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Trying to win my woman back
    #14350365 - 04/25/11 05:30 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Over the course of the past year or so, I have been through a shitload of mental anguish over a previous girlfriend of mine.  She and I were never really an official item, but there was mutual love for one another that I destroyed due to my lack of understanding of relationships, love, and the fact that we lived 300 miles apart. 

In any case, I have corrected my mistakes, gotten over what has happened between us, and I have definitely moved on with my life.  I have had plenty of other sexual experiences and I am comfortable with who I am and where I am going in this ocean of chaos.

But one thing is for sure - I still love her.  This does not imply that I want to make her my one and only, because it is just completely fucking impossible to do that right now.  But I want to explore sexuality with her and I want to give her the gift of my body and my love.  When she and I have conversations with one another, it is like blissful freedom from all of the horseshit I have to deal with in my life.  Seeing her in person is like a natural heroin.  She is the only woman in my life that I take seriously when it comes to anything, and I want nothing more than to get fucking wild with her.

I am fairly certain she feels the same way, or at least to an extent.  I have given her plenty of reasons not to trust me, but that was because of the adolescent stupidity I had in the past regarding how to properly treat women.  I am smarter now and filled with love for her and everything around me.

To make this epic digression short, I am going to see her at a party in a couple of weeks.  Is there any way I can go about establishing these things to her in such a way that will result in positive feedback?  We live in Texas, but she has a "boyfriend" who lives in California.  As far as morality is concerned, I would back off on a girl who is in a relationship, but I am totally in love with her and I don't give a flying fuck who the hell else is into her.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14350381 - 04/25/11 05:34 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

If you have to "win" her back, she's not worth the effort.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: luvdemshrooms] * 1
    #14350396 - 04/25/11 05:36 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I disagree.  People on here seem to have the philosophy that once you have fucked up, the passion is gone and dead forever. 

This is not the case.  Mistakes can be corrected, and people can forgive.  I have met a lot of chicks in my day, and none of them are worth a horses ass to me anymore than this girl.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14350738 - 04/25/11 06:35 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I disagree.  People on here seem to have the philosophy that once you have fucked up, the passion is gone and dead forever. 

This is not the case.  Mistakes can be corrected, and people can forgive.  I have met a lot of chicks in my day, and none of them are worth a horses ass to me anymore than this girl.




Wrong. If mistakes have been made, and both parties wish to repair the damage, you have a chance.

That's not the same as "winning" her back.

Try responding to what has been said. Or could it be that you know what you want to hear?


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: luvdemshrooms]
    #14351553 - 04/25/11 08:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

an x is an x for a reason..

cant undo what has been done.

not worf it.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: rackem]
    #14354453 - 04/26/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

There is one thing a woman cannot do. And that is forgive.
One day you will realize the wisdom of that statement. Count on it.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: rackem]
    #14354473 - 04/26/11 10:49 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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But one thing is for sure - I still love her.  This does not imply that I want to make her my one and only, because it is just completely fucking impossible to do that right now.




why not get the fuck over it then?

but if you're gonna see her soon i guess you should tell her how you feel. open dialog and honesty is always good

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Is there any way I can go about establishing these things to her in such a way that will result in positive feedback?




are you scared of being vulnerable to being hurt if she doesnt feel the same way?.. lol. if she likes you and is a halfway decent girl, not only will she respect and understand what you told her, but she'll appreciate your honesty.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: mindbentempire]
    #14355100 - 04/26/11 12:51 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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mindbentempire said:
There is one thing a woman cannot do. And that is forgive.
One day you will realize the wisdom of that statement. Count on it.



Congratulations, that's the dumbest thing I've read on the shroomery all day.



But I forgive you :cool:


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: claraclairvoyant]
    #14358553 - 04/26/11 10:55 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Fuck it, I'm not going to put myself in a position of imminent failure.  I'm not gonna go to that party.


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Re: Trying to win my woman back [Re: claraclairvoyant]
    #14358826 - 04/26/11 11:45 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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claraclairvoyant said:
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mindbentempire said:
There is one thing a woman cannot do. And that is forgive.
One day you will realize the wisdom of that statement. Count on it.



Congratulations, that's the dumbest thing I've read on the shroomery all day.



But I forgive you :cool:



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