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sjfrockerdude
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14305177 - 04/17/11 09:04 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Are you fucking kidding me. Ive been living with her for the last three years of my life. Apparently some people dont seem to realize that internet relationships do in fact exist. She broke up with me and ran to that douchebag of a man.
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dr_gonz
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? *DELETED* [Re: sjfrockerdude]
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sjfrockerdude
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14305191 - 04/17/11 09:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're right.
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elliev
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14305193 - 04/17/11 09:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol i hate it when people say that shit
there's no excuse to cheating imo but whatever fills anyone else's twinkie
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trekie
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Women like space bro. So she should her boobs and stuck a carrot in her vag on webcam big fucking deal.
You acting like a child about this is just gonna push her father away. You done fucked up son.
I on the other hand thinks its hot when my girlfriend acts a little slutty and get other guys to want her. That and I like to watch
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sjfrockerdude
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: trekie]
#14305200 - 04/17/11 09:12 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have no probs whatseoever about her being flirty, but when she goes and does that shit I dont think I am in the wrong for being pissed. And to top it off, wtf does that say about the guy? He knew the situation we were in the whole time.
What pisses me off is her wanting me to just get over it, like it was nothing. I honestly dont think she would be able to be in my shoes had I done that.
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Hate fuck then throw her ass to the curb.
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? *DELETED* [Re: sjfrockerdude]
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trekie
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It says if you act like a child someone else is gonna be there to scoop that shit up.
Grow up man .
You seem way over protective you were broken up and last I checked you cant fuck over the computer.
She just wanted to feel sexy and what have you more then likely because you make her feel like shit.
I would suggest you dont get into any serious relationships tell you learn to grow the fuck up.
Else you will keep getting hurt and hurting others
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14305219 - 04/17/11 09:17 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're just not your usual self and thinking striahgt, none of us are when this happens. You'll see, in 3 months you'll laugh at how you let some girl get to you this bad.
Start exercising, grow some shrooms, don't talk to her, meet new women.
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sjfrockerdude
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14305226 - 04/17/11 09:19 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, you're right, I was over protective of her, when I figured out what was going on. I am sure as hell not saying I was perfect. Hell im the one that caused this.
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potgrrl
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sjfrockerdude said: Yeah, you're right, I was over protective of her, when I figured out what was going on. I am sure as hell not saying I was perfect. Hell im the one that caused this.
There's an awesome book for guys in your situation.
It's called No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover.
Contrary to the title, it's not about being a jerk or an asshole, it's about embracing your healthy masculinity - the part that women are attracted to, respect, and want to have sex with on a long term basis.
It's not an easy read, however. It'll smack you around the head and stomach a few times, but it'll give you a path for moving forward with self-respect.
If you're into torrents, there's a PDF version of the book you can find.
I'd also recommend David Deida material quite highly, it's about the sexual polarity aspect between women and men, and in particular how to keep it going. Some of Deida's material falls under tantric stuff, but even without going into that it's got some excellent couples material about how to get the spark and maintain it. You can find this on torrents in audio format.
If you REALLY want to learn why she had less and less sex with you and why it lead to the breakup, Deida will be an eye opener, as will the No More Mr Nice Guy book by Dr. Glover.
BTW, rebound relationships are quite normal, it says more about her delicate emotional state after the breakup than it does about her feelings for you. Try not to take it personally.
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sjfrockerdude
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: potgrrl]
#14305251 - 04/17/11 09:28 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thanks, I'll look at it later tonight.
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Patlal
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sjfrockerdude said: Up until last Wen. I was living with, and desperatly in love with this girl, but I fucked up the relationship and she said she was done. For a good 3 months before we broke up I was noticing that she was slipping away, never really wanted to have sex, ignored me, etc.
Well I saw that and started to freak out, (she was/is the love of my life) I started to try and do more things with her, in turn pushing her farther away.
But I will get to the point of the post. Last night we had a long talk about everything that has ever been wrong with our relationship. She decided that for the relationship to ever work out again that we need to tell each other everything we have been hiding. I was fine, in fact, I was happy to ablidge, not often does a guy get a second chance at something like this. Well she told me a few things, I told her a few things, it was great. Until she told me what she had been doing this last week since we broke up. She said that she had met a guy online months ago (which I already figured) and that after we broke up she cybered with him... about 7 times. All the time telling me that she still loved me.
My question is what should I do. Im not sure if I will ever be able to get the thought of her doing that out of my head. (BTW we met online, then moved in together, so cybering to me is kinda serious) I see that it took a lot out of her just to tell me knowing I could have just walked away. But DAMN that shit hurts.
Well, if she have been actively looking around even when she was with you, thats a huge sign that she wants to break up but doesn't know how to tell you.
I dont know what your definition of 'cheating' but cybering someone else for months (hopefully just that) is most likely an emotional way of cheating. Perhaps she connects more with this dude than with you?.
You should probably try and distance yourself from her slowly. There are many other women to love out there!
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Re: What should I do, Shroomery? [Re: Patlal]
#14305340 - 04/17/11 09:50 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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There are many other women to love out there!
Chlamydia too 
But seriously Patlal makes a good point. I know it looks impossible to just let go but you'll accommodate with time.
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