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dummy
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Dumped her...
#14286100 - 04/13/11 07:34 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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well the saga continues.
she dumped me in noverember and takes me back in january. after months of good relationshiping i was suddenly reminded of how she dropped me in my time of need. i started probing her about that time of her life. she told always told me she just talked to this guy because he listened to her blah blah... today it finally comes out that they made out. i felt betrayed because whenever she confronted me i always told her straight up what was going on. i've told her really embarrassing shit for the sake of honesty in the relationship. lies are the thanks i get.
shes a good girl when times are good but when times are rough she's talking to the next guy. it hurts but what is a man to do? you live and you learn.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286151 - 04/13/11 07:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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The hard part is staying tough and sticking to your guns. Not going back to her a few weeks later and trying to win her back...
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Its not hard to stick to your guns if she's a total flake when even the smallest amount of shit hits the fan.
Good job OP.
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dummy
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: Joolz]
#14286195 - 04/13/11 07:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeah i made a mistake back in january trying to work it out with her. it sucks because she is a good girl... but she has a history of just hitting up the next dude when shit hits the fan. i only let people that are down for me and are real into my life, she's neither of those so now i'm alone. a 3 year learning experience. the next one that gets this close to me will be my wife.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286207 - 04/13/11 07:49 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Its alright brotha, we're all alone at some point. I'm alone because my most recent ex just wouldn't make time for me. Literally going months without seeing someone you've been dating for years is ridiculous.
Dumb bitches are dumb bitches. Just move on and find the next one.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: Joolz]
#14286214 - 04/13/11 07:50 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i've never been an adult bachelor so i'm kind of looking forward to all the cool ladies that i'll be meeting.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286221 - 04/13/11 07:51 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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That's the spirit!
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286316 - 04/13/11 08:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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dummy said: well the saga continues.
she dumped me in noverember and takes me back in january. after months of good relationshiping i was suddenly reminded of how she dropped me in my time of need. i started probing her about that time of her life. she told always told me she just talked to this guy because he listened to her blah blah... today it finally comes out that they made out. i felt betrayed because whenever she confronted me i always told her straight up what was going on. i've told her really embarrassing shit for the sake of honesty in the relationship. lies are the thanks i get.
shes a good girl when times are good but when times are rough she's talking to the next guy. it hurts but what is a man to do? you live and you learn.
You dumped her because she "made out" with someone? I wish my ex made out with someone, she went and FUCKED another guy when we broke up......
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dummy
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if a woman can't be loyal enough to keep her tongue to herself while stringing me along, then i don't have room for her in my life. if she doesn't have the heart to tell me the truth when i'm looking in her eyes, she has no chance of being my wife. life is challenging...
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dummy
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dr_gonz]
#14286469 - 04/13/11 08:29 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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its seriously hilarious...
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286488 - 04/13/11 08:32 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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dummy said: its seriously hilarious...
It is by no means comical. Shit happens though, good to know you're moving on.
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
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dummy said: well the saga continues.
she dumped me in noverember and takes me back in january. after months of good relationshiping i was suddenly reminded of how she dropped me in my time of need. i started probing her about that time of her life. she told always told me she just talked to this guy because he listened to her blah blah... today it finally comes out that they made out. i felt betrayed because whenever she confronted me i always told her straight up what was going on. i've told her really embarrassing shit for the sake of honesty in the relationship. lies are the thanks i get.
shes a good girl when times are good but when times are rough she's talking to the next guy. it hurts but what is a man to do? you live and you learn.
You dumped her because she "made out" with someone? I wish my ex made out with someone, she went and FUCKED another guy when we broke up......
i get the feeling my EX is about to do that... and it's consuming my mind now. because i know who the likely dude is and i want to knock him out now.
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dummy
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i really appreciate the support guys. second guessing myself and the dreadful feelings that accompany the end of a relationship are a bitch to deal with.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286585 - 04/13/11 08:51 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sounds like she deserves much better if she made out with someone while you guys were broken up and thats ground for dumping.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: TTT]
#14286637 - 04/13/11 08:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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sounds to me like your reading comprehension skills are a work in progress.
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Re: Dumped her... [Re: dummy]
#14286743 - 04/13/11 09:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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dummy said: i really appreciate the support guys. second guessing myself and the dreadful feelings that accompany the end of a relationship are a bitch to deal with.
going through that exact same shit right now man. plus i saw my ex yesterday to pick up some of my shit from her house... spent the day together. it felt great.
feel kinda like shit today. don't think she feels the same at all. fuck. we were together for 7 years too.... long ass time. felt right to break up a month ago, now i don't know what feels right.
not going to sleep well. just sent her a facebook message. probably a bad move on my part. i should've just rode out these feelings for another week til they disappear.
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dummy
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my plan is just to sort of find me again. i made a lot of sacrifices for the relationship in terms of my social life, and my life in general, and now i have to piece this shit back together. it hurts but i'm going to stay strong and get back to me again. i hope it (your happiness and well being) works out for you as well. why did you two split?
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ya always have a back up girl.....Like a side of pototoes with your main course.
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Getting back with a girl you broke up with almost always ends in regret.
I tried making the most difficult relationship of my life work time and time again. Each time i got hurt more and it ended worse. I think i have finally let go of her (its been a while and we don't talk at all. Online or anything).
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