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OfflineLZip
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Starting to like this chick...
    #14313397 - 04/18/11 07:28 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

There's this chick I find pretty attractive..we never really used to talk that much in high school. It started one night when she was drunk and texted me. We had a little conversation just about how each other was doing and things like that. Since that conversation she has been like commenting on my pictures, liking my statuses and such on facebook.

I kind of was thinking she had some interest in me. She invited me to her birthday party which was this past weekend. Once again, I was surprised because we really never talked back in high school.We go to college 2 hours away from each other...so I decided to make the trip with a few friends.

Went to the party, had a hell of a time. Ended up hooking up with the girl and having sex with her. I've had mornings waking up next to a girl i've fucked..and its just awkward, but not with her.We went and got lunch with my friends, then I left.

This afternoon I texted her, and we are still texting.Might sound weird, but I havent had been able to carry a conversation like this with a girl that I could see myself dating since I was dating my ex girlfriend 10 months ago. We've even talked about her staying with me at a concert in the summer and me going with her to mexico..

Here's the thing: I'm not really sure how much/if she is into me. This sounds stupid, but I have somewhat of a low confidence with myself around women I find attractive. I shouldn't because I have been with some pretty attractive women by society's standards. I am just afraid to take a chance/dont like defeat.
The thing about her, she is a really nice person so I dont know if she is just being nice and having this long ass conversation with me or what. She's also said she wants me to keep this weekend on the down low..so as if I need anything to make me second guess myself, those things are it.

So what I want to know from you guys..do you think she's really into me? Like I said, I've been single for 10 months now, I've had sex with girls but havent "talked" or gotten even semi-serious about a relationship since then, and I think I might be ready to get back in the game.

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OfflineGrok
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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14313664 - 04/18/11 08:15 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I was in a really similar situation recently. Got introduced to this fine chick who was obviously into me, started doing the text thing and whatnot, we hooked up pretty quick. Seemed like the the whole thing could have had legs, then I kinda blew it. I had some seriously distressing business to attend, it sent my game into a wobble, I didn't express as much interest as I felt and kinda neglected her. She found someone else, presumably because she thought I wasn't interested or she likes more attention than I was giving her. Oh well.

In your case I'd definitely let her know that you're interested in her if that is indeed true. This can be a tricky stage though, I wouldn't just come right out and say it. Get her a gift or call her up sometime, that'll let her know you're thinking about her but not in a clingy way. Furthermore, temper your expectations for now. Talk is cheap and people are notoriously unreliable, so be prepared for things to fold fast. Personally I always keep a few toes outside the door. Let things develop naturally, try not to heap expectations onto the situation, but by all means help things along if you are into it!

Also just fake confidence if you have to, it works.

Go get em tiger.


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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: Grok]
    #14313710 - 04/18/11 08:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

stop being a pussy ass bitch and just ask her if she likes you or not?

i don't know if shes obligated to being nice to you, cause i've pulled that stuff on guys before out of nice-ness when i rly wanted them to go away/leave me alone lol.

just go ask her -____-;


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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: elliev]
    #14313910 - 04/18/11 09:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I would ask her whats up as carefully as possible.

If shes anything like me, she just wanted to fuck and you have now be demoted to "kind of friend".

If she isn't like me, she may very well like you.

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: elliev]
    #14314085 - 04/18/11 09:41 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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elliev said:
stop being a pussy ass bitch and just ask her if she likes you or not?

i don't know if shes obligated to being nice to you, cause i've pulled that stuff on guys before out of nice-ness when i rly wanted them to go away/leave me alone lol.

just go ask her -____-;



hahaha..well I mean I plan on asking her sometime..probably the next time we hang out (she is supposed to come up here this time). I dont see how she feels obligated to be nice to me but she is just a nice person.

I guess i was just wondering, based on what I've told you, if you all think she is into me or not?

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14314148 - 04/18/11 09:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

If you fucked and she wants to see you again she is obviously interested.

If she wants you to go to mexico with her (and is serious about it) you're not a 1 time fuck.

If she wants to go to a concert with you and stay with you, shes probably interested.

Asking "do you like me?" Is the most awkward thing. Itll show how low your confidence is.

Txt her, talk to her. Bitches love attention. If you hang out with her it should be obvious if she likes you, you dont need to ask her. If she fucked you & still talks to you she obviously feels something.

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14314239 - 04/18/11 10:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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TrustYourSelf said:
If you fucked and she wants to see you again she is obviously interested.

If she wants you to go to mexico with her (and is serious about it) you're not a 1 time fuck.

If she wants to go to a concert with you and stay with you, shes probably interested.

Asking "do you like me?" Is the most awkward thing. Itll show how low your confidence is.

