but you're at a community college, learning basic undergraduate requirements. You're basically taking Chem/Psych/Bio/Arts 101 whatever classes. You haven't even gotten to the 300 and 400 level classes. I've been to both community college and university, and a university level degree is completely different and much more difficult. And of course, community college is filed with dumb 18 year olds who are just coming out of authoritarian public schools, so OF COURSE they don't question the professor's words and accept them as facts. Once you actually get INTO a real university, they teach you the critical thinking skills so that you can critique graduate-level work or works published by PhD professors. That is what taught me my real critical thinking skills, was analyzing political theory at university. And at university, there are many people who agree and disagree with the writings in question. Because they've been taught the critical thinking skills necessary to analyze the situation on both sides. And finally--that PhD professor studied DECADES of his life focusing on one particular subject. So yes, chances are, he knows FAR more about that subject than any of the other student in your class. Edited by Crystal G (09/03/14 05:57 AM)
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Cunt Tickler Registered: 08/18/13 Posts: 1,284 Last seen: 3 years, 4 months |
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You make solid points all around but still lack in others.
Slut-shaming isn't my forte or first love so I don't really know how it works. All I know is that it far more appealing and eye opening to hear someone's opinion about how something is okay from someone who doesn't do said thing. For instance at rallies which want to legalize marijuana, would you rather listen to some guy with a tye dye shirt on holding a bong or someone who doesn't smoke weed yet still supports it? The average person would listen to someone who looks like themselves, not a "slacker" and though I really don't think the goal of life is to GET MARRIED, I have no problem with people "slutting" it up so long as they understand they remove themselves from that (constrained) option in life. It's just the way it is. Passing yourself around is usually an indication of low self worth and is often linked with a slew of mental disorders. Sure it's not always but we live in a society of narcissistic assholes and they're not all diagnosed with it because it's normal. As you said about arrogance "its how you suck that corporate dick better" excuse my French. The only kid that was remembered was literally every single one of them... By the people who they made contact with. Why do you consider success by earthly riches? Happiness by fame? Of course life throws curve balls, fucking hard. I don't bitch about what has happened to me, consider myself better or worse than anyone because I went through everything much earlier. Jesus said "you will know them by their works" and though you don't know me and my works, you should quit jumping to conclusions based on the little I have revealed. Only a fool opens their mouth so keenly. I work with a perfect SAT and ACT dude at Walmart. Guys going nowhere. Sure, he's probably going to land a $400,000 job as an engineer or whatever the fuck, but he's going nowhere. I saw this because he's following the money as the dream. Those were his words, speaking entirely of prestige Embry Riddle (probably spelled it wrong, I never heard of it til I moved around here) has it was almost ridiculous. He spoke down about cheaper institutions and was quite set on making it clear the ASU soccer team average GPA at 3.2 is laughable. As if GPA really accounts for everything out means anything beyond your ability to agree with the teacher and cram Aderall. Arrogance and ignorance work in the same way when used outside of chasing that chedder. You're not helping a single person when you are either uninformed of anything nor willing to see others as equals with valid opinions. Either way you have effectively removed your ability to help others. Though they are two separate diseases they still infect the mind the same way. As my love for psychology stems from psychedelics which branches into chemistry in biology, it's interesting to see that a woman with a Masters in neurobiology can tell me what L-Tryptophan is but can't explain why 5htp can't cross the BBB effectively by oral administration. This is a community college where more than half have their PhD in said field. Shit I went to a very prestigious high school. It was quite clear then what is apparent now. A piece of paper doesn't mean much besides the importance you give it. Crystal G you've always been fiery and hot headed, opposite entirely of me, even after what's happened in my past. That's what drives me, to want to know why I'm so different in a world of people who think about themselves first. It seems you are very capable in all aspects (intellectually, emotionally, etc) including sympathy. But I wonder how your empathy lacks. -------------------- The only thing about Chemistry I like is all the psychedelics that come from it. The only reason I study Psychology is to have a legitimate excuse to enjoy Chemistry.
