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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: urbanwolf] * 1
    #14950495 - 08/20/11 12:38 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Wow. You are too sad for words. Waaah!
Grow a set. She is totally using you and she is enjoying treating you like platonic play thing.
Do not persue her; ride it out. Split checks, or you get this time and I gotcha next time. And start to distance yourself away from her.
Do, find and seek others either online or real time - clubs, day time events, work related people to do things with.
Then recycle your mind and self to a better time & place. Like moving forward, is awesome.


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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: fbi365]
    #14955154 - 08/21/11 01:44 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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You mean like actual board games or something?




No, words with friends and hanging with friends. I'm having a bad night. Went out bowling with my friend and his girlfriend and they ended up having another big fight and I was stuck giving everything and keeping nothing for myself.  And I still miss her.


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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: phantomstranger]
    #14962868 - 08/22/11 07:21 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I have just been hanging out with friends as much as possible and hanging out with other girls.  Went to the Atmosphere concert last night and was dancing with a friend (ya, it was bad mother fucking ass!).  I think I tried to kiss her.  Lol I can't really remember though.

Hanging out with a girl tonight.  We are gonna go grab a beer.  I will kiss this one, and sleep with her.  I got this :smile:



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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: fbi365]
    #14971631 - 08/24/11 03:49 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

i beat it by moving on to someone who's interested in me.


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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: millzy]
    #14972464 - 08/24/11 06:27 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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millzy said:
i beat it by moving on to someone who's interested in me.




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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: Joolz]
    #14972683 - 08/24/11 07:04 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

That sounds easy, why didn't I just do that from the beginning.  j/k :lol:  I can't seem to find that person...


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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? *DELETED* [Re: fbi365]
    #15055098 - 09/09/11 07:29 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Does she like me or is she fucking with me? Next move? [Re: fbi365]
    #15056360 - 09/10/11 12:42 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Just keep on writing dude. Let it out and use it.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15223367 - 10/14/11 02:07 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

All I've got to say is that you should NEVER pay for shit unless the other person has put out, otherwise they are going to expect you to keep paying for everything.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: occollegeboi]
    #15227841 - 10/14/11 11:33 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

I still can't kick it, the friends syndrome.  Latest girl situation was hot and heavy for a while but I just got kicked back into the friend zone again.  I am very disappointed in myself.  I still don't know how to get around this problem.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15313359 - 11/02/11 02:28 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

I really feel like I am back to square one.  I am severely depressed.  Again.  I went back on SSRIs this morning because I can't get out of bed or do anything.  I can't figure out if I am depressed because of women, or if women just bring out the depression.  All I know is when things are going good with a girl, I am great.  When things go bad, or when there is no girl in my life I am a wreck.  I can't take the rejection.  It hurts too bad.  I know I should just blow it off and move on.  Plenty of fish in the sea. Right?  But when a girl I really like turns me away, it tears me up.  I never asked for this.  And I don't know how to fix it. 

All I know is that I gotta quit mopeing around or else I will never find a girl.  I am truly embarrassed at myself for acting like this.  Like a sad, angry asshole. 

Anyway, I have a thing going with this girl.  Usually we just fool around when we are drunk. I am not too terribly interested in pursuing it too far.  But maybe i'll ride it out for a while.  At least to get my mind off other people. 

Other than that, there are no prospects right now.  Which makes me feel trapped.  There is a girl at the grocery store who seems friendly and inquisitive enough.  I might try and man up and try for her number.  Also, there is a friend of a friend who is coming back for christmas break.  I think i'll try and do something with her when she gets back.  I cooked dinner for her and her friends right before she left for the summer.  She was asking me questions, and insisting I sit next to her and eat.  Which seems like a signal enough. 

Anyway.  Good deal.  Thanks for reading.  As always, i'd like your feedback if its constructive.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15313409 - 11/02/11 02:41 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Maybe take some time to learn to live with yourself before you start leaning on another woman to fill whatever void you're looking/"needing" to be filled.

You wont be good company for anyone until you're good company to yourself:thumbup:


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15313418 - 11/02/11 02:53 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

You know what you have to do homie, just get out there an smile at the pretty girls, they're everywhere.
It hurts to get rejected by one you really like; just think how good it'll feel when one you really like likes you back, yea?
Dont sit around wallowing in your depression, blaming the women of the world. Your happiness depends solely on you. Just relax, you've got your whole life to figure this out.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: Lynnch]
    #15313494 - 11/02/11 03:36 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Your problem is being too emotional. You invest your emotions into everything without actually thinking rationally about the situations you get yourself into. The moment you pause and reflect on your situation from another perspective, stop throwing yourself at women and spending all your time trying to find one is the moment you'll realize exactly what you've been doing wrong for the past 11 pages.