Txt her, talk to her. Bitches love attention. If you hang out with her it should be obvious if she likes you, you dont need to ask her. If she fucked you & still talks to you she obviously feels something.



thanks..i mean i think its sort of obvious as well, but i just doubt myself and really have no reason too.

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14316478 - 04/19/11 10:24 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Well here, stop thinking and I'll think for you

Lets be logical

-She texts you out of the blue (she probably liked you way back when and nothing came of it)

-She invites you to her bday party (she wants to see you)

-She has sex with you (there is obvious attraction & likes you)

-She is still talking to you, and is making plans to see you again and do shit together (she enjoyed the sex and your company at the party)

Throw it all together... yeah, she is interested. But don't rush things, its already rushed with the sex. Dunno why she said to keep it on the D/L, who knows. Maybe she isn't sure what she wants, maybe she is insecure like you.

Really, it sounds like she is just treading the water with you and seeing how you are.... if you both have a good time, odds are it'd be a good time to ask her out, just don't do it too quickly. Ask her out on a date and do something fun a few times to really break the ice, and then do it.

That is just how I would do it though... so, good luck!

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: Uzziel]
    #14316506 - 04/19/11 10:31 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Uzziel said:Dunno why she said to keep it on the D/L, who knows.




I agree she likes you, and all that Uzziel said above.

I wanted to pipe in here and say this probably has to do with other guys who like her and would get all pissy and problematic if they knew she slept with someone else, especially "so quickly".  She's tried to be polite to them and gave some BS reason she wasn't interested in doing things with them, and they'd see this as a direct contradiction to whatever she's told them she "doesn't do".


So, in short, the fact she did it shows she is attracted to you for sure, the fact she wants it on the downlow is more to do with the GFWAP's (girlfriends with a penis) she's amassed who are hoping by being her friend they can get into her pants, too. 


They'll be very upset that you swooped in and "stole what they had been working so hard towards", and then SHE has to deal with their whining and crying (since they're too afraid to say it to you and risk getting punched) and badmouthing of her to others.  Orbiters who don't get the girl after all the supplicating and dreaming and pedestalizing can say some of the nastiest things and spread some of the nastiest rumors in their attempts to get back at the girl who rejected them!


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Edited by potgrrl (04/19/11 10:33 AM)

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
    #14316551 - 04/19/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Shes into you :laugh:

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14316791 - 04/19/11 11:30 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Most of the women I meet, I am not instantly attracted to them. I mean I think they are cute.. but I don't like those kind of females that every other guy looks at and wants to fuck instantly.
The kind of girls I am seeing these days are ones that are smart, positive, have something going for them, are independent, work, have cars, etc. I used to be with the opposite. The dumb, dependent, sexy looking, but damn near helpless broads. Seems like those ones only want someone to take care of them.

Even if someone doesn't stand out immediately, or are the type that you can fall in love with on first sight, I end up really liking, or even falling in love with them after getting to really know them. I think they are far more sexy than those whore looking ones.

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: eris]
    #14317489 - 04/19/11 01:34 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Thats a good point about her wanting to keep it on the down-low.. she even said that she even said that she wasn't embarrassed or anything. I told her my friends that were there somehow knew (idk if we were that loud or what), she said oh well and said it wasnt a big deal. She also asked me if I was embarrassed, I told her that im not and I think she's a very attractive and cool person.

Her body isn't exactly what I usually go for, I mean its still nice and all, she is just pretty short. I usually go for the taller women like 5'6"+, I just find them more attractive.

However, she has everything else going for her that I like in a girl. She's very smart,works 2 jobs, has a car, has her own house (lives with her brother), going to school for pharmacy, and plans to get her doctorate in pharmacy. I told her she needs to hook me up with some adderall so I can sell that shit, lol. So yea, she takes care of herself and has a goal for her life.

The Ohio State spring game is this weekend and I'm a huge sports fan, especially of my Buckeyes. Maybe something will come up and she'll invite me down there. If not, hopefully she will come up here the weekend after and hit some of the end of the school year parties with me. I just dont want to make any move about taking it further until we hang out again.. Oh yea, we have also been texting today, and she initiated conversation this morning :smile:

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14317618 - 04/19/11 02:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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LZip said:
The Ohio State spring game is this weekend and I'm a huge sports fan, especially of my Buckeyes. Maybe something will come up and she'll invite me down there. If not, hopefully she will come up here the weekend after and hit some of the end of the school year parties with me. I just dont want to make any move about taking it further until we hang out again.. Oh yea, we have also been texting today, and she initiated conversation this morning :smile:




Take the lead, ask her to come visit to hit a couple of the parties with you!

She's given lots of indications that she is interested in you.  Give her the opportunity to say "yes" to your direct invites, and go and enjoy what life has to offer with someone who likes to say "yes" to you! 