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Registered: 11/21/11 Posts: 1,565 Loc: Canada Last seen: 9 years, 3 months |
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I've fucked some undercover sluts and then I don't talk to them for like a month until I'm horny again then they act all butthurt cause I didn't call them or something. Its like bitch don't fuck me within an hour of our first time hanging out and then expect me to call your ass up the next day to want to hang out.
Damn thinking back maybe I should have called those undercover sluts.
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Registered: 06/30/07 Posts: 33,945 Loc: Planet Piss Last seen: 4 years, 2 months |
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can't fix crazy unless you put a no fuck zone bumper sticker on every guys dick that comes near your woman
-------------------- http://bunkpolice.com/basic-test Vienna Declaration Salvia Divinorum The Docudrahma
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Registered: 06/05/07 Posts: 19,584 Loc: outer space Last seen: 8 months, 6 days |
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Quote: In other words, you don't want a stoned homeless slacker supporting legalized marijuana, because it just makes their political views look self-absorbed and for selfish reasons. You'd rather see the clean-cut attorney or politician wearing the suit and tie promoting medical marijuana, which is actually pretty classist of you. That's really what it comes down to--how that person is dressed and carries themselves. FYI, I have been on suboxone for a year and have had literally NO sex drive this entire year. I don't even masturbate anymore. I'm not the young, bed-hopping, party animal I used to be when I was your age. It's been a slow-ass year, and I've only have had sex with 1 person in the past year. The year before that, I slept with maybe 5-7 guys in that year, and they were guys that I was close friends with, or guys that I was dating (by that I mean genuinely dating, as in, had been on 6-10 dates with before sleeping with them) and was contemplating them as potential romantic partners. After 1-3 months of being together I was usually the one that broke it off because they fit some of the criteria that I posted above. 1 was a very successful Jew who worked in the marijuana trade. He was an extremely funny guy, always the center of attention at parties, but he was WAY too overweight for his age, had premature ejaculation, couldn't eat pussy for shit, and we had no sexual chemistry whatsoever. He got dumped the day after we had sex on our 10th date. He also smoked and dranked, a quality which I did not appreciate since I was trying to cut those things out of my life. You just can't date a smoker when you're trying to quit, you just can't. The second was a divorced neurologist and I was having a relationship with. That is, I thought he was divorced, until his wife called one day hysterical and in tears, saying that they weren't divorced at all, and were about to renew their wedding vows. She told me that he has a history of cheating, and apparently sleeps with prostitutes all the time without condoms. I told his wife the entire truth about everything that we've done, he got super irate at me for doing the right thing, we never spoke to each other again, and I got an STD test the very next day (all clean, phew!). I strongly recommended his wife to get a divorce if she's caught him cheating so many times, even though the couple had 3 children. The third was this super Christian guy, who kept trying to get me to convert Christianity. He was one of those creationist fundamentalists, but I didn't know that immediately off the bat when I met him. When I met him all I knew was that he was already starting to very mildly bald and had a pretty bad beer gut, but had a good personality so I was willing to overlook those flaws. He never went to college but was still decently successful, was manager of a high-volume sales company, and even had his own house on Seal Beach at my age. Originally I thought I could potentially consider him a serious mate, since I didn't know about his religious beliefs at the time. And although he had the exact same bubbly, funny, and outgoing personality as me, and we got along great because of it, he was really unsophisticated and uncultured and uneducated. He had never listened to classical music in his life, didn't even know who Nietzsche or Marx or Chomsky was, and literally knew nothing about books or politics EXCEPT when it came to ISIS, the Bible and Israel and Palestine were literally the only "quasi-intellectual" topics he could ever comment about. (He was a fundamentalist Christian obviously, and basically just parroted whatever his Bible study partners said). These were minor pet peeves of mine that he wasn't very intelligent, but I figured that dating somebody who was simple-minded wouldn't be that bad as long as he was sweet (which he was). But…. I found out much later he was an alcoholic, which explains the terrible gut. And I can only talk about him like this, because he apparently dumped his last girlfriend of 5 years for being "too out of shape." It's like, "Bro, ever look in a mirror lately?" Dude claims to have