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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: pouihi]
#14321532 - 04/20/11 04:06 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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clearly being abused as a child can do it.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Larrythescaryrex]
#14321577 - 04/20/11 04:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Larrythescaryrex said: clearly being abused as a child can do it.
right... by that logic if someone's raped they become a rapist
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: pouihi]
#14321618 - 04/20/11 05:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think the real question is, why are little girls so damn sexy?
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: blewmeanie]
#14321630 - 04/20/11 06:00 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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coz they look like little boys?
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: quinn]
#14321657 - 04/20/11 06:23 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I've never seen a little boy with a vagina; and believe me, I've looked.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: pouihi]
#14321994 - 04/20/11 08:51 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Larrythescaryrex said: clearly being abused as a child can do it.
right... by that logic if someone's raped they become a rapist 
no, by being raped as a child they probably get some deep underlying issues with their sexual identity. some may turn into rapists while some may try to suprress it, and my guess is when you try to bottle up your emotions you can fuck up your self psychologically and cause tendancies like pedophillia, necrophillia, and zoophillia or whatever
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: blewmeanie]
#14322330 - 04/20/11 10:20 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't agree. I think that just as some individuals have a natural tendency for being more violent (doesn't mean they were beaten as kids) others have a natural tendency for that kind of sexual preference, because in their minds they don't even see what's wrong with liking little kids because they see them as sexual beings, and they only try to redeem themselves sometimes because they see how much society rejects them.
I'll never understand that, but than again, mental disorders are not my cup of tea.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#14322402 - 04/20/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Cannabischarlie said: What is it that causes people to be sexually attracted to prepubescent children?
Same thing that makes some people attracted to fat/skinny/older/younger people. People are just wired that way.
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Cannabischarlie said: Are all abusers doing it for sexual fun or is it sometimes they are just sadistic?
Most child abuse is about gratification, and some actually believe they are in love with the victims.
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Cannabischarlie said: i don't personally believe the statistics on all this are accurate, or that incest happens in as many of the cases as they say they do, but i also don't believe that we do enough about women sex offenders.
What do you mean that you don't believe the statistics? It happens *more* often than people say or admit to. Also, women sex offenders are usually prosecuted to the full extent of the law. Society loves to hate and punish women offenders as much as men.
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Cannabischarlie said: Obviously it is frowned upon because of course they are children, but nevertheless pedophiles often argue that its just a preference although i see nothing that indicates that prepubescent children should be found attractive by anyone who is sane. What causes this sort of behavior? Are people born this way? Does something go wrong in peoples brains?
This could be a matter of culture. There are still many cultures out there where people can have multiple wives and their ages are well below 16 and 18, two of the ages of consent in the USA. To them and their societies, pedophilia could be considered disgusting when going under a much younger age than that. A lot of places, you're a woman once you have a period. Considering that some 9 year olds get their periods, well, you get my point.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: sandi]
#14322529 - 04/20/11 11:17 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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86% of victims of female sex assault/rape aren't believed, that means i would be more scared to have a white woman watch my kid than a black male
its normal to be attracted to 15 year olds and above regardless of the laws but that doesn't mean liking children is a preference like loving luscious chubby women. It also doesn't make it morally right for someone to act on that attraction, particularly because its akward even if they are 18-20, for someone in their late 20's or older.
one thing we have in this country is too many laws that are confusing and vary drastically from state to state. This has caused people to go to other states to do what they can't do in one state, and has caused people to be prosecuted for "transporting a minor over state lines" that isn't their daughter or something, even though the intentions are perfectly innocent and unsex related and they have some teenager or even younger childtelling them to drop charges because no crime happened, it gets taken seriously.
I know that's happened before, how often i don't know, but how are different states in the US different culturally speaking that we can't have a federal age of consent? You know, pick one for the country and stick with it.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: pouihi]
#14325067 - 04/20/11 09:11 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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pouihi said: I don't agree. I think that just as some individuals have a natural tendency for being more violent (doesn't mean they were beaten as kids) others have a natural tendency for that kind of sexual preference, because in their minds they don't even see what's wrong with liking little kids because they see them as sexual beings, and they only try to redeem themselves sometimes because they see how much society rejects them.
I'll never understand that, but than again, mental disorders are not my cup of tea.
There seem to be a lot of people going after the 13-14 age range and that seems to make the most sense to use on "To Catch a Predator" but occasionally the 15 year old ones make the show. Being attracted to the occasional 15 year old (and not acting on it or expressing it) isn't really the same thing as being attracted to a 13 year old. If that starts to creep into someones mind as "okay" I have to really wonder why?
