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ChiefThunderbong
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14296509 - 04/15/11 04:33 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Focus on fucking a different girl.
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She texted me saying that she still wanted to be friends. I told her that after what she did i'm not sure if i want to be her friend now, or ever. She said okay, peace.
 i was becoming okay, until i saw her name pop up on my phone, and then my heart stopped. She also said that i can talk to her tonight, i just want to get some things off of my chest. Then i'll be happier. Then i can move on. Just something about her, makes me feel like she doesn't really care about me.
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shLong



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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Rectangle 3D]
#14297028 - 04/15/11 06:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Say what you need to say, but dont hang up holding on to hope. Leaving shit open ended will just make the next few days even worse than they will be.
I had an 8 ball and a mirror, , use the Shroomery and your buddies/family to pull through. Your real friends will show themselves to you in the coming weeks.
There will be a day in the coming weeks where it clicks and you realize how fucking dope it is being free....you'll see
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14297048 - 04/15/11 06:07 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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shLong said: Say what you need to say, but dont hang up holding on to hope. Leaving shit open ended will just make the next few days even worse than they will be.
use the Shroomery and your buddies/family to pull through. Your real friends will show themselves to you in the coming weeks.
There will be a day in the coming weeks where it clicks and you realize how fucking dope it is being free....you'll see 
^^ the absolute truth.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: s0nny]
#14297117 - 04/15/11 06:15 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I love you all...
Great seeing people pull a feller up from his abyss...If you find your way to Wisco in the coming days, OP, I got some Xanax bars to get ya thru the rough nights
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winningg
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14297471 - 04/15/11 07:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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get a new bitch to make your old bitch jealous. and maybe shell beg for you back
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14297573 - 04/15/11 07:44 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i'm not the type to just use girls like that. Also I just need to say some thing, and then be on my way. At the moment, i feel like there has been no closure, i have questions that i would be asking myself over and over, i just need answers. I know i probably wont get them, but i know that if i just try, it will make me feel better. then it's the single life until i find a babe that wants me. Fucking hate being single. I went to eat with my mom and dad tonight (i live with them, until i can get my own place) i totaly forgot about everything and just had a good time.
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shLong said: If you find your way to Wisco in the coming days, OP, I got some Xanax bars to get ya thru the rough nights
I might be coming up there this summer with one of my buddies, not sure when though or if its for sure.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297597 - 04/15/11 07:49 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Some of the best lessons in life are the hardest to comprehend and receive.
A guy once told me "it is always darkest right before dawn," and it's stuck with me ever since. I've found that it's true whenever you hit rock bottom you are still given the opportunity to build yourself and grow in a way that was previously impossible.
I doubt anything anyone says is going to help your grieving; that process usually takes time.
What I can personally suggest is that if she is over you, then you should completely move on. Don't waste your precious time on people who don't reciprocate your love. Thus, bow out gracefully - be appreciative for the great times and work on bettering yourself. As cliche as it is, there are plenty of beautiful people you will meet later down the road.
Peace, brother.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297613 - 04/15/11 07:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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legit27 said: Fucking hate being single.
man I was just like you, and I went through a very similar situation. I got my first "girlfriend" when I was 12, and stayed with her til I was 15, then was with a different chick from 15-17, then from 17-20 I was with another girl. I was ALWAYS in a relationship, and now that I've been single for a year and a half I'm seriously enjoying it and I don't want another relationship any time soon.
Seriously, take this time alone to really learn who YOU are. I used to get really lonely until I started to think. We're born alone, we die alone, we are always truly alone, and we should learn to love ourselves and enjoy our time spent alone. Think about some day when you have a wife & kids and a full time job, and you hardly EVER get time alone...
All I'm saying is that I know it's nice to be in a relationship, but being single can be great
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297617 - 04/15/11 07:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeah dude i guess. that shit happened to me though a few years back. hurt like a bitch. made me jealous a shit ton. it took her a week to find a new guy and i was just left with how could someone just get over you that fast? you know? but yeah almost same situation. so i thought id just tell you what they did. but yeah man. who knows. maybe you two will be together in the future. just nows not the right time. friends will help you and so will self confidence. keep your head high bro
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14297680 - 04/15/11 08:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gonz comin' in with the heat!
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: The Whale]
#14297912 - 04/15/11 08:46 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway.
no.. you dont want this, it will prob hurt you then as well. Get laid man. Getting laid helps alot to forget. Never contact her again. It helped me. Get new friends. That helps too. and again, get laid, go meet some girls.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14297946 - 04/15/11 08:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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dshow said:
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So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway.
no.. you dont want this, it will prob hurt you then as well. Get laid man. Getting laid helps alot to forget. Never contact her again. It helped me. Get new friends. That helps too. and again, get laid, go meet some girls.
i dont know. She was with me when my mom was int he hospital, when my grandmother got cancer, when my life was falling apart in every direction. The last 2 years have been the hardest for me, and loosing her, is like loosing a sister or relative.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297951 - 04/15/11 08:54 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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well.. when you see her with another guy. you will see what im saying. When you realize some other dude is fucking her. and she no longer cares about you. You will get it
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14297965 - 04/15/11 08:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i know. I'll get it then. Its hard to even think about now. I was her first too.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297991 - 04/15/11 09:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i know. I'll get it then. Its hard to even think about now. I was her first too.
You sounds just like me 2 years ago. it was the same shit. same scenario. except mine went with my friend. skip 2 years later, im looking back and wish i bitched her the fuck out. trust me bro. dont you dare put her on any pedestal or even come close to looking like you want to be friends. because it will be 2 years from now and you will look back and be like omfg WHY DID I DO THAT. BITCH. yep. and you know what? it sucks, it sucks, you cant believe it, but shes probably already talking to other guys and will probably get laid before the months's end.
so you do your thang and dont even think about her.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14298090 - 04/15/11 09:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I talked to her, got everything off of my chest. and then told her that i did not want to talk to her anymore. No response.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298100 - 04/15/11 09:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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thats good man. it will help you out in the long run. you remain friends or knowing her. its gonna fuck you in the head when you see or hear about her with someone else, not you. trust me... stay clear
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