worked out for 5 years straight, he looked 5x worse than me at my fattest. Even my 65 year old dad doesn't have a gut that bad, a guy who's 29 and has a home gym has literally no excuse to have excess fat in the stomach.Even though we had good sex and I always came with his dick inside of me, I couldn't bear to bring myself to be committed to him. I don't believe in god, and he constantly just kept trying to push his religion on me. If we ended up together I'd be living a fake lie going to church every Sunday. I don't want to raise dumb kids that are taught to believe in creationism and that the world is 4,000 years old, and that Jesus is coming soon to save us during the apocalypse. Fuck all that noise. So he inevitably got dumped too. I had casual sex with 3 hot, muscular dudes who were all close friends somewhere before or in-between those guys. I kept it to casual sex because we had nothing in common besides drugs and bodybuilding, and they were all dumb as a bag of rocks and had really stupid "Alpha/bro/douchebag" values. And as I said before, I'd rather be single than settle. So I just decided to focus on shit that's more important right now--my health, my sobriety, and my career. These are all things that I need myself first before I even begin to include a man in the picture. Quote: No it isn't. Taking selfies of yourself and posting them all the time is an indication of narcissism and low self-worth. Passing yourself around to just ANY guy who turns your way, including the obese and butt-ugly ones, then yea I guess you could make a case for low self-esteem. But having sex with really hot guys who meet a certain criteria of attractiveness, that's just called having a high sex drive, and treating sex like a competitive sport. There is no "mental disorder" attached to that, it's biological nature and natural instinct to want to have sex with somebody attractive. Isn't it? Quote: I don't care about fame. I don't want to be famous, because I don't want no paparazzi following me and have every detail of my private life exposed. I also don't care about materialistic goods or brand-name shit. I do however, care about making money because I want to be independent my OWN self without having to rely on a man. I'm not asking for two million dollars. $60K to $100K would be plenty for me to live on, depending on the region I'm living in. The only thing I truly enjoy that costs money is traveling. I also would like to make a minimum of that much, because I'd like to accumulate a nice savings and prepare for retirement, or possibly to save up for a house, or when it comes time to actually have children. These are things that typical 19 year olds such as yourself never even consider or think about. Quote: GPA doesn't show intelligence. It is a signifier of how hard you worked and what kind of effort you put in school. Hence why many employers do college GPA background checks, is because people who typically tend to do poorly in school tend to have the same pattern of behavior and end up doing poorly at work. A GPA is actually a pretty good indicator of whether somebody takes their job seriously or not. Take me for example, when I started college 10 years ago, I flunked out in the first year. That was also the same year that I couldn't even hold down the same job for more than 6 months at a time, 1 time I started a job at a burger joint and quit with no phone call after a week. That was my record for shortest job ever. The second after that, was when I worked at a hardware store for a month before being fired for being perpetually late. I was late ALL the time to work, and some days I didn't even show up. My GPA after I went back to school and finished was all A's and B's. Now I put in my full hours, and spend my days in a productive way. I have never once been late to a work meeting ever since I started taking school seriously. Quote: More young person talk. My sister was a biochem major and never finished her degree. She makes around $20K working at a laboratory. I have a political science degree, a completely unscientific liberal arts degree, and I make way more money than her, I am worth more than her in the labor force, simply because I have a degree and work experience. Had she finished her degree, eve in anything unscientific, I guarantee she could have negotiated for at least double her salary at her workplace. Quote: I don't understand what empathy has to do in a conversation where we are talking about whether morals and integrity comes in to the question of women who sleep with a lot of men or not. And yes, I have more empathy than you. I've given a lot of time and money to charities and worked for non-profits. I've given years of my life helping the non-profits. Can you say the same about yourself? Edited by Crystal G (09/04/14 01:06 AM)
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horrid asshole Registered: 02/11/04 Posts: 81,741 Loc: Fractallife's gy Last seen: 7 years, 7 months |
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Quote: Damn I do not know who the fuck you are meeting but just about all of my friends thirty years ago would have passed that test. With the possible exception of being good in bed since I never fucked any of them and wouldn't know about that.
