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AIRDOG



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How to dump this girl???
#14330862 - 04/21/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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The truth is that im going out with this girl that treats me really nice...but shes older than me, a little overweight, and has been kinda slutty in her life... but she says she has changed... i know that things like that arent to be cured like the flu or something....
I kinda feel something for her... but i know shes not the person I want to stay and that i must think with my brain not with my hearth... so how should I dump her??? everyone is making fun of me and telling me that im just going to low to be with this girl??
Should I tell her the truth that i dont want to see her anymore because she was a slut and she has already fucked like 50% of my friends?? Or should I only stop answering calls and ignoring her and all that??'
I really dont want her to feel bad about this... (she says she loves me) and I want to hurt her as little as it can...
Im not a big fan of making girls feel like shit anymore because i know karma is a bitch
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atayia
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Re: How to dump this girl??? [Re: AIRDOG]
#14330953 - 04/21/11 11:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You don't have to tell her that you're breaking up with her because you think she's too loose, but you do need to tell her something. You cannot just stop answering her calls or ignore her, that is very immature.
If her having lots of sexual partners is off-putting for you, then so be it, but she is well within her own discretion to choose to sleep with as many or as few partners in the past, present and future as she wishes. I wouldn't personally let that affect me, even if they are my friends, but I'm not a guy so perhaps it is different.
Anyway, if you don't have feelings for her then maybe it is time to move on, don't just end it abruptly and you do not have to be mean. Talk honestly about it, but you don't have to say "I think you're a slut" or anything to that effect, it is you not her that has the issue here.
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Re: How to dump this girl??? [Re: atayia]
#14330968 - 04/21/11 11:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just man up and be respectful about it. No need to tell her anything that could hurt her worse than breaking up, just be polite.
Just say you're figuring out some personal shit. Just dont make it seem like it's some open ended thing you can pick up again in a few months
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elliev
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Azure Essence said: Just man up and be respectful about it. No need to tell her anything that could hurt her worse than breaking up, just be polite.
Just say you're figuring out some personal shit. Just dont make it seem like it's some open ended thing you can pick up again in a few months
and no point prolonging the inevitable
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AIRDOG



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Re: How to dump this girl??? [Re: elliev]
#14333538 - 04/22/11 01:54 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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damn... i feel kinda crappy I didnt wanted to hurt anyone again in my life... I had like a 2 year dry spell with no sex, no masterbation... so i was kinda desperate to get some... I dont like wanking my rod.... I got out with her because I knew she was a sure fuck... but now she says shes in love and blah blah blah....
I feel guilty
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Re: How to dump this girl??? [Re: AIRDOG]
#14333585 - 04/22/11 02:02 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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AIRDOG said: damn... i feel kinda crappy I didnt wanted to hurt anyone again in my life... I had like a 2 year dry spell with no sex, no masterbation... so i was kinda desperate to get some... I dont like wanking my rod.... I got out with her because I knew she was a sure fuck... but now she says shes in love and blah blah blah....
I feel guilty
Better to do it now. I can see where if she slept with half your friends, you would feel less inclined to go down the love road with her. I wouldn't date anyone my friends had slept with. You'll hurt her now or later.
You can find someone else to have sex with. She is getting her feelings involved.
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TrustYourSelf
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Just be honest. Tell her it was fun, she was nice, but you aren't feeling it. The longer you keep the act up the more itll hurt.
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Cherk
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Re: How to dump this girl??? [Re: AIRDOG]
#14347715 - 04/25/11 06:53 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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you sound like a dick...you went out with her because she was a sure fuck and now you dump her because she is an easy lay
you got some problems son
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