If you really want to go to that game, you can head out to her city, but book yourself a hotel room before you let her know you're coming out.  Give her a chance to invite you to stay with her, or not, and if she doesn't invite you to stay with her, be cool, enjoy the game, have fun, and invite her back to your hotel room when you call for a chat... :smile:  If she DOES invite you to stay at her place, be sure to still go to the game (don't give it up to stay with her, even for sex at this point), but maybe be prepared to be tired for the trip home after a long night once you get back to her place.


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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
    #14319739 - 04/19/11 08:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14321722 - 04/20/11 06:58 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:




Awesome!  Now, don't get too sucked into texting all the time.  It's fun for sure, but talking should be reserved for in person as much as possible, to keep the excitement going.

Lots of women are great at sexting (for example) but then they reject in person, and that's hugely frustrating in an understandable way for guys. 

Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!


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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
    #14322304 - 04/20/11 10:16 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:





Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!



what do you mean by this??? Dont tell her everything about me?

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14322438 - 04/20/11 10:50 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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LZip said:
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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:





Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!



what do you mean by this??? Dont tell her everything about me?




Not exactly, but kind of.

Realize that you've got lots of time to get to know each other, and lots of time for her to learn about what makes you tick.  Enjoy the process!  (note: I think what makes you tick sexually should be a hands on learning process, augmented by occasional sexting comments but not full blown cybering)

Also, there's a lot of blah blah blah that doesn't match a person's actions - let her learn about you by watching how you behave and how you treat her and other people, instead of learning about you by listening to you talk. 

Talking isn't bad of course, but sometimes action speaks louder than words, too :smile: People can BS you with words, but their actions display a level of truth that ends up being undeniable...


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Edited by potgrrl (04/20/11 10:53 AM)

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
    #14323290 - 04/20/11 02:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:





Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!



what do you mean by this??? Dont tell her everything about me?




Not exactly, but kind of.

Realize that you've got lots of time to get to know each other, and lots of time for her to learn about what makes you tick.  Enjoy the process!  (note: I think what makes you tick sexually should be a hands on learning process, augmented by occasional sexting comments but not full blown cybering)

Also, there's a lot of blah blah blah that doesn't match a person's actions - let her learn about you by watching how you behave and how you treat her and other people, instead of learning about you by listening to you talk. 

Talking isn't bad of course, but sometimes action speaks louder than words, too :smile: People can BS you with words, but their actions display a level of truth that ends up being undeniable...



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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:





Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!



what do you mean by this??? Dont tell her everything about me?




Not exactly, but kind of.

Realize that you've got lots of time to get to know each other, and lots of time for her to learn about what makes you tick.  Enjoy the process!  (note: I think what makes you tick sexually should be a hands on learning process, augmented by occasional sexting comments but not full blown cybering)

Also, there's a lot of blah blah blah that doesn't match a person's actions - let her learn about you by watching how you behave and how you treat her and other people, instead of learning about you by listening to you talk. 

Talking isn't bad of course, but sometimes action speaks louder than words, too :smile: People can BS you with words, but their actions display a level of truth that ends up being undeniable...



so like, for example..dont tell her or try to brag to her about me being a nice guy..just show it instead? any other examples??

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: LZip]
    #14323347 - 04/20/11 02:36 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Always better to show through action than through words. 

For now, just get through the next date without spending too many hours building it all up in your head.

Go work out, plan your future, spend time with friends.

Do whatever it takes to reduce the amount of "brain time" you allow her right now. 

Gooooooo sloooooooow :wink:


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Edited by potgrrl (04/20/11 02:38 PM)

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Re: Starting to like this chick... [Re: potgrrl]
    #14324337 - 04/20/11 06:20 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
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potgrrl said:
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LZip said:
Well we have still been texting all day, and she is supposed to come up the weekend of the 29th and 30th.. pretty excited :smile: :smile: :smile:





Let her stay curious about you, wondering about you, thinking you're a bit of a mystery.  That's the addictive part of new relationships, that's the fun part - don't deny her it by laying all your cards out too soon!

Have fun!



what do you mean by this??? Dont tell her everything about me?




Not exactly, but kind of.

Realize that you've got lots of time to get to know each other, and lots of time for her to learn about what makes you tick.  Enjoy the process!  (note: I think what makes you tick sexually should be a hands on learning process, augmented by occasional sexting comments but not full blown cybering)

Also, there's a lot of blah blah blah that doesn't match a person's actions - let her learn about you by watching how you behave and how you treat her and other people, instead of learning about you by listening to you talk. 

Talking isn't bad of course, but sometimes action speaks louder than words, too :smile: People can BS you with words, but their actions display a level of truth that ends up being undeniable...



I think I love you.:tongue2: You say what I want to say and touch on the points I touch on, except you phrase it much better, IMO. :rockon:

Edited by TTT (04/20/11 06:20 PM)

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