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Registered: 06/05/07 Posts: 19,584 Loc: outer space Last seen: 8 months, 6 days |
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Quote: #1 How do you know whether somebody has had a felony or misdemeanor in their life? #2 Also I have high standards, so anybody who's over 15% body fat is pretty close to leaning towards fat. Anything around 20% and above is unacceptable, especially for 20-30 year old guys. If you're in your late 40's or 50's, it's forgivable. #3 How do you know whether a guy is controlling or jealous or has an anger problem or not? I find that the ways guys interact to their friends is different than from their girlfriends. #4 By alcoholics I don't mean somebody who drinks every day, I also include anybody who binge drinks regularly, like weekly, to be alcoholics. He ALWAYS wanted to drink after our dates, and when I declined I could tell he was really itching for a drink. #5 The guy I dated wasn't quite going bald, I actually couldn't tell whether he was going bald or he had a really bad Widow's Peak. It seems like that was the only place he was losing hair. If it was a widow's peak it was a REALLY BAD widow's peak, it was kinda like this except further back so it made him look like he had a giant forehead. If we had gotten serious I for sure would have put him on the Rogaine and made him lose weight. At 30 you should not have a fucking gut. Of course it makes sense that you wouldn't know anybody who's unsophisticated and uncultured, considering you come from the MECCA of culture in NYC. Such a hodgepodge of immigrants and people who've travel all over the world in NYC. No, you'll surprisingly find a lot of people who were raised in poor communities in California who have never once left even California, or ever left America. One of my exes was such a fucking idiot, he went to Europe once when he was in college (when he couldn't afford it on top of that, and had $5K in debt make his credit go bad because he basically loaned money just to go on this trip knowing he couldn't pay it back). Anyway, he still thought that after coming back from France you were supposed to slice the hard white outer layer off brie because it was "wax." It's the RIND you fucking idiot, the French think the rind is the best part, what the fuck did you even do and learn in Europe?This is the same moron that was still 29 and a sophomore in college, because he constantly bragged about how he "changed his major from art, to engineering." He bragged all the time about how he was going to make $80K after graduating, when to actual rich people, that's not even a halfway-decent salary And you don't even need to make that kind of money to be an engineer.He constantly kept having to re-take his classes because he couldn't even pass his ALGEBRA classes. His few engineering classes that he DOES pass, he gets only C's, which he claims "it's like that for everybody because engineering is so hard, nobody gets A's." Bullshit, I've known people with PhD's in engineering from MIT. My first gay ex (the felon) got all A's in his engineering courses and already is now in Purdue.So there's a strong likelihood he's 30 or 31, and STILL struggling to pass his classes, and probably won't ever graduate. Even if he does graduate, like 10 years would have passed, and he's going to graduate with like $250,000 student loan debt. Good luck paying that with your $80K! (remember, it's $55K after taxes!) ![]() Ah, life feels good ripping on exes.
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Registered: 06/30/07 Posts: 33,945 Loc: Planet Piss Last seen: 4 years, 2 months |
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I started taking math classes two years into my degree and would take 2-4 classes at a time, I've taken about 6 over the course of 3 years. I may not be as smart or quick as the other people, but that's just how long it takes and with the need for extra help, transportation etc I'm 25 and will have another 3 years at least because I have to take biology and some stupid electives. I'm not shaking up at college and my family has been doing their own thing completely oblivious to how much stress they give me when they bitch I'm not taking 5 classes with no car or computer.