Think with your mind not your feelings, dude. Seriously. No woman likes that shit.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: TTT]
    #15313561 - 11/02/11 03:48 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Honestly, I think I need to stop thinking all together.  I am being hyper-rational.  My brain is like poison to me and to those around me.  Drinking helps to shut it down.  I don't think about anything but having a good time when I am drinking.  Unfortunately, I think I have found myself at the bottom of the slippery slope with drinking.     

But yeah, less emotions.  I'm workin on that.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15315240 - 11/02/11 09:07 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

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fbi365 said:
Honestly, I think  My brain is like poison to me and to those around me.  Drinking helps to shut it down. 



NICE. Just kidding don't fuck yourself up anymore man. Just keep in mind bitches ain't nothing but endless emotion provokers. Any man thats been in a few relationships will agree.
My ADVICE, stop just stop everything. Go a different direction pick up music, drawing, bike riding and put ALL your EMOTION into that believe me it'll help:awesomenod:


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15318987 - 11/03/11 07:35 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

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Unfortunately, I think I have found myself at the bottom of the slippery slope with drinking.     





I recently discovered that the driving factor behind all of my emotional stupidity and my anxiety was because of my horrible drinking habits.  If I decided to drink, I would always end up getting outrageously fucked up, and in doing so I would have plenty of dehydrated, brain-damaged time to reflect upon the many massive failures of my life, especially dealing with women.

You cannot even begin to imagine just how pathetic I have made myself out to be to some of the women I have loved the most dearly.  It has destroyed me inside, and drinking only makes it worse. 

Long story short, I have stopped drinking, and in doing so, I have absolutely given up on the desperation to feel some sort of emotional connection to a female.  I have friends for that; no two-bit whore is going to make me feel any better about myself than the brothers and sisters I have uncovered over the years.  Women come and they go whenever God decides to throw you a bone.  It is downright idiotic to dwell on what you should or shouldn't have done to make it last longer.


Seriously dude, all you have ever mentioned is how much you fail with women.  It seems like that's all you give yourself credit for. 

What are you actually doing with your life?  Are you in school?  Do you have a job?  Are you happy with where you are as a man?  Do you have any long term goals you'd like to accomplish?  Hopes, dreams, aspirations?

Fulfilling all of those things are WAY more important than finding a woman.  There will always be women.  There won't always be your ability  to achieve personal greatness.

You don't need a woman to push you to be all you can be.  In my experience, they do the complete fucking opposite. 

All you need is YOU BABY!


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: shimishimiman]
    #15320423 - 11/04/11 12:55 AM (12 years, 2 months ago)

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You cannot even begin to imagine just how pathetic I have made myself out to be to some of the women I have loved the most dearly.  It has destroyed me inside




I was just thinking about how much I have humiliated myself lately.  I don't know if its the alcohol or not. 

I just can't seem to get a proper perspective on my life.  Sober or not.  Any decision I make seems like the wrong one. 

I do a lot with my life.  I am finishing up a masters degree in environmental policy.  I interned at major international nonprofit.  I don't have a real job yet, but I am going to start looking in December.  I guess thats my next life goal.  A job.  But I need to pull myself together before I do that.  Unfortunately, job hunting is just about as demoralizing and hunting for a mate.  lol... 

Unfortunately, I don't care about any of that.  Maybe that's where I have gone wrong :justdontknow:


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15321064 - 11/04/11 08:43 AM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Google David DeAngelo. I was in your shoes not too long ago, and this man did wonders for me. Seriously - check him out.


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Re: How to beat the 'Just Friends' Syndrome? [Re: fbi365]
    #15321299 - 11/04/11 09:57 AM (12 years, 2 months ago)

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fbi365 said:
Honestly, I think I need to stop thinking all together.  I am being hyper-rational.  My brain is like poison to me and to those around me.  Drinking helps to shut it down.  I don't think about anything but having a good time when I am drinking.  Unfortunately, I think I have found myself at the bottom of the slippery slope with drinking.     

But yeah, less emotions.  I'm workin on that.



Thinking emotionally and getting as into girls as quickly as you do is NOT rational.

lmao. Neither is drinking to escape your lack of mental discipline.

Quite far from rational.

You need to think more clearly about what you want for your SELF not other bitches and getting out of the friends zone. Smart chicks put guys in the friend zone to see if they're worth the investment. The ones that aren't quickly leave. The ones that have managed to not become assholes, clingers, or creepers have a shot for something more real than getting to know someone over a few weeks on "dates". Just saying.

Don't even sweat girls right now. You clearly have many other things to work on.


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