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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #14277646 - 04/12/11 12:03 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Umm, it kind of just happens. I don't think I've ever planned on getting black out drunk. It usually occured when I would make a misjudgement in shots because I was already shitfaced and thought 4 shots would be nothing.

Alcohol has a way of hitting you all at once sometimes and then bam, black out.

I've only been blackout drunk twice.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: TTT]
    #14277674 - 04/12/11 12:12 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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TTT said:
Umm, it kind of just happens. I don't think I've ever planned on getting black out drunk. It usually occured when I would make a misjudgement in shots because I was already shitfaced and thought 4 shots would be nothing.

Alcohol has a way of hitting you all at once sometimes and then bam, black out.

I've only been blackout drunk twice.




Well girls have to watch out for each other. Generally they travel in groups. If you see one of your friends getting sloppy you try to slow them down.

You need to watch how drunk you're getting if untrustworthy guys are around. And this goes for guys too. I've heard of a few guys getting too drunk and girls getting on them. And when you're drunk and don't have / cant use a condom it leads to bad places.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #14277898 - 04/12/11 01:01 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

i'd kick her out of my life. she fucked up. you're being a sucker.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dummy]
    #14278008 - 04/12/11 01:23 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

OP hasnt responded? I think we talked some sense into him. Their relationship will never be the same, if she can get away with it now, she will prob do it again in the future.

hopefully you didnt go beat up that guy. That would be pointless of you. Hopefully you dropped her ass cuz she walked all over you that night she decided to fuck that guy. Goodluck and sorry man. 3 years that sucks :sad:

You will find a better girl out there bro


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow] * 1
    #14281059 - 04/12/11 10:30 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Let's get a clue here people: if she was cheating, why tell him at all? Why not just go with the "I don't remember what happened last night"....

All in all, here's the thing: you can't get fucked up with people who aren't your boyfriend/girlfriend and expect good things to happen. At least, not things that are good for your relationship.

Whether it was cheating or not, this is a lesson for the OP: ask her to curb her "let's get trashed nights", or at least, only get trashed with YOU. If she was really taken advantage of (just because a girl gets drunk with some guys does not mean she's asking for it or planned it, we all know things change once you get drunk and a lot of people think they can handle it) she will agree. If she can't agree not to get shitfaced without you then she has a drinking problem that you guys might want to address.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: sandi]
    #14281532 - 04/12/11 11:43 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Let's get a clue here people: if she was cheating, why tell him at all? Why not just go with the "I don't remember what happened last night"....





lol! have you ever cheated yourself? Have you ever had someone cheat on you? The stupid people tell that they did something. I remember this girl that told my friend that she just gave me a BJ, we actually had sex. you see the lie? they feel guilty so they say something, but they fill lies in the middle.

It looks like your trying to be honest, yet your really not. Its almost like covering your tracks.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14281536 - 04/12/11 11:45 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

you do that exact thing so that person wont find out from someone else. You come off as the "i admit it!, im sorry :sad:" shes playing with his head trying to pull something over him.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: dshow]
    #14282634 - 04/13/11 08:09 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

You're all mind-readers, right?
Good ones too. :lol:


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #14286896 - 04/13/11 09:40 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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MushroomTrip said:
You're all mind-readers, right?
Good ones too. :lol:




Why do they need to be mind readers? The whole situation the girl got herself into was super sketchy.

Getting so smashed you don't know whats going on while hanging out with a random dude while her friends run off to a different house?

I wouldn't be cool with my girlfriend pulling that shit. She can drink and chill with guys. But to get completely wasted while alone with another dude. I'm not sure I'd be ok with that shit.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: TrustYourSelf]
    #14332959 - 04/22/11 11:43 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

So what happened?


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: pyronym]
    #14333110 - 04/22/11 12:24 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

It's (O)k.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #14333471 - 04/22/11 01:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I think it could only have been considered rape if she was completely passed out.  Like if she passed out on the kitchen counter while they were talking and he fucked her without her knowledge/consent.

Sounds like your girl had a little too much to drink, maybe to the point of "blacking out" but thats not the same thing as passing out, and slept with someone else. 

