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OfflineSynesthetic
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Larrythescaryrex]
    #14245799 - 04/06/11 01:32 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Larrythescaryrex said:
do you like the feel of the hard rigid shaft of the bong on your mouth?



Where are you going with this? Hmm...

Anyway, I don't like being alone, and that's how I feel. Been single for...oh...nearly 3 years.

Can't do one-night-stands because I have touch/intimacy issues even though I'm a very sexual person. I just hope I find someone who doesn't treat me like utter shit like my ex did/does.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Synesthetic] * 2
    #14245814 - 04/06/11 01:39 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I didn't like being alone either, until I thought about why I didn't like it. I thought about why I wanted a girlfriend, and I realized that I had been using relationships to try and feel 'complete' if you know what I mean. I just realized that I wasn't content alone because I was unhappy with myself...and if you aren't happy with who you are, then all relationships are going to fail because when the other person doesn't come through like you expected things get fucked...

Idk, I am much happier now, and I've been single for a while. I feel like I have better relationships with chicks anyway when I'm not even thinking about them as potential partners. It takes the pressure off, you don't have to worry about not being a dumbass or saying something stupid because you don't even care :shrug: (haha not saying I'm a  :dumbass: , just saying there's no pressure)


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917] * 2
    #14245837 - 04/06/11 01:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I don't feel the pressure, either, but I size up everyone when I first meet them and put on the appropriate mask because my personality has scared a lot of people away from me.

Real bummer, man :frown:

Anyway, I don't feel comfortable alone because my thoughts literally drive me insane and all I want is someone who understands the beauty of sharing misery as well as ecstasy.

But seriously, a lot of people think I'm a cool dude and everything but the fact that I'm constantly analyzing everything they do and eventually know them inside and out ends up freaking a lot of people out. Usually it's about the point I know them that well that I feel comfortable opening up, so yeah shit goes south from there.

There's only one chick who's been willing to put up with my shit (and vice-versa) for an extended period of time and she's not the type of chick that can be tied down. I've just been enjoying the love and good vibes even with the long distance as they come but the psychotic side of me says "She'll just end up hurting you. Force her to commit or walk away now before it's too late."

And that's why I'm heavily medicated.

Damn that was longer than expected.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Samuel L Jackson]
    #14245858 - 04/06/11 01:55 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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(Un)fortunately, this only holds true in Euclidean space.  :razz:

As far as answering RP's question, though, I'd prefer to be in a relationship over being single.  Nothing beats having an intimate bond between yourself and another person that can only grow and mature over the years, IMO.


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: deCypher]
    #14245872 - 04/06/11 01:59 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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deCypher said:
(Un)fortunately, this only holds true in Euclidean space.  :razz:







you and your fancy maths.


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
    #14245874 - 04/06/11 01:59 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Im 25 and have never really been in a relationship(other than a 2 month thing, friends with benefits or on-line).
Id like to be in one just to see what it's like on the other side of the fence.

As for the men/women wouldnt be friends if it wasnt for sexual attraction myth, that one's just flat out wrong. There are some girls Id rather hang out with and some guys id rather hang out with, one gender isnt inherently more tolerable than the other.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14245880 - 04/06/11 02:02 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Fuck being in a relationship.

That's shitty.

I'd have to give some of my money to my bitch for her to buy clothes

When I wanna buy dr00gz.


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: tyler_0_durden]
    #14245884 - 04/06/11 02:03 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Oh Id refuse to give any girl or anyone for that matter any money.

Ill give people things but not money unless it's in an even exchange for services rendered.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14246076 - 04/06/11 04:06 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Oh Id refuse to give any girl or anyone for that matter any money.

Ill give people things but not money unless it's in an even exchange for services rendered.



God I love hookers!


My GF is pretty damn good compared to what i'm used to, great sex and she's completely into me. Parents and family like her etc, and she's cute as hell, maybe a 9 dressed up to go out, 5.5-6 just hanging around the house. Totally cool with all my myco work and my extreme pot habit...

It's just one of those things where i'm not sure if I want that seriousness of a relationship when everytime I hit the gym I'm having perfect 10's start up conversations etc and flirting... 

That is the worst part of a relationship! The feeling of settling when there are so many options out there... Thats the most difficult part of the whole thing. So the way I look at it, I'll stay with someone for 2 years, then I'll make a decision. If I can't see myself getting married to that woman by then, :seeya:


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
    #14246084 - 04/06/11 04:17 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i chose stal :shrug:

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #14246140 - 04/06/11 05:00 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It's nice to be 100% comfortable with someone.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: BlueJayWay]
    #14246158 - 04/06/11 05:12 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

yeah you do have a point:thumbup:

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #14246177 - 04/06/11 05:29 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I think probably LAT would be the optimal compromise.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
    #14246184 - 04/06/11 05:38 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

thats pretty interesting koraks :strokebeard: thanks for posting

by the way


stay the fuck out of my thread:ednorton:

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #14246189 - 04/06/11 05:44 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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stay the fuck out of my thread:ednorton:



Sure thing, as long as you keep out of the other threads I post in. Like, ALL of them :macdre:

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
    #14246209 - 04/06/11 05:56 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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I think probably LAT would be the optimal compromise.



I dont think Id like that if i was in a committed relationship. If I didnt wanna live with the person why would i want to be with them in the first place? Id rather just keep them as a long term friend with benefits if I didnt wanna live with them.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks] * 1
    #14246218 - 04/06/11 06:00 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

i've been "single" for a long time and have really enjoyed it. sure there are times when i'm like "damn, it'd be nice to have someone that cares deeply for me to share this moment with" but when all is said and done my independence is like a gift that keeps on giving.

i've watched a lot of my friends meet women, get married and fall into chasing after "the American Dream". many of them married women who i can't stand being around for 30 minutes, much less 30 years.

i'm comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship, i'm just not really ready to trade in/compromise the freedom i have in being single.

i think i might be a little more motivated to seek out a relationship if i saw other healthy, balanced relationships going on around me. most of the time i see people in severely dysfunctional relationships. lot of co-dependency, unbalance, fear, inability to trust one another, etc.

i'm not interested in someone else's baggage (especially when it's not just a bag or two most people are dragging into the relationship, more like a convoy of 16 moving trucks :facepalm3:).


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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #14246245 - 04/06/11 06:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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koraks said:
I think probably LAT would be the optimal compromise.



I dont think Id like that if i was in a committed relationship. If I didnt wanna live with the person why would i want to be with them in the first place?



Just to have a place to retreat to when you're in need for some solitude? I like my solitude really. I feel I could commit to someone, and when I do, I tend to be loyal and monogamous, and I expect the same from my partner, but I can't really stand the thought of someone (anyone) always being around.

I'll probably give in again at one point, though.

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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
    #14246254 - 04/06/11 06:17 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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stay the fuck out of my thread:ednorton:



Sure thing, as long as you keep out of the other threads I post in. Like, ALL of them :macdre:



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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #14246256 - 04/06/11 06:18 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)


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