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Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually
    #14327099 - 04/21/11 10:27 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Hi, my LT g/f thinks shit is too freaky or too HOish, what's the best way to bring her around?

For example, she'll ask if I want head, but she said she'll never just go down on me as a surprise saying "That's not who I am"...even though that would be incredibly hot to me.

She also doesn't want me going down on her because she thinks that's what ho's do/like.

Im not trying to shove pine cones in her ass, just enhance and excite a boring love life.

Id love to just be able to grab her up and start pleasing her but everything is either too slutty, embarrassing or needs to be talked about/brought up before the act (see above)...

Any advice on how to slowly ease her in to things mentioned above or otherwise?


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Anonymous #1

Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327105 - 04/21/11 10:28 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

it's not a religious thing either


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327114 - 04/21/11 10:31 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

is she fat


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Anonymous #1

Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: elliev]
    #14327128 - 04/21/11 10:34 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

No, very petite and IMO beautiful, she thinks she kinda ugly though


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327136 - 04/21/11 10:36 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

MDMA


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Anonymous #1

Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: stranger_danger]
    #14327143 - 04/21/11 10:37 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I actually have some "molly" (i hope)...Im afraid she'll want to do it in a group setting or just listen to music or something and that I'd be forcing her to do shit she didnt wanna do and ruin her roll


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327203 - 04/21/11 10:55 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I actually have some "molly" (i hope)...Im afraid she'll want to do it in a group setting or just listen to music or something and that I'd be forcing her to do shit she didnt wanna do and ruin her roll




Don't use drugs to take advantage of your own girlfriend.

Sex isn't all its hyped up to be on MDMA. Guys rarely finish while on MDMA. It can be fun, but meh.

Talk to her. Ask why she won't let you go down. Tell her she isn't a whore for letting you go down. Tell her you want to make her feel good. Tell he she should trust you and let you try it. If she doesn't like it tell her you'll stop. She should atleast let you try.

Most girls love when guys go down on them. Ask her why she feels like she isn't allowed to be pleasured there. The clitoris only has 1 function. Pleasure. So why doesn't she use it?


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14327221 - 04/21/11 10:59 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Ya, I dont want to take advantage...


Ive been down and she just says "it doesnt do anything for me, never has"....
and its not like im just diving in teeth 1st

IDK....but our sex life is kinda meh...


Edited by Anonymous (01/12/12 09:09 AM)


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327239 - 04/21/11 11:07 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

i rather enjoy sex on mdma.... and i dont think it wld be taking advantage unless u forced her :-P idk, ime a meh sex life = a meg relationship eventually... id try anything


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: stranger_danger]
    #14327260 - 04/21/11 11:14 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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stranger_danger said:
i rather enjoy sex on mdma.... and i dont think it wld be taking advantage unless u forced her :-P idk, ime a meh sex life = a meg relationship eventually... id try anything




Its still fun.

Its not taking advantage. its just using a drug to make her do things she wouldn't do when she's sober.

Thats not taking advantage or anything. Its like when you have sex with a girl too drunk for consent. Its not like you made her, right?


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14327297 - 04/21/11 11:29 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Why assume it has to be a sexual MDMA session? We like talking about shit. Talk to her about things you guys have going on in a sensitive, empathetic way but without being too gentle and failing to convey the importance it has to you.

MDMA helps people let their guard down and relax. She may feel more comfortable about doing more things if the experience is positive or may even find herself in the mood to be more open-minded while under the influence. We can usually sense if you do things with hidden intentions, even if its not the biggest motive.


Edited by TTT (04/21/11 11:29 AM)


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TTT]
    #14327308 - 04/21/11 11:30 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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TTT said:
Why assume it has to be a sexual MDMA session? We like talking about shit. Talk to her about things you guys have going on in a sensitive, empathetic way but without being too gentle and failing to convey the importance it has to you.

MDMA helps people let their guard down and relax. She may feel more comfortable about doing more things if the experience is positive or may even find herself in the mood to be more open-minded while under the influence. We can usually sense if you do things with hidden intentions, even if its not the biggest motive.




Talking to her about it while on MDMA is 1000x better than trying to get sexual favors on MDMA.


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14327357 - 04/21/11 11:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I'd agree with whats been mentioned in regards to MDMA...

Id rather approach this w/o drugs, seeing how that's how we spend 99% of our time (not including MJ)

I dont want to come off as a sexual deviant, but it does has some importance to me. Sex aint everything, but it is something, something that IMO falls a little short of where it could be.

I dont want to pressure her, but at the same time, shit has gotten old. "Its all out of my comfort zone" she says...

Besides drugging, how can I rezone her comfort zone in a gentle, loving way?


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327361 - 04/21/11 11:44 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I'd first try to eat her out. Ask her to trust you. If she trusts you, she should let you.

Ask if she thinks its "wrong" for you to go down.


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14327366 - 04/21/11 11:46 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Im going to try that, but I fear she is so stubborn in her thought processes that she wont even let herself enjoy it because it is so humiliating to her....

So that's kinda why I want to try to rezone her comfort areas, not only for me or "us", but her too


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327381 - 04/21/11 11:49 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

and for whatever its worth, she has some childhood trauma of how she discovered her mother being gay and some ex b/f problems...so, that is in there too :facepalm:


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14327440 - 04/21/11 12:08 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Does she not understand that you are her boyfriend and that means she can do whatever she wants with you and shes not a hoe?


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: Psychoslut]
    #14327449 - 04/21/11 12:09 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

No man, she doesnt understand that at all :kingcrankey:




Gotta knock down that wall!


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14327584 - 04/21/11 12:45 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

TrustYourSelf said:
Quote:

stranger_danger said:
i rather enjoy sex on mdma.... and i dont think it wld be taking advantage unless u forced her :-P idk, ime a meh sex life = a meg relationship eventually... id try anything




Its still fun.

Its not taking advantage. its just using a drug to make her do things she wouldn't do when she's sober.

Thats not taking advantage or anything. Its like when you have sex with a girl too drunk for consent. Its not like you made her, right?




dude its his girlfriend... im not talking about dosing some chick he just met and coercing her into sex... im talking about asking her if she wants to roll and try shit..... how is that even remotely fucked up?


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Re: Best way to make g/f more adventurous, sexually [Re: stranger_danger]
    #14327603 - 04/21/11 12:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Dont worry S.D. You's good!


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