I think they should try to get them going after 11 year olds, as that seems most serious.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#14325162 - 04/20/11 09:35 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hey come smoke me up
ill tell you about the 16 and 17 year old girls that are trying to sleep with me
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cherk] 1
#14325190 - 04/20/11 09:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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we are all just really old children, so whether you fuck a 20 yr old, 60yr old, or a 10 year old, tis all the same.
although rape is rape
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Salomon]
#14325617 - 04/20/11 11:11 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Salomon said: we are all just really old children, so whether you fuck a 20 yr old, 60yr old, or a 10 year old, tis all the same.
although rape is rape
This; consensual sex is consensual sex. There are issues with age just like there are issues when it comes to power dynamics, or mental illness or arranged marriages or whatever but if there is no coercion or actual force, consensual sex is fine with me.
I think manipulating people is wrong but I don't think it should be illegal, not even in this case. Inflicting harm or threatening to inflict harm are different behaviors and should be illegal however.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Humility]
#14325861 - 04/21/11 12:22 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think some people are attracted to the innocence. Others see it as easy since children are naive about sex. Yet others are not mentally developed and they relate to children easier than to adults. Just my take on it. I prefer a thick hairy bush and a rack. I'm sick of the porn these days where women are hairless like a little girl.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Envix]
#14325898 - 04/21/11 12:31 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Envix said: i think originally everybody is aroused by everything in nature but over time we are set to learn which thangs are inappropriate to be aroused by societies standards and end up repressing certain urges to the point where theyre no longer apparent
some people don't make it there completely
I'm going to have to disagree with you there. I mean society does set standards on what we find attractive and don't but from a primal point of view there would be no desire until they were going through puberty and thus capable of bearing children.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#14325900 - 04/21/11 12:32 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i would think pedophilia is genetic, or ingrained into one through sexual abuse. you think most pedos want to be that way, in a society that demonizes their sexuality to the point of 6+ year jail sentences for the possession of a few pictures?
and once one realizes they are wired this way, where would one go for help? i can't imagine walking up to a shrink and laying that on the line. he'd just smile and nod and call the police.
i'm willing to bet 75% of the pedos out there were victims of abuse as young children, and the other 25% are just doing it because it's illegal.
i base all of this on my own opinion.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: starseed]
#14325909 - 04/21/11 12:34 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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most sex offenders get off easy
check your local sex offender release section on the city gov website
people are constantly getting out of jail after serving 2 years for fondling 7 year olds....etc....
two live in my complex....one rapes...the other possessed child porn....both served less than 5
the system goes really easy on heinous sexual shit.....it is disgusting
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#14326103 - 04/21/11 02:02 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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pouihi said: I don't agree. I think that just as some individuals have a natural tendency for being more violent (doesn't mean they were beaten as kids) others have a natural tendency for that kind of sexual preference, because in their minds they don't even see what's wrong with liking little kids because they see them as sexual beings, and they only try to redeem themselves sometimes because they see how much society rejects them.
I'll never understand that, but than again, mental disorders are not my cup of tea.
There seem to be a lot of people going after the 13-14 age range and that seems to make the most sense to use on "To Catch a Predator" but occasionally the 15 year old ones make the show. Being attracted to the occasional 15 year old (and not acting on it or expressing it) isn't really the same thing as being attracted to a 13 year old. If that starts to creep into someones mind as "okay" I have to really wonder why?
I think they should try to get them going after 11 year olds, as that seems most serious.
11 year olds dont frequent internet chats to find older men to bang them.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#14326793 - 04/21/11 08:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Cannabischarlie said:
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pouihi said: I don't agree. I think that just as some individuals have a natural tendency for being more violent (doesn't mean they were beaten as kids) others have a natural tendency for that kind of sexual preference, because in their minds they don't even see what's wrong with liking little kids because they see them as sexual beings, and they only try to redeem themselves sometimes because they see how much society rejects them.
I'll never understand that, but than again, mental disorders are not my cup of tea.
There seem to be a lot of people going after the 13-14 age range and that seems to make the most sense to use on "To Catch a Predator" but occasionally the 15 year old ones make the show. Being attracted to the occasional 15 year old (and not acting on it or expressing it) isn't really the same thing as being attracted to a 13 year old. If that starts to creep into someones mind as "okay" I have to really wonder why?
I think they should try to get them going after 11 year olds, as that seems most serious.
There's another medical term for people who are into adolescents. Pedophile is for pre pubs. And they should get them all.
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Re: Why are some people pedophiles? Are they born that way? Can they become that way? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14332267 - 04/22/11 08:43 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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11 year olds dont frequent internet chats to find older men to bang them.
how is it you can say that with such confidence and certainty? 
lol
liking some adolescents is pretty normal but they only classify it as an illness if its pervasive and a preference. I think mostly women become more attractive as they reach 20-22
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yeah, she's funny and somewhat interesting. not a beauty queen, but not bad lookin. i'd feel quite honored to fuck janine garofalo. -tiny_rabid_birds
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