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Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips?
#14294961 - 04/15/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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So i was with this girl, we were in love, and together for over 2 years. I loved this girl to death, everything about here. I am not ready to move on, but have too because she does not feel the same anymore. She feels like she was only with me because it was normal towards the end and broke it off. She has deleted me from Facebook in order to help me get over her. So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway. I just don't want to feel this pain anymore, i still love her, and could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Sadly, this is no longer an option. So i must get over her. I must get rid of the pain that subsides deep inside of my heart. Everything i see reminds me of her, everything i do reminds me of her. She has hurt me, and i feel pathetic for shedding my tears for her. But i do, i haven't eaten in 3 days, i have cried profusely, and just don't care if i live or die. i need help from my fellow shroomerites, anything will help, tips or anything.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14294974 - 04/15/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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tip #1. life > women.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14294975 - 04/15/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Homeboy, it fucking hurts, I know...I caught my ex of 5 years with my good buddy...I used coke and crack, I dont recommend that method, only made shit worse, way worse.
Id go to the doctor and try to get some benzos for nighttime and then in the meantime exercise more/some. Do a hobby, fishing, reading, model cars, whatever it is that you do...Just do not turn to drugs to mask this, you gotta face it....the benzos just hekp at night when you're alone.
Look up an old buddy and make some new friend, get out and do shit.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14294978 - 04/15/11 10:46 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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EXERCISE
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14294981 - 04/15/11 10:47 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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time.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: collie man]
#14294995 - 04/15/11 10:54 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Summer is coming up so i will try and do whatever i can to keep busy all the time. I do have a bunch of books i could read also. I'm going to chill with my friends today, that i haven't hung out with in forever. I need to start exercising more.
I certainly do need benzos for night, lying in bed alone, i have nothing else to do but think. ANd there is only one thing that crosses my mind. Same with being in class too, i can't stand sitting in class and my mind wants to day dream, again my mind only wonders to one thing, her. Time to keep busy i suppose.
I don't know what i'm going to do, i loved her touch, and being around her. And the sex too. She was my dream girl. Just perfect with everything. It's going to be hard to find a girl like that again if i even do.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295018 - 04/15/11 11:04 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Everyday will get easier man...it'll take a long time, if at all, but with each day it gets a small percent better.
Just curious, where do you live? If you dont wanna answer, are you near WI/IL?
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295036 - 04/15/11 11:08 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Nah, I live in Texas. I sure hope it gets better. To the point where I am not depressed/ will cry all the time. I was so deeply in love with her, I doubt that love will subside completely.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295052 - 04/15/11 11:11 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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legit27 said: So i was with this girl, we were in love, and together for over 2 years. I loved this girl to death, everything about here. I am not ready to move on, but have too because she does not feel the same anymore. She feels like she was only with me because it was normal towards the end and broke it off. She has deleted me from Facebook in order to help me get over her. So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway. I just don't want to feel this pain anymore, i still love her, and could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Sadly, this is no longer an option. So i must get over her. I must get rid of the pain that subsides deep inside of my heart. Everything i see reminds me of her, everything i do reminds me of her. She has hurt me, and i feel pathetic for shedding my tears for her. But i do, i haven't eaten in 3 days, i have cried profusely, and just don't care if i live or die. i need help from my fellow shroomerites, anything will help, tips or anything.
post pics of her....
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295058 - 04/15/11 11:13 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Just keep your chin up and get out and do shit, it gets so much worse when you're just sitting around thinking about it. Everybody goes through it, and even though you dont see it now, you'll look back and be glad it happened...but, I know, it doesnt seem like that now
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295063 - 04/15/11 11:15 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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and if you gotta, cry.....
Just dont get it in your head that YOU MUST GET HER BACK...that'll prolong the pain
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295089 - 04/15/11 11:21 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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@dunno, they are floating around here somewhere.
@shlong, you are very helpful, I feel like I was blessed to be able to have had 2 amazing years with her. I just wish I could have made more of it, done things to make it better. We went through a lot together. She saw me and helped me when I was going through my hardest times in life. Its just so much change, so fast. I want her to be happy though, and now she will be. I am so glad I was able to have a chance with her. /sorry for the rambling it helps get it off my chest.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295110 - 04/15/11 11:26 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Keep it coming, I just hope someone else steps in with more useful tips...
It aint easy, but really, is anything?
