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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: automan]
    #14423276 - 05/09/11 06:31 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

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Psychoslut said:
if she wanted to she could of told him to stop and told her friend she thought she was about to get raped and leave.
thats not what happened man, she kept kissing him. She got some strange behind your back.
its over man, your relationship cant ever be the same again imo.





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:whathesaid::thumbup: drop her man it can only lead to more nights like this or your mind always "racing" on what she's doing when she's out. :shrug:


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: XxT1AlphaxX]
    #14426132 - 05/09/11 06:27 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

we've been had.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: memes]
    #14427436 - 05/09/11 10:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

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AUX said:
9 days later and still no update!







Hey now, we already at a "5am and my girlfriend is not home yet."


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Society]
    #14427644 - 05/10/11 12:01 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

WTF HAPPENED !!!!!!!!:minigun:


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14454646 - 05/15/11 02:11 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

oaint?


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14847565 - 07/30/11 07:42 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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WTF HAPPENED !!!!!!!!:minigun:




Hello all... I'm back. I apologize for leaving everyone on the edge of their seats there for awhile. It was not very cool of me. I planned on updating everyone at one point, but I never got around to it... I didn't really care to delve back into the thing. Hopefully some of you can understand that. It's still not cool to start a thread of this nature and bail... Sorry! :tongue:

A little update on the situation and our relationship:
Everything is good... better than I can ever remember it, actually. We've done nothing but become closer these past few months; it's beautiful. If anything, what happened was a wake up call to the both of us...

I have no doubts about her or her motives or any of that... she's not THAT type of girl. She's not some lying slut... She's not dishonest in any way. And no, I'm not a deluded, weak boyfriend that wants to believe this shit... a couple shroom sessions between us confirmed that for the both of us and helped to shed some light on some things.... I could see her.... She could see me..... and I have no doubts now. She really is the yin to my yang. She's orange and I'm blue-green. hahaha :heart:

The thought of it really doesn't bother me anymore... I don't torture myself with what happened or imagine it or any of that (like I did when it initially happened). I look at it as I do with the rest of the things of that nature in her past... She used to be a bit of a beer slut in highschool - though she's only had like 7 partners, 8 including me)... She's 21 years old now and aside from that recent "slip-up" she hasn't been unfaithful, dishonest or anything of the sort. I don't even think of that stuff, and if I do, it's only for a moment.... I focus on US, here, in the moment.

Here's something: A month or two ago, her and I went to Walmart at like 5am... We were looking around for shit and I look up, down an aisle or two and guess who I see? The kid she had the "slip-up" with.... Instantly my blood began to boil (I should mention that still, to this day when we go downtown, I'm looking for this guy.... not exactly to beat his ass... maybe, actually.... but say, if we're at a gas station or something, I scan the parking lot... I eyeball every mother fucker who I see... not in a "don't fuck with me way".... I'm just scanning and I've absolutely no fear of anything/any one since this situation happened).

Anyway, my girlfriend saw him as well and she insisted we leave... I agreed... We start walking away, I'm still shaking with rage and out of nowhere I look over and she starts sobbing... We got back to the car and she held me so tight for so long... She kept apologizing.... This type of shit is very reassuring........

My girlfriend also works at McDonald's on the night-shift.... Her half-sister (if you remember her from earlier on) comes in and sometimes brings this fucker into the store with her to order food (they're friends). One of the girls she works with is also friends with her half-sister (used to live with her too) and one night when they came in, my girlfriend started crying... the girl she worked with asked what was wrong... she told her... the girl she worked with thought it was sort of fucked up and proceeded to take my girlfriend's half-sister outside and "set her straight"... she told her she was fucked up to bring him around... My girlfriend got a txt the next day from her half-sister who apologized and said she drunk and wasn't thinking and blah, blah...

In short, this shit is reassuring to me... Whenever we talk about it or anything it becomes apparent that she beats herself up over what happened... this I kinda knew... But when it comes out it's, over course, reassuring and really cuts thru any bullshit I may be feeling and brings us together even more.

Yeah, it happened.... Yeah, she hurt me... but I forgive her entirely. It's made us both a lot more conscious of our love for one another and it is expressed a hell of a lot more. Our relationship is as good and as strong as ever and in some bittersweet way, is a blessing.

