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MisterMuscaria



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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
#14246258 - 04/06/11 06:19 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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koraks said: I think probably LAT would be the optimal compromise.
I dont think Id like that if i was in a committed relationship. If I didnt wanna live with the person why would i want to be with them in the first place?
Just to have a place to retreat to when you're in need for some solitude? I like my solitude really. I feel I could commit to someone, and when I do, I tend to be loyal and monogamous, and I expect the same from my partner, but I can't really stand the thought of someone (anyone) always being around.
I'll probably give in again at one point, though.
i cant tolerate someone always being around either hence why Ive always been single. The day I meet someone I can tolerate always being around Ill know I finally met the right person.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
#14246262 - 04/06/11 06:21 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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thats it. pris!!!!!! ban him!
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#14246274 - 04/06/11 06:30 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: i cant tolerate someone always being around either hence why Ive always been single. The day I meet someone I can tolerate always being around Ill know I finally met the right person.
I used to think that way, but I'm starting to realize that probably I tend to change once in a while, making it very possible to meet a person who'll keep matching with me for a longer period of time. So I suppose there are many 'right persons' for me. It all gets down to meeting the right one at the right moment. Which I'm not particularly putting a lot of effort in, to be honest.
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thats it. pris!!!!!! ban him! 
Not the sharpest pencil in the box eh? You apparently hadn't realized that Prisoner #1 is Chuck's Shroomery alias.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#14246292 - 04/06/11 06:44 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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thats it. pris!!!!!! ban him! 
what do I look like, your ban bitch?
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
#14246295 - 04/06/11 06:46 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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i love how Pris pops up on the thread right after his name is spoken. like Lurch from the Munsters:
you rang?
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: gerryjarcia]
#14246301 - 04/06/11 06:50 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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He uses the search function to do this....a more likely explanation is he just reads every thread as it comes.
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koraks
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria] 3
#14246305 - 04/06/11 06:52 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Pris is the only Shroomery user with an ethernet connection in the back of his head. His nose is a wifi transceiver. He don't need to access threads. They access him.
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Patlal
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: koraks]
#14246718 - 04/06/11 10:04 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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When your single you want a relationship, when your in a relationship you want to be single.
Never happy
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917] 1
#14247298 - 04/06/11 12:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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This thread reminded me of this. 
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14247315 - 04/06/11 12:58 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Healthy, exciting relationships are where it's at.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14247417 - 04/06/11 01:24 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Right now I have a few friends with benefits. I'm pretty invested in keeping them at arm's length, and I'm straightforward and honest about this with them. My life is crazy right now and I'm still nursing a broken heart from my last relationship, but IMO that shouldn't stop me from gettin' it on.
Is that wrong?
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Patlal]
#14247499 - 04/06/11 01:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Patlal said: When your single you want a relationship, when your in a relationship you want to be single.
Never happy
In every relationship I've been in, not once have I said to myself, "Gee, it'd sure be nice if I was home alone wanking to internet porn rather than spending quality time with a hot girl and having sex regularly."
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14247554 - 04/06/11 01:52 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Patlal said: When your single you want a relationship, when your in a relationship you want to be single.
Never happy
In every relationship I've been in, not once have I said to myself, "Gee, it'd sure be nice if I was home alone wanking to internet porn rather than spending quality time with a hot girl and having sex regularly."
So it's all about having sex regularly??
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iwasaClown said: Healthy, exciting relationships are where it's at.
Except relationships don't always stay healthy and exciting. Once you've been with the same person for a couple of years the things that you used to ignore about them start to piss you off...they don't stay exciting for that long.
It's like there's this 'infatuation' stage of the relationship, where you're absolutely swept off your feet. Then, once you get past that stage it's not the same.
Idk, how many relationships have you guys had that lasted for more than 2-3 years..?? People change, and people grow apart, and unless they can do that changing at the same pace as their partner, there's bound to be problems.
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i cant tolerate someone always being around either hence why Ive always been single. The day I meet someone I can tolerate always being around Ill know I finally met the right person.
I don't think you should just "tolerate" being around them. You should WANT to spend all your time with them...and that's where I think the idea of the long-term, committed relationship is flawed. NO ONE wants to spend THAT much time with ONE other human being. At least, I don't. It's against our nature IMO.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917] 3
#14247934 - 04/06/11 03:02 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm in a 4 year relationship and we're engaged to be engaged.
We love each other deeply and i just plain like spending time with her.
If you want a long term relationship only for regular sex it will never work.
Long term relationships are for people who want a spiritual and physical companion who you can work together with, and perhaps a parent and bring up your children and family, not just a sex toy.
IMO our generation is soooo blasted with SEX SEX SEX from all angles that it becomes sooo played up and valued over all else it's rediculous.
There is a lot more to being with a woman than that.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Shins]
#14247953 - 04/06/11 03:08 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Shins said: I'm in a 4 year relationship and we're engaged to be engaged.
We love each other deeply and i just plain like spending time with her.
If you want a long term relationship only for regular sex it will never work.
Long term relationships are for people who want a spiritual and physical companion who you can work together with, and perhaps a parent and bring up your children and family, not just a sex toy.
IMO our generation is soooo blasted with SEX SEX SEX from all angles that it becomes sooo played up and valued over all else it's rediculous.
There is a lot more to being with a woman than that.
dude I couldn't agree with you more.
I hope things work out for you, I just don't know about spending 60 years with one person. I want to get married and raise a family, but SO many people divorce. I've seen so many seemingly happy couples get divorced...I think the whole idea of marriage is just unnatural.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Silversoul]
#14247981 - 04/06/11 03:12 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Patlal said: When your single you want a relationship, when your in a relationship you want to be single.
Never happy
In every relationship I've been in, not once have I said to myself, "Gee, it'd sure be nice if I was home alone wanking to internet porn rather than spending quality time with a hot girl and having sex regularly."
Sex is overrated... personnaly, the trouble of a relationship for sex vs no sex and peace of mind...
I would pick no sex, peace of mind perhaps 3 times out of 4
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14248147 - 04/06/11 03:41 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yah but when i think about the people Im like crazy infatuated with i definatley would. That's very few people though.
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Anthony917
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14248200 - 04/06/11 03:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: Yah but when i think about the people Im like crazy infatuated with i definatley would. That's very few people though.
man, until you've lived with someone for a while you don't really know.
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: Anthony917]
#14248253 - 04/06/11 03:56 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Ive lived with a long term fuckbuddy for a while and didnt really have any problems other than the occasional nagging about my daytime drinking and potsmoking.
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Anthony917
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Re: being single vs being in a relationship [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14248269 - 04/06/11 03:58 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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fuck buddy =/= committed relationship
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