Sure, she may feel terribly about it. I am sure you mean more to her than a night of drunken sex, but she still had a choice at since she remembers kissing him back. I doubt you crossed her mind at all. But don't fool yourself into thinking that she didn't have a solid hand in it.  He was probably as drunk as she was.

I'm sorry. I hope yall work things out. People do make mistakes. But forgive her instead of forcing all the blame on to the guy.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: llevitron]
    #14335349 - 04/22/11 08:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

if she wanted to she could of told him to stop and told her friend she thought she was about to get raped and leave.
thats not what happened man, she kept kissing him. She got some strange behind your back.
its over man, your relationship cant ever be the same again imo.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Psychoslut]
    #14335359 - 04/22/11 08:54 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Psychoslut said:
if she wanted to she could of told him to stop and told her friend she thought she was about to get raped and leave.
thats not what happened man, she kept kissing him. She got some strange behind your back.
its over man, your relationship cant ever be the same again imo.





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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: automan] * 1
    #14335369 - 04/22/11 08:56 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Short story: I had an ex and we both cheated on each other on the same night. We talked about it, got over it, and dated for another like 9 months or so, but it was still hollow. Even though we were still "even" it still wasn't all there. I think that's how I would feel in your shoes OP. Just hollow.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Joolz]
    #14335730 - 04/22/11 10:17 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Cheated on each other in the same night and still dated...  This would make for a cute romantic comedy starring Luke Wilson and Kate Hudson.

I'm on it.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Society]
    #14341817 - 04/24/11 01:44 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Sorry my bitch got sent away and after several months she fucked a Guy without ending it with me first I hate her for that and she turned into a bitch for no reason. I m currently ignoring her even though were chill.

My point is I can't help but feel betrayed... stupid whore has to go sleep with some Guy she just met?? I stayed faithful for over a year for her even thoughi could have easily cheated.

The relationship wont ever be the same.. Somone that loves you with all there heart dosent need anybody else but you. When I'm drinking without my bitch I think about her and how much I love her.  She planned on getting laid.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: skiddy]
    #14342114 - 04/24/11 03:43 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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The relationship wont ever be the same.. Somone that loves you with all there heart dosent need anybody else but you.




I am sorry you got cheated on and that someone you trusted and loved decided to fuck with your trust in them, but from that to saying that when someone loves you they need only you is a VERY long way. Is it possible for someone to honestly love more than one person at the same time, or simply feel attracted to someone else. Thinking that someone who loves you should only constantly want and need only you can bring a lot of suffering into your life because it's not how things happen in reality and it also doesn't give you the opportunity to be in a real relationship with the person you love.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #14342461 - 04/24/11 07:54 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Lots of things happen in reality.  Some of them aren't very common, like winning the lotto or finding a person who loves you as a unique individual above all others and is totally satiated by you.

still, i'd rather sift through the dirt and go home empty handed than take a bunch of rocks home with me because i couldn't find gems.


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Re: She cheated on me... Not exactly "willfully"... [Re: Buckeye Oysters]
    #14343074 - 04/24/11 11:14 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Buckeye Oysters said:
Must be nice to have a girlfriend.

I am 31 and so lonely,... so lonely :frown:  But its said 'owner of a lonely heart much better than a owner of a broken heart'

Count yourself blessed to have something to patch up.





Eh I just kind of don't know.  Been used and lied to enough by women to know this ain't patchup material. 


Honestly with this relationship, your best bet is to wish her the best but pack your shit and hit town.  Being drunk isn't an excuse to let someone take advantage of you, and I doubt she was blacking out, there are probably plenty of lies in how she described her story.  This just comes from experience because I mean "oh I can't, but let me keep making out with you and rubbing against you."
Guys don't just walk up to a half passed out girl and stick their hands down their pants and try to make out with them.  (In the case of rapists they prefer raping and keeping their identity secret usually).  Obviously this guy was trying to get her to consensually fuck him even if she's saying no, and she's obviously letting herself go to the extent of being that fucked up in the presence of someone who's doing this to her without the ability to just say "no."

I've seen plenty of extremely drunk women still able to clearly turn down sex.  Now it could be completely true that she was blacked out, but when she regained consciousness for that moment, why would she be making out with him and not freaking out?  Coming out of a blackout and not knowing why some guy is trying to fuck you is kind of 'being raped scream' material don't you think?


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