-------------------- http://bunkpolice.com/basic-test Vienna Declaration Salvia Divinorum The Docudrahma
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horrid asshole Registered: 02/11/04 Posts: 81,741 Loc: Fractallife's gy Last seen: 7 years, 7 months |
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Quote: You're fixating on one guy. Get over him. I know lots of uncultured and unsophisticated people. I'm in construction honey, I meet all kinds. And I can enjoy their company. Which is not to say that I would marry any of them.t Me and my friends might have failed your alcoholics test but most of us were pretty athletic. How did I know if my friends did or did not have anger issues or arrests? Is that a serious question? Or jealousy issues or control issues or anything else? They were my friends. I knew them pretty well. They still are. Only one of them succumbed to drink to a deleterious extent. None of them fucked up with anything else. I may be an asshole but my friends weren't. And they were not from NYC. They were from upstate or Long Island.
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Registered: 06/05/07 Posts: 19,584 Loc: outer space Last seen: 8 months, 6 days |
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Quote: I don't know, it just bothers the hell out of me when I meet people who don't even know the difference between Japan and China. One of my exes came from a blue-collar family that didn't know the difference. They always mentioned their "Chinese friends" around me, as if I was going to magically have something in common with them because they were Chinese. Like, they were completely aloof about this whole history of Japan raping and pillaging China and about how Japanese and Chinese traditionally hate each other because of that. Also, IDK about the whole "knowing friends" part. I'm one of those people that believes you can never really know somebody's true inner colors. Sometimes people act totally different around their friends than their boyfriends than their family. I'm one of them. It's always the friendly and charming neighbor who turns out to be the serial killer in many cases, I'm just saying. Edited by Crystal G (09/04/14 01:05 AM)
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I Am OTD Registered: 08/29/12 Posts: 10,355 |
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Derogatory or not the definition of a slut is a woman who has had many casual sex partners. If you meet this vague criteria the word applies. The definition of a word can't be changed regardless of its possibly inherent offensive qualities, like so many racial epithets.
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Cunt Tickler Registered: 08/18/13 Posts: 1,284 Last seen: 3 years, 4 months |
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Empathy is a connection to others around you though you have no true connection to their lives, in your own experience. You basically just confirmed what I said then said I don't understand how it fits.
Regardless the only thing really on topic is the statement that hyper sexuality usually goes along with low self worth and personality disorders. We only diagnose when it is considered a negative to the individual. You've met and been with plenty of undiagnosed people in your past simply by the sheer volume. -------------------- The only thing about Chemistry I like is all the psychedelics that come from it. The only reason I study Psychology is to have a legitimate excuse to enjoy Chemistry.
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Chemical Connoisseur Registered: 11/04/10 Posts: 6,100 Last seen: 7 years, 2 months |
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Quote: maybe its due to the area you live in (SoCal), which tends to be pretty fake overall. But i'm with zappa on this one, I'm more familiar with my close group of friends than i am with my family, and my family already was abnormally close and well adjusted. I have lived in california though and the people there are different, so i can understand why you would feel that way. When you reach the midwest the people change drastically (and not always in the bad ways like you assume). -------------------- Think for yourself, question authority
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ConstantExplorer Registered: 05/15/11 Posts: 155 Last seen: 6 years, 10 months |
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I think a lot of girls want to express their sexually more than they feel comfortable
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The funny thing is, I'm actually an optimist and happy person IRL. I'm really only jaded online, because you can't say this kind of shit IRL. It's like a comedian talking about how shitty his life is, it's like a personal relief for me. For the most part, all my boyfriends treated me well, I never had a truly bad experience in love. When shit happens, I always find a way to turn it into something better. I'm open to love, but for now I'd rather be single and focus on my career.

