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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: andrewss]
#14258894 - 04/08/11 02:37 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I mean cmon', I'm a dude and I even like baby ducks. I can't imagine most girls having a lesser soft spot than me haha. Nature walks, throwing stones into ponds, flying kites, basically anything that makes you look proactive and less like a lazy fuck works. Especially when it's out of the normal first date element. Dinner and a movie is a no go if you want to slide in her britches.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Microppose]
#14258904 - 04/08/11 02:39 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Is getting laid on the first date really such a priority? Once you're with a chick generally you get laid whenever.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14258921 - 04/08/11 02:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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It's not a priority, it's merely the topic of this thread.
I'm going on a second date tomorrow with a woman I've been talking with for weeks by email. We're going to the park. Hopefully, it's duck season.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14258923 - 04/08/11 02:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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It's not priority, I was just assisting in the likelihood of it happening for those so inclined. I personally wouldn't have an attraction to the girl if we banged on our first night outing, but I'd still do it.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14258930 - 04/08/11 02:45 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: How do you do it? Give me some creative ideas on how it can be accomplished. Realistic only please.
alcohol and romance.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Microppose]
#14258952 - 04/08/11 02:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Azurascender said: It's not priority, I was just assisting in the likelihood of it happening for those so inclined. I personally wouldn't have an attraction to the girl if we banged on our first night outing, but I'd still do it. 
Seems like a priority for OP, but i could be wrong.
I mean i guess i wouldnt mind fucking a girl on the first date, but if you're serious about dating her it seems like a bad sign that shes "easy".
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14258985 - 04/08/11 02:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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It's funny how dudes call girls easy. I'm not gonna lie, I'm a whore, but I get no lashings for it haha.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14258991 - 04/08/11 02:55 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i've never understood this idea that some guys have about fucking on the first date. most of my long term relationships have been with guys i've had sex with on the first date, or before we officially started dating. it seems kind of misogonystic to me. and if that makes her "easy" or a "slut" what does that make you? an asshole who actually spends time thinking up ways to manipulate chicks into sleeping with him on a first date?

when is a good time to sleep with someone so as not to come off as "easy" then? my friend made her boyfriend wait SIX MONTHS. i think that's insane.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259007 - 04/08/11 02:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Depends on what you mean too. I have only rarely gone on a date with a complete stranger, it's usually somebody I know to some extent. So sex on the first date isn't necessarily random anonymous hooking up. Sometimes it's been a long time building between friends of friends. Just one example of how it happened to me once. We'd met 3 or 4 times and then there was a party and we went to Denny's for pancakes and back to her place. "Aren't you going to come in and go to bed with me?" she said in the driveway. "... yes. Yes I am... "
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: yogabunny]
#14259022 - 04/08/11 03:00 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Azurascender said: It's funny how dudes call girls easy. I'm not gonna lie, I'm a whore, but I get no lashings for it haha. 
It goes both ways for guys and girls.
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yogabunny said: i've never understood this idea that some guys have about fucking on the first date. most of my long term relationships have been with guys i've had sex with on the first date, or before we officially started dating. it seems kind of misogonystic to me. and if that makes her "easy" or a "slut" what does that make you? an asshole who actually spends time thinking up ways to manipulate chicks into sleeping with him on a first date?
when is a good time to sleep with someone so as not to come off as "easy" then? my friend made her boyfriend wait SIX MONTHS. i think that's insane.
Makes the guy a manwhore. I think it is lame to try to manipulate a girl to sleep with you on the first date.
I think a few dates first. But if it feels right do it. 6 months sounds crazy to me. She's not necessarily a slut if she bangs you on the first date. I just wonder if she's been with a lot of people or not. I personally stick to a few partners, but thats just me.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259029 - 04/08/11 03:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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When I was like 15 I met this chick by chance on aol, and I met her irl a few days later, and fucked her that day.
The crazy thing was it was basically her idea.
She was a str8 up internet skank lol
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Toe_Jam]
#14259040 - 04/08/11 03:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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If you know them beforehand thats a more understandable.
I was thinking you meant fucking them the first time you meet them.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259098 - 04/08/11 03:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Doc has a point, I mean how often do people go on OFFICIAL blind dates where you don't know the chick at all? Most people have a preexisting relationship with their date mate in one way or another, so fucking them pronto shouldn't be considered an "OMG WHORE!" thing. I have personally NEVER gone on a blind date, but I have fucked on the first date, with a girl I happen to respect.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Microppose]
#14259147 - 04/08/11 03:23 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Azurascender said: Doc has a point, I mean how often do people go on OFFICIAL blind dates where you don't know the chick at all? Most people have a preexisting relationship with their date mate in one way or another, so fucking them pronto shouldn't be considered an "OMG WHORE!" thing. I have personally NEVER gone on a blind date, but I have fucked on the first date, with a girl I happen to respect.
Well people that meet people off the internet go on blind dates.
But i think the norm is to meet people in person and get to know them a bit first.
I only think its whore (guy or girl) if you just met the person, like if you fucked them within the same 24 hours of learning their name.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259151 - 04/08/11 03:24 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeah but the thing is girls don't sit around going OMG he fucked you on the first date? what a manwhore!
no, in fact they sit around fretting about whether or not they waited long enough to make sure you don't think they're a whore.

if i want to do it, i do it; and if they guy im doing it with labels or judges me because of it then he's not the guy for me anyway.
that being said i don't really do casual sex. i need to know the person first and know that i really enjoy they're company and respect them as a person.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259172 - 04/08/11 03:27 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: fucking them the first time you meet them.
This happened to me once. Very cool random event. It was my friend's wife's cousin and dude called me as her date because he knew I didn't mind bigger girls. She and her sister (I found out later) were arguing over who got to jump me, but this girl had a longer dry spell.
"We could all share", I said, but by that time it was all over and time to get back to reality.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: yogabunny]
#14259223 - 04/08/11 03:34 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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yogabunny said: yeah but the thing is girls don't sit around going OMG he fucked you on the first date? what a manwhore! no, in fact they sit around fretting about whether or not they waited long enough to make sure you don't think they're a whore.
if i want to do it, i do it; and if they guy im doing it with labels or judges me because of it then he's not the guy for me anyway.
that being said i don't really do casual sex. i need to know the person first and know that i really enjoy they're company and respect them as a person.
I know guys don't get nearly as much shit, but in my eyes its just as bad.
I'm not saying this applies to all situations. I'm saying you should know a person a little bit before you fuck them. Otherwise you could just be fucking another asshole. Not everyone deserves to get fucked. If you've been friends with them for awhile and then fuck on the first date its a different story. But if you go around fucking strangers all the time it does seem whorey.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14259381 - 04/08/11 04:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Otherwise you could just be fucking another asshole.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Microppose]
#14259503 - 04/08/11 04:25 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Why not enjoy the ride for a little bit, work up to getting laid. That way it will be an achievement well deserved when it is finally attained.
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Re: Getting laid on the 1st date? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14263886 - 04/09/11 05:28 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sexy sexy time on second date, thanks to Shroomery advice in this thread and others. Woot!!
Key point, I believe it was yogabunny who said it - "initiate physical contact, then step it up. Stand close, touch arms, etc"
No ducklings in the park today, but lots of bird pairs, billing and cooing at each other. It was hard not to get ideas, truthfully. So we did.
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