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MisterMuscaria



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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14248335 - 04/06/11 04:09 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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It wasnt like that really. She had a "LAT" boyfriend and I was allowed to mess around with other girls. We just had alot of sex and shared an apartment. (this is the other reason I wouldnt wanna be in a LAT relationship)
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Hakim0777
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14248641 - 04/06/11 05:02 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Im single right now and loving it although I havent gotten laid in about a year. 
When I got back to seattle I ran into a girl I used to fuck and walked her back to her work and afterwards she kissed me. I was like "Ill see you around then" in mack daddy densel mode and walked away without lookin back LIKE A BOSS. Of course my cool controlled attitude was completely at odds with how I was actually feeling, I wanted to take her in a public bathroom and fuck the shit out of her. Which I plan on doing but for now Im just slow cookin that build up man. im on the verge of exploding but its all good, shes about to get dicked down like no other.
And that my friends, is why I like being single.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Hakim0777]
#14248651 - 04/06/11 05:05 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hakim0777 said: Im single right now and loving it, although I havent gotten laid in about a year.
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Hakim0777
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: TYL3R]
#14248654 - 04/06/11 05:05 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I know I know.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Hakim0777]
#14248794 - 04/06/11 05:37 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I straight up dig sharing my life with my partner.
Cooking/shopping/doing things/paying bills
Not to say that i don't feel a deep connection with my partner, but everyone seems to be forgetting about the utilitarian aspect of being in a commited, live together, relationship.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Hakim0777]
#14248831 - 04/06/11 05:45 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I've been having constant sex since I went single.
It's weird... if you know you're not trying to get into a relationship, you know what to look for in fuckbuddies, and they suddenly become very easy to find.
I was feeling like a slut about that for a while, but now I'm trying to learn to just feel good about it and make peace with the fact that my life is rife with vagina for the time being.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: PDU]
#14249781 - 04/06/11 08:40 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Call me sappy but I just like having someone to cuddle with all the time.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14249803 - 04/06/11 08:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: Call me sappy but I just like having someone to cuddle with all the time.
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Hakim0777
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14251098 - 04/07/11 01:21 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Tchan909 said: I've been having constant sex since I went single.
It's weird... if you know you're not trying to get into a relationship, you know what to look for in fuckbuddies, and they suddenly become very easy to find.
I was feeling like a slut about that for a while, but now I'm trying to learn to just feel good about it and make peace with the fact that my life is rife with vagina for the time being. 
When I first got off my LTR I got mad pussy but then it kinda tapered off and now its been awhile.
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MisterMuscaria said: Call me sappy but I just like having someone to cuddle with all the time.
Call me pragmatic but I like having multiple people to cuddle with at different times.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Hakim0777]
#14251591 - 04/07/11 05:05 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Interesting how both sides of the argument defend their viewpoint so passionately.
Also, long-term monogamous couples are only unnatural if they're sexually monogamous. Animals pair up and look after each other, too, they just don't get all jealous when one goes and sticks its dick in another animal.
Personally, I don't cheat because the guilt makes it too hard to perform.
And if my partner cheated, I just wouldn't want to know. But if she ends up getting a disease or pregnant or falling in love with the other dude...well then she can fuck right off like the dirty whore she is.
But in my last "real" relationship (dumb term btw), I knew she cheated on me quite a few times but since I told her to never tell me or flaunt it, I didn't find out until after we split up.
I was pissed, yet glad she respected the secrecy part of the whole thing.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Synesthetic]
#14252127 - 04/07/11 09:08 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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The grass is always greener on the other side. When your with someone, you wanna bang out a string of broads on a sunday night but when your single, it's more challenging to get the poonany often. It's a double edged sword, trust me, my woman is bad but the bullshit that comes with it almost makes it not worth it. Then I recall that amazing blowjob and blast to the face and I can't be thattttt mad.
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MisterMuscaria



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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Synesthetic]
#14253713 - 04/07/11 03:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Synesthetic said:
And if my partner cheated, I just wouldn't want to know. But if she ends up getting a disease or pregnant or falling in love with the other dude...well then she can fuck right off like the dirty whore she is. .
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14253736 - 04/07/11 03:14 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Being with another person at a relationship level is the most satisfying and fulfilling feeling. More so than any drugs.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14253740 - 04/07/11 03:16 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said:
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Synesthetic said:
And if my partner cheated, I just wouldn't want to know. But if she ends up getting a disease or pregnant or falling in love with the other dude...well then she can fuck right off like the dirty whore she is. .
QFT
You handle it all wrong. Just let them know everything about you and be real. Tell them if they cant handle it that they should look into someone else, but dont ever cheat. I will find out about the cheating, and that causes personal problems thats shouldn't need to be dealt with.
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MisterMuscaria



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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: withoutawire]
#14253745 - 04/07/11 03:17 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I feel like when one woman loves me they all love me and when one woman hates me they all hate me. Ive always known how irrational that is but it seems like when one pours attention and love on me they all want to and when one scorns me and is disgusted on me they all are. Perhaps it is because of my stance towards women at that particular time and how i act towards them but my acting and my stance is influenced by that fallacy of thought in the first place. what Im tryin to say here is that when Im with someone I feel they all want to be with me. When Im not with someone I feel none of them want to be with me.
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Obey
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Psychoslut]
#14253763 - 04/07/11 03:19 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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at any given point you'll always be a different person than you were at another point in time. The same is true for the person your with. So believing in long lasting loving relationships is nothing more than a farce.
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Anthony917
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Synesthetic]
#14253918 - 04/07/11 03:40 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Synesthetic said:
And if my partner cheated, I just wouldn't want to know. But if she ends up getting a disease or pregnant or falling in love with the other dude...well then she can fuck right off like the dirty whore she is.
this is ridiculous. If I was in a relationship with someone, I would hope they had the respect and decency to tell me that they weren't interested anymore, and they were moving on, rather than have them cheat. Being cheated on is a horrible feeling, and I would MUCH rather have my gf break up with me first.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14254062 - 04/07/11 04:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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The question has been hunting me much. As a girl I prefer open relationships when starting out lightly or without labeling things and keep the fun up with giving the option of sleeping with other people, eventually u will stick to each other if the other person is still in ur life without being the only source of sexual needs, and if they r not then they are not the one :-)
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: luna21]
#14254088 - 04/07/11 04:15 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Generally when you're in a solid relationship you aren't in it for the sex.
Its like your partner is a really good friend, except for they're more than a friend so you can go past those friend boundaries.
If you wouldn't want to be with the person if you couldn't fuck them, then you shouldn't be dating them.
Theres nothing wrong with being single. But in a healthy relationship its nice to have someone you know who cares. You don't "need" them necessarily, but you love each other and its nice.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: oxalic32]
#14254102 - 04/07/11 04:16 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Let's be honest, guys, if chicks didn't have vaginas, we probably wouldn't even talk to them. I'm not saying all chicks are useless, cause I've met some who are really cool...but really it's not like men & women would even be friends if there wasn't the sexual attraction. Given the choice, 10 times outta 10 a guy is going to want to hang out with his friends before his girlfriend. The only reason we do things for women is for the pussy. This is always true. The vagina has a kung-fu grip on the cock, it always has, and it always will...
not me my friends suck though
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