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295140 - 04/15/11 11:34 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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so underrated. Smoke a fat bowl and go for a nice bike ride or a run.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Rebirtha]
#14295152 - 04/15/11 11:37 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I haven't smoked weed in 6 months because of anxiety, so we might have to wait on that one.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295159 - 04/15/11 11:39 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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well get out a get some exercise either way, the bowl was just the boost of motivation. sitting in front of the computer won't help your emotional state
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Rebirtha]
#14295169 - 04/15/11 11:40 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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sleep with her mom...
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295171 - 04/15/11 11:41 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Breaking up with someone that you love is always a bitch brother. And when it happens, it is all consuming and feels like shit. Dude is right when he says that time is the ultimate remedy and really nothing else. What you can do right now though to help you get through is never easy nor is it a complete remedy; that said, exercise is a good option because it will tire you physically and help relieve some of the emotional tension. You can also make contact with some old friends that run in different circles to sort of give you a different perspective. If you have friends that you can visit for a short vacation or something that may help a little as well. It's really easy to want to turn to drugs or alcohol when your heart is hurting but this will only prolong the process and usually ends up bad. This will end eventually but takes some time. It may be impossible to believe but as bad as things feel right now, they will get better and you will become a better person from going through it. Someday you will look back on this and see how you grew and how it made you a better and more rounded person. You just have to take the long view on stuff like this and push through it. I'll be sending you good vibes because I know how bad it feels to be in this situation. Just remember that you will make it and that you will love again and that these feelings will pass. Someday soon you will be awed by something, a gathering or a camping trip or a concert or a sunrise or something quite simple yet profound and you will be grateful for life and the chance to be here and for your life. There's an old saying that "good living is the best revenge." So instead of letting this bring you down, take the opportunity to start living well. Grab all you can from life. Go to see a favorite band or do what it is that makes you truly happy. You'll be alright dude. You just gotta push on through. Good vibes.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Rebirtha]
#14295175 - 04/15/11 11:41 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Invite some good friends over and have a barbeque/party. They'll make you feel better, that's what friends are for
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14295178 - 04/15/11 11:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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sadly nothing can be said to ease the pain, that's just something you'll get out of your system eventually.
It's a very delicate situation, and all I can say is that when I found myself in it nothing helped more than keeping myself surrounded by people who truly cared for me, that's what you should do, avoid being alone for as long as you can and arrange things to do with your friends, get out a lot and if possible try meeting new people.
You probably should also get rid of every physical thing in your life that reminds you of her, the toughest part will be deleting her from your mind but looking at things that just remind you of moments isn't good at all.
I went through a similar situation about 2 years ago, no eating and bursts of tears and saddest as it may be, cry as much as you like, I think it helps relief the pain. Above all you mustn't loose your self-esteem.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: pouihi]
#14295199 - 04/15/11 11:47 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Dunno]
#14295208 - 04/15/11 11:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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man I was in a similar situation, and all I can say is give it time. Everybody says that, but it's true, time heals ALL wounds.
Idk how recently you broke up, but it sounds like it wasn't too long ago. Instead of trying to FORCE yourself to get over her, you need to just let it happen. Eventually your feelings will fade. If you try and force it, it's not going to work. Trust me.
I was with my ex for about 3 years, we broke up and she got pregnant with my buddies kid about 2 weeks later. I never got to really say goodbye or deal with my leftover feelings, and it fuckin sucked. I fell into this crazy cycle of dosing shrooms & mdma & smoking all day every day and it was just bad news. It's been about a year and a half and I can FINALLY say that I am ready to move on. That seems like a looong ass time to wait, but it gets better along the way, and everyone is different.
It's tough when you have someone like that who you went through SO MUCH with, and you feel a deep loving connection to.
I am going to tell you that no matter how shitty you feel right now, pretty soon those feelings WILL go away. They just will. As time passes you will become less and less attached to what you had, and you might even come to enjoy some aspects of being single. My last breakup and the past year and a half have taught me more about myself than I ever thought I'd learn.
Just tough it out man, things will look up 
Also, there's no point in wallowing in your pain. Look ahead, to the future, to the rest of your life, and you will see that even though this girl was incredibly important to you, in the grand scheme of your life, she's just another girl.
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I don't know what i'm going to do, i loved her touch, and being around her. And the sex too. She was my dream girl. Just perfect with everything. It's going to be hard to find a girl like that again if i even do.
