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My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother
#14346790 - 04/25/11 12:00 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Title pretty much explains it. I've been dating my gf for 5 years. My sister is only 16 my gfs brother 19. They started dating recently and it's really frustrating. They are both extremely immature and there's no way it will work. I disliked her brother for many reasons before they started dating which makes it worst.
They don't seem to understand at all why we would have a problem with them dating. Obviously there relationship conflicts with mine because I have to hear complaints from both side about how bad it is. They had no interest with each other until they both got out of a bad relationship and all the sudden out of nowhere wanted to get together. I feel it will make things real awkward when they break up after doing things they will certainly regret. Being around them with family is hard to deal with, especially since there very affectionate in public, and it's embarrassing and gross. We used to spend a lot of time with them and they still push to but it's really just not possible for me to get past the whole mess and have things like they were
After dating 5 years I felt like this kid was like my brother in-law even though I don't care for him much. Am I somehow wrong however for being against there relationship? The parents seemed to not be to surprised but like I said they are extremely immature so the parents aren't surprised by much they do, but it does confuse me that they don't seem to quite understand my anger with my sister and expect me to get over it.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#14346824 - 04/25/11 12:08 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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not really much you can do but wait to see how it plays out... I mean you said their relationship is immature then maybe its deemed to fail? Idk, i can imagine being in your situation would be very annoying and frustrating. good luck with it though...
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: InvaderShroom] 1
#14346845 - 04/25/11 12:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't even worry about it. They won't be dating for long.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: ShroomXolomilco] 1
#14346858 - 04/25/11 12:17 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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if you and ur girl had kids and ur sis and he bf had kids all of the kids would probly look alike.
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scrantonstrangler
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btw...if hes 19 and shes 16 thats rape in my state. id merk him.
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scrantonstrangler said: if you and ur girl had kids and ur sis and he bf had kids all of the kids would probly look alike.
that would be pretty damn funny.
Hope it works out, what a weird situation.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#14346982 - 04/25/11 12:50 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sounds like you're being selfish to me. Yeah it's awkward.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Sleepwalker]
#14347193 - 04/25/11 01:44 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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My mother married my father. Then my mother's brother married my father's sister because they met at my parent's wedding. Its not too uncommon man.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Joolz]
#14353574 - 04/26/11 05:07 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Do what you can to make sure your sister doesn't get pregnant. Outside of that, hope for the best, and eventually things will fall apart. I don't know too many couples at that age who really make a go of it and succeed after they hit, oh, 25 or so and actually become real adults.
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scrantonstrangler said: btw...if hes 19 and shes 16 thats rape in my state. id merk him.
I'd sure have a very serious talk with him. Very serious.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Doc_T]
#14353738 - 04/26/11 06:34 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Doc_T said:
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scrantonstrangler said: btw...if hes 19 and shes 16 thats rape in my state. id merk him.
I'd sure have a very serious talk with him. Very serious.
Even if the op doesn't legally care if they do it, should probably be careful about johnny law since anyone reporting it or somehow able to prove it etc, will have his life FUCKED. Laws are strange sometimes, but like monopoly, you pull the wrong card and you go straight to jail.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Lennyk]
#14353774 - 04/26/11 06:46 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I wonder if Older Brother could be charged as an accessory for not reporting the rape?
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Doc_T]
#14353816 - 04/26/11 07:03 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Doc_T said: I wonder if Older Brother could be charged as an accessory for not reporting the rape?
The whole family could I guess, depends on who they want to fry and how much they are willing to try. Shit sucks if you are a target.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Lennyk]
#14354941 - 04/26/11 12:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Jesus Christ, it's three effing years. Sixteen is plenty old enough to *start* making your own decisions. Maybe you guys just come from a different place from me, but it's no big deal to see a sixteen year old dating a nineteen year old for me. It's teenagers, teenagers date and fuck all the time. I guess I'm kinda warped, both my sisters have some weird thing for older dudes, maybe I'm just used to it.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: Doc_T]
#14355029 - 04/26/11 12:35 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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They totally shoot down the idea that they are involved in sexual things. Not that anyone believes them so nothing we can do though.
