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Anonymous #1

Do girls ever make the first move?
    #14277696 - 04/12/11 12:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.

This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.

(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?

Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #14277832 - 04/12/11 12:50 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It is the guy's job to make the first move, regardless of what type of girl it is.  Usually the girls who make the first move are sluts, and that's why girls with self-respect don't usually do that shit.

As a male, it is your job to take responsibility for the subconscious desire to fuck each other.  This is also necessary because it helps weed out which girls are worth the stress of making a move and which ones are not.

Being alpha means being on top and in control.  Any guy that is too much of a pussy to make a move probably HAS a pussy and would much rather take a big cock up it than man up and make a move.


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: shimishimiman]
    #14277858 - 04/12/11 12:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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It is the guy's job to make the first move, regardless of what type of girl it is.  Usually the girls who make the first move are sluts, and that's why girls with self-respect don't usually do that shit.

As a male, it is your job to take responsibility for the subconscious desire to fuck each other.  This is also necessary because it helps weed out which girls are worth the stress of making a move and which ones are not.

Being alpha means being on top and in control.  Any guy that is too much of a pussy to make a move probably HAS a pussy and would much rather take a big cock up it than man up and make a move.



you are right but.


i myself dont have the bawls to walk up to a chick and flirt with her , for one because i have no clue if she has a bf or if she would be interested at all.


the other reason is she will prob think im a creep or perhaps not her type.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #14277860 - 04/12/11 12:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.

This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.

(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?

Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?




When it comes to girls, we DO make first moves, but they're way more subtle than the moves we expect to have made ON us.

Our first move looks more like "making ourselves available".  We hang around near you, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, talk indirectly about things we'd love to see and do in our lives, and from there, it's up to you guys to pick up on it and take the lead if you like us too.  We will rarely ask directly.

We also treat you badly to see if you'll let us do it - and we lose respect and sexual attraction if you let us get away with it.  Look up the concept of a "shit test" for more of what I mean.

PS: If you don't have the balls to risk rejection, you'll get "chosen" by a woman who senses your weakness and will take advantage of you for it.  And don't think I mean sexually, either.  Sure, you'll get that initially to hook you in, but once that happens (and guys who don't get it often get hooked easily) she'll cut out the sex, drain you emotionally, financially, and probably then cheat on you in the end.  Find your balls, man.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #14277897 - 04/12/11 01:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

This chick knows what's up, I strongly advise you take her word for it.


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #14277913 - 04/12/11 01:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.

This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.

(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?

Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?




When it comes to girls, we DO make first moves, but they're way more subtle than the moves we expect to have made ON us.

Our first move looks more like "making ourselves available".  We hang around near you, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, talk indirectly about things we'd love to see and do in our lives, and from there, it's up to you guys to pick up on it and take the lead if you like us too.  We will rarely ask directly.

We also treat you badly to see if you'll let us do it - and we lose respect and sexual attraction if you let us get away with it.  Look up the concept of a "shit test" for more of what I mean.

PS: If you don't have the balls to risk rejection, you'll get "chosen" by a woman who senses your weakness and will take advantage of you for it.  And don't think I mean sexually, either.  Sure, you'll get that initially to hook you in, but once that happens (and guys who don't get it often get hooked easily) she'll cut out the sex, drain you emotionally, financially, and probably then cheat on you in the end.  Find your balls, man.



Spot on.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: shimishimiman] * 3
    #14277979 - 04/12/11 01:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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It is the guy's job to make the first move, regardless of what type of girl it is.  Usually the girls who make the first move are sluts, and that's why girls with self-respect don't usually do that shit.

As a male, it is your job to take responsibility for the subconscious desire to fuck each other.  This is also necessary because it helps weed out which girls are worth the stress of making a move and which ones are not.

Being alpha means being on top and in control.  Any guy that is too much of a pussy to make a move probably HAS a pussy and would much rather take a big cock up it than man up and make a move.



I've never made the first move. This has ended up in random sex on the spot. These girls that have done this are usually reserved.

Sorry bro, but I personally don't like fucking everything in sight, maybe you can call a girl a slut, but guys can also be sluts :commonsense: Anyways, I'd rather be the guy who makes the girl think that either A) I'm fucking with her mind B) I'm that one guy who isn't like the others

Also, if you're going to be fighting for a girl, I find that to be quite childish, cause it ends up in a fist fight or the girl choosing sides. Call me a virgin if you want, but I've had my share of sex doing this, I've almost never failed, because the girls aren't used to a guy who is so open and honest.


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14277999 - 04/12/11 01:21 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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I've only had a girl initiate sex once. Every other time i'm always making the first move.

This is kind of nerve wracking for a guy. Shy girls rarely show signs of interest and never make the first move.

(girls) Do you typically like it when the guy makes the first move? Have you ever been in really awkward situations where you wish he didn't make the move?

Also how many guys have met girls who do make the first move? Do you do it on the first date or wait a little?




I've been both been initiated sex on, and been made first general approach on, and that was by a shy girl.


Fighting for a girl is never a good option. And you have the illusion that you make the move on girl, so therefore you make the girl like you, and therefore you have control -- but in the end, you need to make a girl choose you, which  speaks for itself. Girls choose and initiate, not guys. Usually guy just expresses that he is capable of initiation, so he is worthy of womans attention.

Women are selective, men are opportunistic, so we don't really choose, we just go for the meat.

