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Loving someone you know doesnt love you back.
    #14308450 - 04/17/11 07:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You invite her over, and shes only down when drugs or a good time is involved, but you fucking dont care because you love her.  You are practically paying this girl for her company, and as long as shes broke she keeps coming back.....the second she has her own ground to stand on she wont even answer her phone.  Everytime you try to move on you just compare every girl to her, and eventually you call her back and shes down and out again and youre her go to guy.  How the hell do you deal with this without self destruction?  Everyone I'm around is happily with someone, or happily single, and I'm stuck being pissed over a girl I have known for years doesn't love me but she keeps coming back, and I keep letting her because I am deeply in love with her.


I dont even know what the hell im getting at here.

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: vandago]
    #14308499 - 04/17/11 07:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Just stop calling her dude. That's the start of it all. Nothing else will work, just stop calling her.


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Joolz]
    #14308523 - 04/17/11 08:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Joolz]
    #14308545 - 04/17/11 08:05 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

For every shitty girl there's three that are perfect :smile: don't give up on looking man


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Joolz]
    #14308666 - 04/17/11 08:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah your definately in the friend zone, focus your attention towards other women and keep away from her, give her the same treatment she's been giving you like not answering your phone everytime she calls, and sound busy and cut her off when you do answer the phone. Either way show her you have a pair and that your not just gonna jump every time she asks, and who knows, If she sees you with other women it will probably make her jealous if any part of her likes you at all then the balls in her court to do something about it.

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: STR80180]
    #14308737 - 04/17/11 08:39 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

fuck all that man..

move on.. dont keep putting yourself through that bullshit.


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: rackem]
    #14308976 - 04/17/11 09:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It's seriously what I want to do, I want to just tell her bye, end it, but then I get down and out and I turn to people I love for support and I've loved this girl for years with nothing to show but a smashed heart.


I've found other women I've started having feelings for, strongly at that, and shes creeped her way back in somehow or another, and it's always when shes down, and I feel this sting of love + the need to help, and have neglected a new girl for my ex, which turns into......after a lot of arguing between two people.....me being alone and waiting again.


I sound pathetic....I feel it too.....I just can't seem to give this one up, even when I've found someone who gives me the same look I give her. 


This chick costs me a fortune too.  Everytime she leaves I'm broke, and everytime shes got cash shes MIA.  I don't understand why the hell I keep doing this to myself.

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: vandago]
    #14309482 - 04/17/11 10:36 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

tell her how you feel about her, and that you've felt this way for a while.


then when she tells you it's not going to happen, the bullshit friendship closes itself :awesome:

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: iamnotadream]
    #14309565 - 04/17/11 10:59 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I do tell her that.  One day with her it's " I love you " One day it's " PRESSURE PRESSURE PRESSURE!!! just when I text her more then once, one day its we are just friends.


Everyone around me has been trying to get me to get away from her for the last two years, but I just love the damn girl, and Once in a blue moon it seems like she loves me too, but her actions speak different.  And she only seems to be more into me when I am doing good and she isnt.


I've lived with her on two seperate occasions.  Both of us have driven hours 50+ times to see eachother, we were completely done until a current girl I was seeing who I was getting along with great agreed to have a 3some with a chick, and then suddenly my ex emailed me, and my dumbass fell for her post traumatic crap....introduced them.....3some ensued ( which was incredible.....more so for me ) and it ruined the new girls and I's relationship alltogether, and now has me stuck on the ex. 



I just can't freaking quit.    She told me if I ever shot up she'd leave me for good....... :shrug:

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. *DELETED* [Re: vandago] * 1
    #14309621 - 04/17/11 11:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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    #14310440 - 04/18/11 04:16 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: vandago]
    #14310456 - 04/18/11 04:29 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

If I were you, I would make a break. Don't talk to her for a long, long time. It will help you decide whether or not you even *want* to have anything to do with her, or if it was just the fact that there wasn't anyone else. Definitely don't spend any more money on this girl. Don't call her. Find new friends to hang out with. Move if you can/have to. There is nothing better than  having actual mileage between yourself and a person who is hurting you somehow.


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Joolz]
    #14310458 - 04/18/11 04:31 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Joolz said:
Just stop calling her dude. That's the start of it all. Nothing else will work, just stop calling her.


