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Anonymous #1
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fuck is this bad if like..
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so i got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 3 weeks ago, did the pouting for like 2 days. and well. i think i moved on already.. is that like normal or bad?
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Anonymous #2
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Are you female? If yes: Normal. If no: Not exactly normal, but you's a playa so you understand the game.
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Anonymous #1
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yeahh im female. but how does is that normal? lol guys are the fucking players mann. they move on within a week. at least my dude did. hahaha.
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Silversoul
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It's great that you feel like your over it, but be sure that you're honest with yourself. I remember after my first serious relationship ended, there were days where I felt like was totally over it, and then a week later I'd be crying myself to sleep again.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Silversoul]
#14324013 - 04/20/11 04:59 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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well i know ill always love him. but im happy. and like yeah. (: besides why would i wanna cry myself to sleep knowing he already found someone too? thats just bahamas man.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#14324054 - 04/20/11 05:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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You women are real bitches that way.
You never leave a relationship without having developed feelings for someone else already.
Complete bullshit.
Why can't you just put your feelings only for one person and stop your vagina from pulsing around these other people.
Commitments are just that. I mean, stop dating, sure, but don't jump on another dude's nuts right away. That's horrible.
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TTT
Cultivate the inside


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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#14324105 - 04/20/11 05:24 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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TrustYourSelf
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Anonymous said: so i got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 3 weeks ago, did the pouting for like 2 days. and well. i think i moved on already.. is that like normal or bad?
Theres no perfect time that it takes. You're over it when you're over it. Honestly the quicker the better if you ask me. Some people sulk over the same person forever.
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Anonymous #3
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To OP... Congratulations, you are a sociopath and a female. Go kill yourself before you populate the world with your spawn. Thereby breaking the cycle of your poor genetic traits. It only took you 2 weeks to get over a 2yr relationship. You sound like a real romantic.
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TTT
Cultivate the inside


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Anon 3, grow up, if you are super srs.
If you're being sarcastic 
I'm pretty sure greater forces decide who becomes the dominating variant in a group of organisms, not morals or you. Take off your tunnel vision glasses, kthnx.
Edited by TTT (04/20/11 06:26 PM)
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Anonymous #3
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: TTT]
#14324400 - 04/20/11 06:32 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Don't go acting like you dont like it....
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Anonymous #3
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P.S He probably dumped her because her pussy stinks...
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous said: You women are real bitches that way.
You never leave a relationship without having developed feelings for someone else already.
Complete bullshit.
Why can't you just put your feelings only for one person and stop your vagina from pulsing around these other people.
Commitments are just that. I mean, stop dating, sure, but don't jump on another dude's nuts right away. That's horrible.
A-fucking-men
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TTT
Cultivate the inside


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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Quote:
Anonymous said: You women are real bitches that way.
You never leave a relationship without having developed feelings for someone else already.
Complete bullshit.
Why can't you just put your feelings only for one person and stop your vagina from pulsing around these other people.
Commitments are just that. I mean, stop dating, sure, but don't jump on another dude's nuts right away. That's horrible.
A-fucking-men

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potgrrl
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Anonymous said: so i got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 3 weeks ago, did the pouting for like 2 days. and well. i think i moved on already.. is that like normal or bad?
Define "moved on". What does "moved on" look like in your world?
Also, did you instigate the breakup or did he?
From what I've seen, felt and read, women tend to "pre-mourn" the death of the relationship, especially if they do the dumping. I'll bet you were probably disappointed with the relationship for at least 6 months prior to this breakup, and had questioned yourself deeply if he was really "the one". Am I right? Wrong?
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potgrrl
Tripper Grrl



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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: potgrrl]
#14326431 - 04/21/11 05:26 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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TTT,
I find guys who act like girls entertaining, don't you?
The irony of some of the things that get said is hilarious!
Who needs television, I've got forums.
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potgrrl
Tripper Grrl



