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InvisibleAliceDee
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Cheating father
    #14326904 - 04/21/11 09:24 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

So I just found out my dad is cheating on my mom and I am so fucking angry I don't know what to do... Do I just let it slide? Tell me mom? Confront my dad about it?  Ignore it until my mom finds out and pretend I had no clue???

My grandmother from my moms side had a husband that cheated on her and it ended in divorce and my mom was devastated from it.. I cannot believe this is happening to me...  I had my suspicions and now im caught in the middle of it...

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Re: Cheating father [Re: AliceDee]
    #14326913 - 04/21/11 09:28 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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AliceDee said:
I cannot believe this is happening to me... 




the most selfish attitude u could take in this situation... personally, i would stay out of it.... i love both my parents, but they got divorced for some of this same shit... some times relationships get old man, sometimes ppl dont belong together.... sometimes the kids in those relationships need to grow up and let their parents return to being normal human beings sometimes instead of parents 24/7.

my advice, love both of your parents equally for bringing you into this world and (hopefully) providing you with a decent situation to grow up in.... and let them work it out themselves.

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Re: Cheating father [Re: stranger_danger]
    #14327710 - 04/21/11 01:18 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

first....remember that our parents are just people too. they are figuring out life just as we are.
second....my dad cheated on my mom too and had a kid with the broad....after a few years of working it out, they got back together and are happy as can be now. it took me a while to forgive him, but things are better now. when my mother talked to me about it, all i could tell her was that I supported her through whatever she decided would be best for her.
Think of this, if your mom was your best friend and you found out her bf was cheating, what would you do?
How solid is your evidence against your dad? if these were my shoes, i would probably do something a little harsh by grilling him about the other woman and indirectly letting  him know I knew. You know, guilt trip him. If he doesn't quit or come clean on his own, I'm not sure how long i could take him disrespecting my mother. Do what you feel is best, but think of your mother. This involves you, but more intensely involves your mom. i'm sorry you're going through this, keep your head up.

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