Dude you can't think like this. This is NOT TRUE!!! Thinking that this girl was the "one" that there's no one else out their like her, that she was somehow extra special is NOT TRUE! Trust me dude there are plenty of awesome chicks out there who I'm POSITIVE will treat you just the same if not better than this girl did. I know it seems like the end of the world, but you gotta keep your head up and stay positive. There's no point in being sad, because it will only breed more sadness.
I know exactly what you mean when you say that every time your mind drifts it goes back to her, and that's going to happen for a while. At night when you're laying in bed, of COURSE you're going to think about her. Don't use drugs to mask these feelings or help you cope with them. I tried that, and it only drives the feelings deeper into your subconscious when you repress them.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: blazenn]
#14295243 - 04/15/11 11:54 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Just tell yourself there are more chicks out there, hell..you can probably find a better one and of course, you're gonna tell yourself 'But there isn't one like her out there... '. Trust me, there is..
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Moronicus]
#14295552 - 04/15/11 01:09 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think she's already found someone else, and i think that may be why she broke up with me.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295665 - 04/15/11 01:35 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Story about us: We had a normal relationship ups and downs, we had our fights, but we also had our good happy times. But recently we had been having some troubles, she was getting sort of distant. I found out that she had told a friend that she just didn't see a future with me anymore and that she just thought of me as a friend, so thats why she broke up with me. (which was last tuesday, i think) So i was coping well, i was still going to talk to her and be friends, things would have been just fine. The next day she called me and told me that she had made a mistake and loves me, this and that. So that friday i had asked her to be my girlfriend again. Which was a mistake, i know, but i trusted her, and i've made mistakes before too. I had a great day with her that saturday too, and went and saw my sick grandmother and see my baby cousin. We made plans for this weekend, that we were going to see a drive in movie, and the next weekend that we would go somewhere for my birthday. But then Wednesday we got into a fight. Not a bad fight, but we didn't talk on thursday much. And when i got home from school i looked on facebook to find out that she had deleted me from her friends list, and deleted all of the pictures of us and a changed her relationship status to single. I try to talk to her all i get was a text saying "i feel like i'm with you because its normal" which is what she said last time. She wont talk to me, or answer my calls. All i've gotten from her was that she doesn't want to talk to me, and we are broken up.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295687 - 04/15/11 01:40 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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legit27 said: I think she's already found someone else, and i think that may be why she broke up with me. 
Been there. Little over a year ago. There is sound advice in here man. look into it. Best thing I can say is go on with your life and keep busy. Live your life to the absolute fullest.
It was the best feeling in the world when I got a call from my ex on my bday(she dumped me on my bday 2010) and I told her what i've been up too. I could feel the regret through the phone. It was a nice bonus. Not to mention all the cool shit I've done the past year that would have NEVER been possible with her around.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Dunno]
#14295710 - 04/15/11 01:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: s0nny]
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legit27, how old is she?? somethings you mention seem really immature... anyway... that's usually worse to know at the time, but (although you like her) it can always help you see she was dishonest with you.
She breaks up with you (knowing it would hurt you), next day wants to get back, next day won't even talk to you, does she actually know what she wants or does she only want to fool around?? I don't mean to offend by it sounds like she's being a huge bitch with you, and you probably deserve better than that.
You have to think in yourself first and lookout for your wellbeing, and be extremely careful with those "relapses" as they do no good for you.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295853 - 04/15/11 02:15 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: pouihi]
#14295867 - 04/15/11 02:18 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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It does seem immature doesn't it? I haven't mentioned ages because i don't want to look down upon because of being young. But she is 18, i'm turning 19 in a couple of days.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: eloC]
#14295917 - 04/15/11 02:26 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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"She has deleted me from Facebook in order to help me get over her." - No, she deleted you so she can move on and you need to do the same. Do not try to contact her under any circumstances and eventually you will be able to move on.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Queen Sarah]
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Queen Sarah said: "She has deleted me from Facebook in order to help me get over her." - No, she deleted you so she can move on and you need to do the same. Do not try to contact her under any circumstances and eventually you will be able to move on.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14295979 - 04/15/11 02:37 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think she just wants to have lots of sex, with different guys, do drugs (even though she's addicted to pain killers and i was the only thing keeping her off them) and just not care about anything. she changed a lot in the last couple of months, i don't know why. But it happened. I miss what was, not what is now.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Queen Sarah]
#14295997 - 04/15/11 02:39 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah... usually when one ends a relationship, and says they're doing something for YOUR sake, it's not, it's for their own... same as the famous "It's not you, it's me"...