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i went thru the same thing, yeah stop talking to her, or continue to be her door mat....bitches be crazy

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. *DELETED* [Re: iamnotadream]
    #14310482 - 04/18/11 05:02 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: lavod]
    #14310977 - 04/18/11 08:52 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I've had a similar situation. This chick is never going to work out.

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14311624 - 04/18/11 12:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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I think she knows how he feels... this is not a high school "in love with my best friend who's a girl and she has no idea lol" situation, this is a "still have feelings for my ex-gf, and I'm afraid I always will" situation.

I know basically exactly how you feel, although the girl I know is actually nicer than yours. I've found the only way to get past this shit is to completely remove her from your life, but I also understand that you're probably very hesitant about that. It's probably going to be the most difficult thing you've done with someone you love, but it's the healthiest thing you can do and you probably know that.

When you have such strong obsessive feelings for a girl like that who only returns the feelings when she feels like it, she probably has some daddy issues and is rather fucked up in the head, or not completely matured, is that accurate? If not then she's either in denial about her feelings or simply doesn't love you, but honestly the best way to find out is to stop talking to her, it can only benefit your relationship with her. She likes you because you're reliable. Girls like to be in control, right now she knows you have no control, the only way to regain control is to show her you care less than she does which is almost impossible when you're in love with someone. Once she finds out you're no longer constantly available she will either...

- freak out and really try to get your attention, if you give in at this point when she seems more desperate you'll probably have sex and then things will be back to the way they were again in less than a month

- freak out, realize she can't lose you or imagine her life without you, it's your job to help her find out what life would be like without you (this is not likely, but possible and the best case scenario)

- realize you're no longer there for her and she'll move on, this is obviously not what you want to happen but if you really can't continue with how things are going then this is a necessary risk and you have to be ready to be okay with this if it happens

Either way this should clear up some questions you had about her feelings about you, it can't really hurt especially when she does the same shit to you, just treat her the way she treats you to gain some equality, it will be hard but worth it.

Maybe she'll come around and mature and you can be with her later in life, but if not you can't keep wasting your time, money and emotion on an unrequited love. The hardest part is realizing this and then following through with it, our feelings make us do things we know we shouldn't.

Good luck, let us know what happens.






This is all spot on.  When we started talking it wasn't a just friend thing, it was an instant " wow I love you " thing.  She def has daddy issues.....to the point when she lived with me both times her parents called at least 4 times a day, and waited til I'd be at work and come pick her up and tell me she wasn't coming back not letting me talk to her ( we are 23 at this point ).

I'm going to try as hard as I can to not talk to her, but the situation im in is 100% harder alone, then it is when she drives up here for a weekend, but on the weekdays shes MIA.  A girl like that is fine with me, as long as I'm not hopelessly in love with her.

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: vandago]
    #14313258 - 04/18/11 06:27 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

The epitome of insanity.  I just don't understand how I can love someone sooooo much and they feel nothing for me in return.  It doesn't seem right.

I have the same situation.  I have a soft spot for this girl.  I will do anything just to be around her.  I can't say no to her.  I cook for her and buy her things.  Not because I think she will like me because of it.  I just want to be nice to her.  I get totally crazy over her, and soooo pissed off that she won't be mine. 


Her: Once upon a time I think she shared the same feelings.  I didn't start this whole thing, she was coming on to me.  Now look what she has started.  We go on dates and hang out a lot.  But then she will tell me about the dude she "like totally made out with last night."  Last night I think she picked up a dude right in front of me.  At least when they left they were holding hands.  My heart fucking crushed.  I drank so much I did a face plant on my kitchen floor and slept there.  I am doing all the work and random bar dude is getting the benefits. 

Word around is that she likes me, and it is pretty obvious to others that she does (minus above bullshit i mean).  She told my bestie a couple weeks ago that she would (would consider? might? not sure the exact wording) date me, so I have been turning it up on her a little, but its so hard when she does that to me, it really hurts.

Anyways, I don't know what kind of game she's running, or if she is just ignorant, or plain mean.

Thanks for listening, I can't talk with my friends about this stuff.  And I can't just give her the finger....


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: fbi365]
    #14313674 - 04/18/11 08:16 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Said to my BFF a couple weeks ago....




Uh... what?

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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: Mad River]
    #14313703 - 04/18/11 08:22 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

* She was talking to my best friend about me


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Re: Loving someone you know doesnt love you back. [Re: fbi365] * 1
    #14313708 - 04/18/11 08:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

You refer to your best friend as your BFF?

TIP: You should stop doing that.

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