Believe me if I could send this kid to jail he would be there. Talking to him does little believe me I have, and not in any nice way. He's been yelled at and threatened his whole life it doesn't even phase him anymore. He may not pass high school, and his parents don't allow him to work cause he couldn't handle working 5 hours a week at a grocery store.
I might be being selfish but it's not just cause of the circumstance I just hate this kid. He used to rat to the parents about us doing pot and shit when we lived at home because "he was an addict and couldn't be around it". I'd have a problem with them dating no matter who he was but the circumstances is certainly the icing on the cake.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: guywiththegun]
#14357840 - 04/26/11 09:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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guywiththegun said: Jesus Christ, it's three effing years. Sixteen is plenty old enough to *start* making your own decisions. Maybe you guys just come from a different place from me, but it's no big deal to see a sixteen year old dating a nineteen year old for me. It's teenagers, teenagers date and fuck all the time. I guess I'm kinda warped, both my sisters have some weird thing for older dudes, maybe I'm just used to it.
i think ur just use to it. I have a little sister whos substantially younger then me. it doesnt sound like a big deal but when you only have 16 years under ur belt it is. Hes almost 20% older then she is. why cant this kid find someone his own age (red flag) why does he want to date a person who isnt on the same level intellectually (red Flag). Have you ever talked to a 16 year old girl. i cant see how it would be fun (except physically) and thats the messed up part. he should be looking for college girls (age group). or at least a senior in HS. Not a sophmore.
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scrantonstrangler
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as for advice on what you should do...violence
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guywiththegun said: Jesus Christ, it's three effing years. Sixteen is plenty old enough to *start* making your own decisions. Maybe you guys just come from a different place from me, but it's no big deal to see a sixteen year old dating a nineteen year old for me. It's teenagers, teenagers date and fuck all the time. I guess I'm kinda warped, both my sisters have some weird thing for older dudes, maybe I'm just used to it.
i think ur just use to it. I have a little sister whos substantially younger then me. it doesnt sound like a big deal but when you only have 16 years under ur belt it is. Hes almost 20% older then she is. why cant this kid find someone his own age (red flag) why does he want to date a person who isnt on the same level intellectually (red Flag). Have you ever talked to a 16 year old girl. i cant see how it would be fun (except physically) and thats the messed up part. he should be looking for college girls (age group). or at least a senior in HS. Not a sophmore.
Have you ever talked to a nineteen year old? There's not a lot of difference, just ones out of high school and the others not. Sorry, man, sixteen is old enough to date who you want to date, within reason. Lots of girls date older guys.
And about threatening violence to the girlfriend's brother....well, guys, it's the girlfriends brother. If he digs his girlfriend, he's not about to sit there and beat the shit out of her little brother for little to no reason, right?
OP, talk to your sister, tell her "I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but I know this person better than you," and failing that, wait it out and leave plenty of condoms around, just in case. If there's no kid from the union, then in about 3 months there's not going to be a union. Doesn't anyone else remember being in high school when three months was a "long term relationship" and at two years you were practically married?
Your job at this point isn't to drive the kid off, it's to make sure your sister is making the right moves and not getting her ass knocked up. Let her date a few douchebags, it'll teach her about men who actually respect her and like her because she's who she is. Besides "I don't condone it but I'll tolerate it," you're not going to have a conversation with most 16 year olds that reaches coherence on the subject. She's just not going to listen, and kicking the boyfriends ass is only going to make her take the side of the boyfriend, because honestly, the kid didn't do anything. He's just dating a girl he's experiencing a mutual attraction with.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: guywiththegun] 2
#14358663 - 04/26/11 11:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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you guys should have group sex.
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Re: My Sister is Dating My Girlfriends Brother [Re: memes]
#14359120 - 04/27/11 12:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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That's so fucked up! Fuck that kid praying on a 16yo I'd would kick his ass
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