But that just goes to show you how asshole she's being with you.
Well she is immature, and even probably a bit immature for her age, if not immature, bitchy at the least. It's normal that you have an idealistic image of her, and when you get out of that intoxicated state you'll end up having a realistic image of her, seeing things as for example we see them, and that she was in fact an ass with you.
Fortunately for you, you are indeed young, which mean more for you, because now you have plenty of time to made up for wasted time!!
Are you already in any University?
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: pouihi]
#14296023 - 04/15/11 02:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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community college at the moment. Just getting the basics out of the way.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14296153 - 04/15/11 03:11 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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you see? you still have a lot ahead of you, lots of new people to meet, lots of places to go, you just have to be open to new experiences.
As it has been said, regarding girls you now think she was the one, you think that she couldn't be more fit, but have you ever though that maybe that goes because you haven't met better yet?
That eventually you might come to know someone that's even better than her, that doesn't change their mind sooner than their panties? a bit more honest, sincere, respectful, etc...
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: pouihi]
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Ignore her. It will drive her nuts.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: pouihi]
#14296215 - 04/15/11 03:26 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dude, your 19 man. I have a story to tell you... Im in my late 20's now. I got married when I was 19. I married a girl because I was with her for awhile and I was dumb... After being married for four years I find out that she cheated on me numerous times and lied, and just a bunch of dumb childish shit. When I was 23 we were divorced. Even though she did all of those awful things to me, I was still really hurt and sad that I wasn't going to be able to have the good times anymore. But ya know what... I am happy now... I really have never been happier... I finally got a chance to go hang out with my friends. I got a chance to get wasted if I just felt like getting wasted... I could sit around all night watching the whole back to the future series. Your 19. I know it seems like you wanted to spend your life with this chick, but man... just relax a little. right now is the time to find out who YOU are, not trying to make yourself into someone someone else wants. Go experience life a little. There are so many woman out there, when you realize it... like really realize it... well... it will be a good day for you. There are woman that aren't gonna fuck with you or hurt you. Woman that are sincere and not only want to be with you, but be your friend too and support you. Just realize that if it didn't work than it didn't work and take it with a grain of salt. The next like 6 years will be the times you will learn the most about yourself and where you will start realizing what you want out of life. Be patient. Just like when you grow mushies Good luck home skillet. Keep your head up and KNOW that your a good person. Dont let anything or anyone bring you down.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: eloC]
#14296331 - 04/15/11 03:51 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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eloC said: Go get laid!

Some say this is the best way...
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: TYL3R]
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Listen To Sarfix, he has the right frame of mind. We've all been there, I just broke it off with my girlfriend of 4 years this past september and after a month or two I felt brand new! Just hang in there, time will heal all.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14296509 - 04/15/11 04:33 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Focus on fucking a different girl.
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She texted me saying that she still wanted to be friends. I told her that after what she did i'm not sure if i want to be her friend now, or ever. She said okay, peace.
 i was becoming okay, until i saw her name pop up on my phone, and then my heart stopped. She also said that i can talk to her tonight, i just want to get some things off of my chest. Then i'll be happier. Then i can move on. Just something about her, makes me feel like she doesn't really care about me.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Rectangle 3D]
#14297028 - 04/15/11 06:04 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Say what you need to say, but dont hang up holding on to hope. Leaving shit open ended will just make the next few days even worse than they will be.
I had an 8 ball and a mirror, , use the Shroomery and your buddies/family to pull through. Your real friends will show themselves to you in the coming weeks.
There will be a day in the coming weeks where it clicks and you realize how fucking dope it is being free....you'll see
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14297048 - 04/15/11 06:07 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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shLong said: Say what you need to say, but dont hang up holding on to hope. Leaving shit open ended will just make the next few days even worse than they will be.
use the Shroomery and your buddies/family to pull through. Your real friends will show themselves to you in the coming weeks.
There will be a day in the coming weeks where it clicks and you realize how fucking dope it is being free....you'll see 
^^ the absolute truth.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: s0nny]
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I love you all...