Edited by Simms (04/12/11 01:26 PM)

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Simms]
    #14278025 - 04/12/11 01:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Girls rarely make first moves. Its happened to me a couple times.

id say 1:50 ratio

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: dshow]
    #14278048 - 04/12/11 01:30 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

she just started jerking me off and im like "i dont even know your name" ahaha


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: shimishimiman]
    #14278224 - 04/12/11 02:07 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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shimishimiman said:
It is the guy's job to make the first move, regardless of what type of girl it is.  Usually the girls who make the first move are sluts, and that's why girls with self-respect don't usually do that shit.

As a male, it is your job to take responsibility for the subconscious desire to fuck each other.  This is also necessary because it helps weed out which girls are worth the stress of making a move and which ones are not.

Being alpha means being on top and in control.  Any guy that is too much of a pussy to make a move probably HAS a pussy and would much rather take a big cock up it than man up and make a move.




I'm not saying sex necessarily.

I've had someone who definitely wasn't a slut make the first move. She didnt just go for it, she just showed interest by the way she held my hand, then i took it from there.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: shimishimiman] * 4
    #14278341 - 04/12/11 02:32 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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shimishimiman said:
It is the guy's job to make the first move, regardless of what type of girl it is.  Usually the girls who make the first move are sluts, and that's why girls with self-respect don't usually do that shit.

As a male, it is your job to take responsibility for the subconscious desire to fuck each other.  This is also necessary because it helps weed out which girls are worth the stress of making a move and which ones are not.

Being alpha means being on top and in control.  Any guy that is too much of a pussy to make a move probably HAS a pussy and would much rather take a big cock up it than man up and make a move.




Bullshit! Stop making up rules that are only in your head and that don't have anything to do with the laws of human nature.
OP, I'm assuming that the reason why girls usually don't make the first move is a cultural thing and not becuse they don't wanna get laid. Personally, I never even felt any meaningful amount of sexual attraction to passive girls. It's kind of stupid, imo, to pass so much fun just because you might be considered a slut. Anyone so stupid isn't worth it. :shrug:


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: MushroomTrip] * 2
    #14278374 - 04/12/11 02:40 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I thinks it's more of a self-conscious thing than intellect.:wink:


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: thoughts]
    #14278444 - 04/12/11 02:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Yes, girls rarely make the fist move but if they like you enough they will. My current GF made the first move on me and I'm glad she did. She was also the first one to say "I love you."

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #14278534 - 04/12/11 03:05 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Bullshit! Stop making up rules that are only in your head and that don't have anything to do with the laws of human nature.
OP, I'm assuming that the reason why girls usually don't make the first move is a cultural thing and not becuse they don't wanna get laid. Personally, I never even felt any meaningful amount of sexual attraction to passive girls. It's kind of stupid, imo, to pass so much fun just because you might be considered a slut. Anyone so stupid isn't worth it. :shrug:




I'm just wondering if it happens. I rarely see it happen. Its definitely hot when a girl "wants it". And i'm not just saying sex. For a girl to initiate a kiss is even hot. It is against social norms though.

And a girl isn't a slut for making the first move :shrug: If she goes around jumping on everyones dick she's a slut. But just because she shows 1 guy that she likes him doesn't mean she's a slut.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14278659 - 04/12/11 03:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

surprised yogabunny hasn't replied to this thread, she usually replies to these types of threads :shrug:


has anyone seen her recently btw? i hope she didn't end up in prison or whatever.


anyway, yeah, fighting over a girl is bullshit. and 95% of chicks(if not more) usually think it's ok to fight over a chick, and will do it to people. it's something their brain can't comprehend. because of the way society works, chicks usually do fit into one category or the other

a) they are hoes, and initiate. the chicks that initiate are way more fun, at first, but you pay later. i've learned this the hard way. initiating chicks are awesome because they climb all over you, but end up being fucking hoes.

b) they take years to pick up, but are reserved for people they want. these can be an indecisive, pain in the ass, in major ways. but you can rely on them not going for every single guy they see



society is unfortunately like this. and it is bullshit. but the 'hoes' whether straight out hoe and honest, or bullshit type ho. will make you fight over them with another dude, this type of thing is quite predictable unless you are a newbie to this sort of thing. but it sucks. you have to watch out for it.


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: imachavel]
    #14278674 - 04/12/11 03:30 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

:rofl2:


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #14279726 - 04/12/11 07:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I hear it's largely cultural.  In a country like Brazil, it's quite common for women to initiate things.  In America, women tend to fear that they'll be vilified as sluts if they do something like that.


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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Silversoul]
    #14280170 - 04/12/11 08:20 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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a) they are hoes, and initiate. the chicks that initiate are way more fun, at first, but you pay later. i've learned this the hard way. initiating chicks are awesome because they climb all over you, but end up being fucking hoes.

b) they take years to pick up, but are reserved for people they want. these can be an indecisive, pain in the ass, in major ways. but you can rely on them not going for every single guy they see






Remember i'm not necessarily saying the first move is climbing onto a guy's cock.

It could be something very simple like a kiss. Or grabbing a guys hand to get his attention.

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Re: Do girls ever make the first move? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14280813 - 04/12/11 09:54 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I've had a heap of girls make moves on me. I might be an outlier though. I do not mind it in the slightest, although sometimes it does surprise me. A couple weeks ago I met this girl while we were studying with a mutual friend. She was smokin too. She left after a couple hours there, and texted the mutual friend asking what I thought of her. I said she was cute and he said yeah well you got a green light. "Just like that?!" It was actually kind of a letdown because I enjoy a little suspense and tension though.

Bottom line it happens. For me it happens enough that I have only once needed to really pursue a girl to make shit happen. I ain't trying to brag either, honestly I'm a bit oblivious to what the draw is but fuck it I hope it lasts.


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