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Messed up the best thing in my life.... *DELETED* *DELETED*
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: Pareidolia]
#14329989 - 04/21/11 08:52 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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really.... you just gotta ride it out like you are i would suppose shit happens whatcha gon do? you messed up twice here.. once by cheating and twice by gettin caught... sounds to me like all you can do is all you can do... i mean.. how would you react? good luck mang...
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: Pareidolia]
#14330043 - 04/21/11 08:58 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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How can you expect her to trust you again after cheating?
If she cheated on you, how could you expect to trust her again?
You might be sorry today, but will you be sorry in a year?
I'm inclined to say that you should take your lumps and let her find a man who's willing to respect her trust. However, there is more depth to your relationship, isn't there? Maybe you are sincerely sorry. It won't unfuck the girl you were with however.
Sorry champ. She deserves better. Take your loss and better yourself for the next girl you meet.
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14330057 - 04/21/11 09:00 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: Pareidolia]
#14330099 - 04/21/11 09:07 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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There's a checkbox for it above the "continue" button.
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: Pareidolia]
#14330125 - 04/21/11 09:13 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: How can you expect her to trust you again after cheating?
If she cheated on you, how could you expect to trust her again?
You might be sorry today, but will you be sorry in a year?
I'm inclined to say that you should take your lumps and let her find a man who's willing to respect her trust. However, there is more depth to your relationship, isn't there? Maybe you are sincerely sorry. It won't unfuck the girl you were with however.
Sorry champ. She deserves better. Take your loss and better yourself for the next girl you meet.
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Bellymonster26 said: I am sincerely sorry... Just was not thinking, im not gonna give up tho, I know that she still has feelings for me..
BTW how do you go anonymous?
Her still having feelings for you, and you breaking her heart is why you should love and let go. Unless shes the type of person who can TRULY forgive and forget, you shouldn't drag her through turmoil because you screwed up.
I've cheated and have been cheated on, and i've yet to be in a situation where it eventually didn't matter. It's always going to matter.
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: vandago]
#14330140 - 04/21/11 09:17 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Let it go.
Be a man about it, and let it go. Dont drag her through the shit field's you've been growing.
You need to focus on your own bullshit, the reason you would cheat on a girl you supposedly love for some no name dumb bitch. You have issues, and will keep falling into the same patterns unless they are addressed.
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: Azure Essence]
#14330161 - 04/21/11 09:23 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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oh thanks -_-' I dunno... I'm gonna give her space, if she forgives me she forgives me and if she doesnt ill movie on
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#14330229 - 04/21/11 09:46 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Bellymonster26 said: oh thanks -_-' I dunno... I'm gonna give her space, if she forgives me she forgives me and if she doesnt ill movie on
Even if she forgives you, she'll never forget.
It'll NEVER be the same. You might be able to get back with her, but do you think it'll be the same?
If anything learn from this situation. You made the decision to cheat so you have to deal the problems that come with it.
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Re: Messed up the best thing in my life.... [Re: TrustYourSelf]
#14330234 - 04/21/11 09:48 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I agree on that. It puts a permanent red blot over the relationship, and it never is the same again.
The only hope you have is not seeing her for years, and starting new when you're both different, more mature people.... and she get's pounded by a ton of nasty sweaty guys, just so you're even.
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