Great seeing people pull a feller up from his abyss...If you find your way to Wisco in the coming days, OP, I got some Xanax bars to get ya thru the rough nights
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
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get a new bitch to make your old bitch jealous. and maybe shell beg for you back
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14297573 - 04/15/11 07:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i'm not the type to just use girls like that. Also I just need to say some thing, and then be on my way. At the moment, i feel like there has been no closure, i have questions that i would be asking myself over and over, i just need answers. I know i probably wont get them, but i know that if i just try, it will make me feel better. then it's the single life until i find a babe that wants me. Fucking hate being single. I went to eat with my mom and dad tonight (i live with them, until i can get my own place) i totaly forgot about everything and just had a good time.
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I might be coming up there this summer with one of my buddies, not sure when though or if its for sure.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297597 - 04/15/11 07:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Some of the best lessons in life are the hardest to comprehend and receive.
A guy once told me "it is always darkest right before dawn," and it's stuck with me ever since. I've found that it's true whenever you hit rock bottom you are still given the opportunity to build yourself and grow in a way that was previously impossible.
I doubt anything anyone says is going to help your grieving; that process usually takes time.
What I can personally suggest is that if she is over you, then you should completely move on. Don't waste your precious time on people who don't reciprocate your love. Thus, bow out gracefully - be appreciative for the great times and work on bettering yourself. As cliche as it is, there are plenty of beautiful people you will meet later down the road.
Peace, brother.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297613 - 04/15/11 07:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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legit27 said: Fucking hate being single.
man I was just like you, and I went through a very similar situation. I got my first "girlfriend" when I was 12, and stayed with her til I was 15, then was with a different chick from 15-17, then from 17-20 I was with another girl. I was ALWAYS in a relationship, and now that I've been single for a year and a half I'm seriously enjoying it and I don't want another relationship any time soon.
Seriously, take this time alone to really learn who YOU are. I used to get really lonely until I started to think. We're born alone, we die alone, we are always truly alone, and we should learn to love ourselves and enjoy our time spent alone. Think about some day when you have a wife & kids and a full time job, and you hardly EVER get time alone...
All I'm saying is that I know it's nice to be in a relationship, but being single can be great
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297617 - 04/15/11 07:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah dude i guess. that shit happened to me though a few years back. hurt like a bitch. made me jealous a shit ton. it took her a week to find a new guy and i was just left with how could someone just get over you that fast? you know? but yeah almost same situation. so i thought id just tell you what they did. but yeah man. who knows. maybe you two will be together in the future. just nows not the right time. friends will help you and so will self confidence. keep your head high bro
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dr_gonz]
#14297680 - 04/15/11 08:11 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Gonz comin' in with the heat!
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: The Whale]
#14297912 - 04/15/11 08:46 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway.
no.. you dont want this, it will prob hurt you then as well. Get laid man. Getting laid helps alot to forget. Never contact her again. It helped me. Get new friends. That helps too. and again, get laid, go meet some girls.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14297946 - 04/15/11 08:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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dshow said:
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So theres a start, i will stop talking to her for now, but still will in the future because she was a badass friend anyway.
no.. you dont want this, it will prob hurt you then as well. Get laid man. Getting laid helps alot to forget. Never contact her again. It helped me. Get new friends. That helps too. and again, get laid, go meet some girls.
i dont know. She was with me when my mom was int he hospital, when my grandmother got cancer, when my life was falling apart in every direction. The last 2 years have been the hardest for me, and loosing her, is like loosing a sister or relative.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297951 - 04/15/11 08:54 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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well.. when you see her with another guy. you will see what im saying. When you realize some other dude is fucking her. and she no longer cares about you. You will get it
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14297965 - 04/15/11 08:58 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i know. I'll get it then. Its hard to even think about now. I was her first too.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14297991 - 04/15/11 09:03 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i know. I'll get it then. Its hard to even think about now. I was her first too.