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Anonymous said: well i know ill always love him. but im happy. and like yeah. (: besides why would i wanna cry myself to sleep knowing he already found someone too? thats just bahamas man.
Crying is for you, not for him.
Just like forgiveness is for you, not for him.
And closure, too.
Be good to yourself during this difficult time. If you need to cry, cry. If you need to beat your pillow, do that. If you need to scream, go to the bar and sing super loud with all the songs you know (bring girlfriends so you go home with them).
Also: Eat well, sleep well, spend time with quality girlfriends, and work out when you can. Nature's antidepressant is in those workout endorphins!
Breakups are the best thing to happen, and the worst thing too. Now you get a chance to find someone truly awesome instead of "good enough" that this other guy was probably like.
And man, the anticipation of a first kiss with someone new that you really like - I love knowing that's on my horizon, too.
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claraclairvoyant
well oiled machine



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Anonymous said: You women are real bitches that way.
You never leave a relationship without having developed feelings for someone else already.
Complete bullshit.
Why can't you just put your feelings only for one person and stop your vagina from pulsing around these other people.
Commitments are just that. I mean, stop dating, sure, but don't jump on another dude's nuts right away. That's horrible.
aw sounds like somebody's been dumped recently, as well as a few another anonymous souls in this thread. if this was a guy telling the same exact story, you'd be congratulating him.
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Psychoslut
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Anonymous said: so i got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 3 weeks ago, did the pouting for like 2 days. and well. i think i moved on already.. is that like normal or bad?
You might be over the crying part. But when you go around everywhere and everything you see and do reminds you of them you might stay upset for a little.
It goes away quick, especially if you just find a awesome rebound.
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EskimoRide
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Psychoslut]
#14328235 - 04/21/11 03:20 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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maybe you were ready to be single months ago? you've been over this person for some time now and now that it's over you've already "grieved" so you're just ready to move on. ..? it's definitely not bad. but as above mentioned, don't lie to yourself.
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: EskimoRide]
#14328935 - 04/21/11 05:31 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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poopstick kinda like that!
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tripp23
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the worst is yet to begin..
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: P.S He probably dumped her because her pussy stinks...
LOL funny you say that. i dumped him. plus i know it doesnt smell tyvm. i dont know why people are getting so defensive about this thread. oh wait.. it probably happened to you and your first love didnt it.. QQ
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rackem



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a girls rule of thumb is a week per year.
a guys rule of thumb (for pouting is a day per year)
your right on track
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: rackem]
#14369232 - 04/28/11 08:09 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hahh that happened to me too dude. but seriously be happy. me and my x broke up. and i havent been this happy in a while. just dont talk to the stupid prick of an x that keeps doing that to you. i made that mistake a few times. take your advice. dont ignore it. (: and just because you moved on. doesnt make you a bad person. but it also doesnt mean you really moved on.
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Mr. Anderson
πριν από το χρόνο κάποιου


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Everyone copes differently, Life goes on tho.
I don't see why people even try to be in relationships in the first place. It's like they try so hard to find someone to be with so they're forcing the relationship to happen and within 2 years, fail. Why be so needy? Relationships should form on there own.
Sometimes paths split sometimes they don't, these problems are very minuscule in a universe so vast.
Just gotta roll with the punches I guess.
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Humility
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Who fucking cares man.
Once the relationship is over it's over. Do whatever makes you happy at that point.
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Working on it



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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: rackem]
#14370919 - 04/29/11 01:37 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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rackem said: a girls rule of thumb is a week per year.
a guys rule of thumb (for pouting is a day per year)
your right on track
More like a day per week vs. a week per year female/male respectively.
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Sleepwalker
Overshoes


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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Humility]
#14370923 - 04/29/11 01:39 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Humility said:
Quote:
rackem said: a girls rule of thumb is a week per year.
a guys rule of thumb (for pouting is a day per year)
your right on track
More like a day per week vs. a week per year female/male respectively.
Rules of thumb? haha right. It depends how invested a person was in the relationship, male or female aside.
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Re: fuck is this bad if like.. [Re: Sleepwalker]
#14372533 - 04/29/11 01:03 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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This thread is so goddamn offensive.
Op and all responses.
Makes me sick.
Who the hell dates now a days anyways?
Get over what?
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