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Saw my Ex this weekend
#14308162 - 04/17/11 06:44 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I made a status on my facebook about going to the Austin Reggae Fest this weekend and she commented on it with something like "i'll see you there." I am still madly obsessed with this bitch despite all of the mindfucking torment she has put me through, and I knew deep down that seeing her again would fuck me in the brain. When I got there, she texted me and asked me if I was gonna be there, and I replied yes. A few minutes later I ended up finding them and saying hi to her and her friends. When I said hi to her, I offered to give her a hug and she refused. The rest of the time I spent with them was pretty awkward and boring, and they eventually got up to walk around and ditched my ass.
Needless to say, I am fucking pissed off but also confused. What the fuck is wrong with this girl and why the hell am I so deeply affected by her bullshit? How the hell can I deal with this in a way that will get me to stop having an ulcer at the thought of her??
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TrustYourSelf
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Registered: 04/13/11
Posts: 271
Last seen: 12 years, 9 months
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End your obsession with her.
You ruined a perfect time by spending it with your ex.
Don't look at her facebook. Don't txt her. She's a cold bitch who wouldn't even hug your ass.
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Anonymous #1
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I kinda want to go to Austin and shoot her in the fucking face with a .45, but I'm thinking you are probably right.
Fuck her, I have been way too forgiving of her stupid ass. Beautiful women are terrible human beings.
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iamnotadream
Enis the Penis

Registered: 12/05/10
Posts: 2,599
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Now you know what NOT to do when you go to Eeyore's birthday
Eeyore's is way > than MARLEY FEST anyway.
Sorry about all the
Edited by iamnotadream (04/17/11 10:42 PM)
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elliev
(ノ´∀`*)ノ

Registered: 04/10/11
Posts: 414
Loc: bay area
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girls get a kick out of pussywhipped men lol
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TrustYourSelf said: End your obsession with her.
You ruined a perfect time by spending it with your ex.
Don't look at her facebook. Don't txt her. She's a cold bitch who wouldn't even hug your ass.
iawtc
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potgrrl
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Registered: 01/14/10
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Anonymous said: I kinda want to go to Austin and shoot her in the fucking face with a .45, but I'm thinking you are probably right.
Fuck her, I have been way too forgiving of her stupid ass. Beautiful women are terrible human beings.
One thing I've found helpful in these circumstances is to write myself a big angry letter reminding myself of all the hurt and pain and disrespect and dishonesty that has been heaped upon me, so when I feel my resolve weakening, I can go back and re-read my letter to myself and stop myself from getting lulled into a false sense of security.
I also find it helpful, after writing the letter (but never sharing it with anyone!), to change my anger around, so I'm mad at myself instead of mad at whoever the other person is. Mad that I let myself give and give and give while I was getting treated poorly in return. Why did I keep giving, anyway? What kind of screwed up person keeps giving to someone who is obviously just a leech? Have some pride, I tell myself!
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and hoping for a different result. I remind myself of that periodically when faced with relationship frustration.
Note: Beautiful women have so many guys chasing after them at any moment that they do not HAVE to treat any of those guys with respect. There's always another guy around the corner SO enamored by her good looks and sexy body that he's willing to spend lavish amounts of money, treat her like a princess, fix things for her, be her slave... all for the HOPE of gaining her approval and the possibility of sex. You're just one of the "orbiters" she keeps around to boost her self-esteem - and I'll bet you're not the only one, either.
Whatever you do, don't puke on her with your anger, anxiety, frustration, or whatever else. That just lets her know she's still got you under her thumb, and she'll keep mind fucking you.
Even when you walk away completely, she's going to try to draw you back in - not that she intends to give you what you want, mind you... she just wants to know she's got her secure blanket of male admirers to help boost her when she feels down or feels ugly.
Just like the guy who keeps the girl around for his physical needs but then pushes her emotional needs away and treats her like crap... until the girl cuts the cord and refuses to get back into contact with him, he'll do it over and over again, and she'll feel the pain each time.
Good luck, man. Find some sports or hobbies to get heavily involved in, hang with your male friends, and eat healthy. There's a better girl out there for you, once you reconnect with your happy confident male self
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TrustYourSelf
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Anonymous said: I kinda want to go to Austin and shoot her in the fucking face with a .45, but I'm thinking you are probably right.
Fuck her, I have been way too forgiving of her stupid ass. Beautiful women are terrible human beings.
There are a bunch of nice chicks out there. You just won't meet them if you keep thinking about this bitch.
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shLong



Registered: 03/04/10
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Loc: 'sconsin
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Remove her from your FB, that shouldve already been done, and, well, Potgrrl pretty much summed up the rest...
Orbiters....nice!
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