You sounds just like me 2 years ago. it was the same shit. same scenario. except mine went with my friend. skip 2 years later, im looking back and wish i bitched her the fuck out. trust me bro. dont you dare put her on any pedestal or even come close to looking like you want to be friends. because it will be 2 years from now and you will look back and be like omfg WHY DID I DO THAT. BITCH. yep. and you know what? it sucks, it sucks, you cant believe it, but shes probably already talking to other guys and will probably get laid before the months's end.
so you do your thang and dont even think about her.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: dshow]
#14298090 - 04/15/11 09:24 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I talked to her, got everything off of my chest. and then told her that i did not want to talk to her anymore. No response.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298100 - 04/15/11 09:25 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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thats good man. it will help you out in the long run. you remain friends or knowing her. its gonna fuck you in the head when you see or hear about her with someone else, not you. trust me... stay clear
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: blazenn]
#14298200 - 04/15/11 09:46 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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find a new hobbie that you really enjoy in the meantime, meet a new girl, or talk to a girl you already know, go on a date, doesn't have to be serious, just to make you see theres plenty of other girls out there.
Source: worked for me
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: cdnshroom]
#14298212 - 04/15/11 09:48 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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facebook is good for talking to girls.  family i good for having a laugh. Friends are good for getting your mind off of everything. I will try to resist my urges of talking to my ex, and not have contact for a long time, if ever. I am going to try and learn guitar and climb mountains and smoke pot.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298254 - 04/15/11 09:58 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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legit27 said:
I am going to try and learn guitar and climb mountains and smoke pot.
learning to smoke pot
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298294 - 04/15/11 10:06 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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eat a quarter or half OZ of mushys and forget those 2 years you wasted in a big ego death
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: cdnshroom]
#14298295 - 04/15/11 10:06 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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cdnshroom said:
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legit27 said:
I am going to try and learn guitar and climb mountains and smoke pot.
learning to smoke pot 
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DMOF.....risky biz! I wouldnt reccomend that.......
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298323 - 04/15/11 10:13 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I always get over it by smoking a ridiculous amount of pot, and getting strange ass left and right.
And dont ever think about her, delete the cell phone pics, the wallpapers, the numbers etc.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298324 - 04/15/11 10:14 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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shLong said: DMOF.....risky biz! I wouldnt reccomend that.......
not much more risky..then say wasting two years with a selfish beeyotch.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298428 - 04/15/11 10:39 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Two years definitely not wasted, i was happy, thats all that matters. Already deleted all facebook pictures, time for the cell phone. Nudes are going to suck getting rid of, but they wont help anything. i feel like i am ripping pages from my life.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298434 - 04/15/11 10:40 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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You're going about it the wrong way.
You cant be getting over a girl
You have to be coming into yourself again.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Azure Essence]
#14298447 - 04/15/11 10:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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???
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298461 - 04/15/11 10:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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nudes ya say?
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298468 - 04/15/11 10:47 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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not posting them.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298471 - 04/15/11 10:47 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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If you go about it in a way like you're getting over a girl, and it's all this battle agains some thoughts about a girl and yada yada, you're ultimately letting this girl control your life, and even when you 'get over her' You will still be attached because that's how you frame it.
It's like in AA, all those people who dont drink anymore, but they spend every second of their lives thinking about not drinking.
You cant do that. You have to be doing this purely for you, without the intention of having her impact it. You shouldnt think of the whole process of 'getting over her' the whole process has to be 'getting more comfortable and confidant with yourself'
Otherwise you'll always be stuck in that trap
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Azure Essence]
#14298484 - 04/15/11 10:50 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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lol ...j/k
long day eh, bud?
have any sleeping/allergy pills?
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298494 - 04/15/11 10:52 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i have a bottle of benadryl, melatonin, and tylenol PM
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14298537 - 04/15/11 10:59 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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diphenhydramine .... take 50-75 mg n get some good sleep
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: shLong]
#14298551 - 04/15/11 11:01 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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50-75 = 2 or 3 of either benadryl or tylenol pm......check label though, of course
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
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legit27 said: Two years definitely not wasted, i was happy, thats all that matters. Already deleted all facebook pictures, time for the cell phone. Nudes are going to suck getting rid of, but they wont help anything. i feel like i am ripping pages from my life.
yeh
you can photoshop her face.
iwasnt jokin with the heavy trip ego death route, just make sure you wait awhile. so your not all depressed and have a bad trip.
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I took 3 benadryl pills. Ended up passing out. I thought it was suppose to suppress dreams, but actually it made them much more active. I had one really cool dream, and one about her.
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Re: Forcing myself to get over a girl. Tips? [Re: Legend]
#14300932 - 04/16/11 01:20 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I have some wild dreams sometimes with that shit. I use it often though ( I work really early and I dont fall asleep well)
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