I still don't forgive the guy, though... The dude is like 26 and still parties with highschool girls and shit.... He's looking for one thing and in my case, he got it.... He knew she had a boyfriend, that didn't deter him... he didn't respect that. The guy is a scrawny fucking Facebook whore who is "one of those" who takes mirror pics of himself with his shirt off and shit... I don't like those people to begin with... but he's a predator... the type of male I fucking detest and would have half a mind to beat the shit out of anyway. I've yet to see him downtown other than with my girlfriend the day at Walmart.... but we live in a town of about 6000 people, so we're going to see eachother again at some point. I know it won't solve anything or make the situation much better, but I truly think that when that day comes, I will drop his ass... I'm human.... I still have somewhat of an animal nature in me..... and he fucked me over.... so the way I see it, I've yet to return the favor. And I honestly think it'd make me feel better on some low level.  :shrug:

Thanks for listening, guys... And sorry, again, for leaving you all hanging. I hope this update helps.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14847707 - 07/30/11 08:55 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

OMFG REALLY? This is the EXACT same shit that was going on earlier  :dizope:




and i waited forever :zomgwtf:



Your still mad at this dude. A predator? Your girl is 21 years old. He is not a predator. Again he didnt do shit, it was your girl who is with you. Your girl who fucked you. Whats that one thing? sex? well yea der da der. What guy isnt? Take pictures of himself for what?? MORE SEX? well yea der da der. Nothing wrong with the dufferbro. I just cant believe your even still mad about this guy who doesnt even know you. When in reality It is your girl that betrayed you. :sad:


One thing i can see is that your girl knows EXACTLY how to play your emotions. She knows how to work you soooo gooood.


But hey its all done and over with? And your back together. Congrats. I hope things work out for the two of you. If she ever pulls anything even remotely similar again, dump her asap, because that means she didnt just make a mistake, she walks all over you cuz she can.

Again have fun in life, have fun with her. Congrats. And cool story yo. :thumbup:


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14847738 - 07/30/11 09:07 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

That's some funny shit.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly [Re: dshow]
    #14847870 - 07/30/11 09:43 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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dshow said:
OMFG REALLY? This is the EXACT same shit that was going on earlier  :dizope:




and i waited forever :zomgwtf:



Your still mad at this dude. A predator? Your girl is 21 years old. He is not a predator. Again he didnt do shit, it was your girl who is with you. Your girl who fucked you. Whats that one thing? sex? well yea der da der. What guy isnt? Take pictures of himself for what?? MORE SEX? well yea der da der. Nothing wrong with the dufferbro. I just cant believe your even still mad about this guy who doesnt even know you. When in reality It is your girl that betrayed you. :sad:


One thing i can see is that your girl knows EXACTLY how to play your emotions. She knows how to work you soooo gooood.


But hey its all done and over with? And your back together. Congrats. I hope things work out for the two of you. If she ever pulls anything even remotely similar again, dump her asap, because that means she didnt just make a mistake, she walks all over you cuz she can.

Again have fun in life, have fun with her. Congrats. And cool story yo. :thumbup:




Sorry I couldn't deliver an entertaining story for you.... Just an update.

Not a predator like a child predator or anything... hahaha... Just the typical male predator... 26 and still going to highschool parties to get laid? That shit, to me anyway, is fucking repulsive. I don't like many people... they're full-grown children. So a lot of things that are the norm for most I find obnoxious.

This part: "One thing i can see is that your girl knows EXACTLY how to play your emotions. She knows how to work you soooo gooood."

It's funny you assume what's going on... and if it appears that way, that's my fault... but I'm sure you gather this from experience and assume this is the case. It isn't... but this is the internet... and I don't convey info as accurately with words as others can. Believe what you will.

I'm very aware that this type of thing is entirely possible, bro... I'm not an idiot. It's just not the case. I'm not trying to convince you... you'll infer what you will.

And you wouldn't be mad at the dude? Sounds like you and him may have a lot in common, maybe? I hope not... You think this type of shit is cool and alright? Mackin' on a girl who's taken? Sorry, bro, I don't. I'd have a problem even if they never hooked up. I'm old-fashioned that way. :shrug:

And the dude does know me... We live in a small town of 6000.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14847884 - 07/30/11 09:47 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: memes]
    #14848403 - 07/30/11 12:16 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Nah i had been fucked over by a guy going behind my back with my gf, and it was a friend no less. OK if the dude DOES know you. But knowing of you and knowing you are 2 different things. Either way yea its wrong. But she was too, then again if meams is right. :sad:

meams im sure you already did but read ealier posts. Meams you could easily say the opposite of what your saying. His earlier posts from months ago shows another story.


YES if she is breaking down and crying, that does seem to be pretty obvious shes hurt and maybe even a rape victem. Like i said cool you guys are back together and goodluck.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14849507 - 07/30/11 05:36 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I don't think she was "raped", per se... (though meams is dead-on about how girls react to that shit) But she really doesn't know how all the kissing and shit started. She only remembers certain points throughout the whole thing... One minute they were in the kitchen talking, the next on the couch kissing, she remembers him on top of her, and had no idea (until the next day when he confirmed it) that they had sex. At certain points she even thinks she passed out, particularly around the time when she remembers him on top of her.

She had stayed up all night the night before, took an adderal... started drinking about 4pm... was incredibly drunk when she came home and I saw her (10pm or so) - before she went to her half-sisters - and continued to do numerous shots when she got there... I can only image how fucked up she was after I saw her.

And yes, dshow, she was wrong... I don't mean to make it sound like she wasn't. She betrayed me... The good thing is, she knows it... that's what seems to kill her the most.

The reason I think she continually breaks down over it is because she's ashamed that it even happened... ashamed that she hurt me/betrayed me/almost lost me... She's a very sweet, outgoing, happy-go-lucky type... and she's very emotional. Whenever she thinks of it she starts to cry... and after that cathartic shroom trip we had together, it was more than obvious how sincere she always is with me. I found out the next morning... she didn't hide it... didn't attempt to hide it... It was simply an unfortunate happening; and one she regrets, of course.

She's a great person... Totally optimistic and enthusiastic... happy-go-lucky, sensitive to others, very emotional.... If there's one word to describe her, it's 'fun'... She's the life of any party... She wants to be friends with everyone and wants everyone to have fun. I don't have to incessantly worry about her flirting with guys or fucking around on me or any of that... She considers me the 'perfect' boyfriend (not tooting my own horn here)... The only thing I worried about when she went to parties was predators preying on her, really.

Her mom is the archetype of someone she doesn't want to be. She's a terrible drunk... wasn't much of a mother figure (emotionally distant, saw her kids as roadblocks getting in the way of her having fun and so on...) and she sees that negative image in herself when she (im speaking of my girlfriend) drinks. She doesn't like seeing that part in her and doesn't drink nearly as much as she did back in her high school days.

We're still going strong nearly 3 and a half years into it... And like I said, this situation is bittersweet... It was a horrible thing to happen and to go thru for the both of us; but it made us both more conscious of each other, our relationship and helped solidify our feelings in each other.

She now only drinks when I'm around... Which, of course, makes me a happy, worry-free camper. :grin:


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14849556 - 07/30/11 06:12 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: memes]
    #14849577 - 07/30/11 06:30 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

After my gf cheated on me, she said the exact thing your gf did I have somethin to tell you.
It's honestly one of the worst feelings in the world. My gf wasnt drunk at all and drove like half an hour away to fuck some dude that had class with me.
Then he tries to make it up to me sayin he'll smoke me up:facepalm:
I told him if I ever saw him or he talked to my gf i would literally kill him(Which I probably would of gotten close to that. Woulda disfigured him none the less)


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14850076 - 07/31/11 01:19 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

She cheated on you then played mental gymnastics to make herself be the victim.

Tough call here... trust is broken


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: baraka]
    #14850259 - 07/31/11 02:59 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Your girlfriend cheated on you.

That guy is not a good friend. He is not accountable for ANYTHING and you shouldn't blame people who have NO blame.


Intoxication is not a legal excuse for any crime and it shouldn't be an excuse for cheating. I hope you work it out, but she did it. Not the guy. You have to work it out with her, and I hope you do.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14850402 - 07/31/11 05:09 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

The one thing I haven't seen anybody mention in this whole thread.....

Did they use protection? Probably like 99% chance no.

What is with people these days?


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: baraka]
    #14850575 - 07/31/11 07:17 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Some of you critters need to read the update!


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14850755 - 07/31/11 09:01 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Some of you critters need to read the update!




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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: withoutawire]
    #14851301 - 07/31/11 12:04 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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withoutawire said:
Your girlfriend cheated on you.

That guy is not a good friend. He is not accountable for ANYTHING and you shouldn't blame people who have NO blame.


Intoxication is not a legal excuse for any crime and it shouldn't be an excuse for cheating. I hope you work it out, but she did it. Not the guy. You have to work it out with her, and I hope you do.



I don't know about the States, but in Canada intoxication IS a legal defense for I believe everything except for murder.


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