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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14114483 - 03/13/11 02:30 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

you don't have to stay together to have sex

having sex doesn't automatically make u not single


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14114551 - 03/13/11 02:50 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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I just dont wanna be a rebound so she can make her ex bf jealous and get back with her because he broke up with her and I think she still wants to be with him.





You need to reread this sentence. Stay clear of women with baggage from a recent breakup unless you're ok with being nothing but rebound sex! You sound like a sensitive guy, which is cool, but all the signs are pointing towards you getting hurt.

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Hendostan]
    #14114603 - 03/13/11 03:03 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Rebound sex is fine with me but what isnt is leading me on with the hopes of me getting laid just to use me as a pawn to make her BF jealous.


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14114646 - 03/13/11 03:13 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Right on.. it sounded like you had your hopes up for dating her. Hopefully she's not vindictive as you fear and is really just hoping to chill with someone cool on the rebound.

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Hendostan]
    #14114660 - 03/13/11 03:16 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Dude you're allready putting too much time, worry, thought, and care into a relationship that just isnt even happening.

Fuck this broad, and I dont mean literally, I mean stop hanging out with her dumb ass. Go find someone as awkward as you who wont just bang her other boyfriend after you.

Really, if you havent gotten your dick wet yet, IT COSTS TOO MUCH! Dont put yourself thru this for a fuckhole you're putting on a pedestal

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Azure Essence]
    #14114671 - 03/13/11 03:21 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

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Dude you're allready putting too much time, worry, thought, and care into a relationship that just isnt even happening.

Fuck this broad, and I dont mean literally, I mean stop hanging out with her dumb ass. Go find someone as awkward as you who wont just bang her other boyfriend after you.

Really, if you havent gotten your dick wet yet, IT COSTS TOO MUCH! Dont put yourself thru this for a fuckhole you're putting on a pedestal



Wow.  Well put, bravo.

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: Azure Essence]
    #14114691 - 03/13/11 03:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Im not putting her on a pedestal and to be honest man in the real world unless a girl is a total slut she isnt gonna fuck you the first or second time you hangout.  Ive hung out with her 2 freakin times man wtf are you talking about "it costs to much"


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14115555 - 03/13/11 06:16 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Well you're posting on an internet message board for advice on a girl you've hung out with twice. How clear can it be?

And a girl just getting OUT of a relationship is generally not someone you want to be getting INTO a relationship with.

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14116875 - 03/13/11 10:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago)

Listen man, she's obviously still interested in you if she's asking you why you didn't kiss her. Hangout with her again and then kiss her. You didn't blow it. Yet.

Edit-Wait nevermind. Too late.

Edited by MLDSMDA (03/13/11 10:28 PM)

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245453 - 04/05/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Met this new girl who is realy cool and good looking and we have been talking for a bit on the phone and she wanted to come over today.  I picked her up and it was the first time we had ever hung out.  She just broke up with her BF like a couple weeks ago so I figured maybe she just wanted to be friends and that was cool with me but if something came out of it that would be nice.  She came over and we had a good time and she was laying her head on my shoulder and sending me positive vibes and I pussed out and didnt try to make a move or anything with her because I had anxiety that she would reject my advance since she just broke up with her BF and when we talked on the phone before she said how she was glad to be single and its good for her life right now.


So we just hung out and I dropped her off wondering if I should of tried to at least kiss her (Shes not a slutty girl so thats the most I figured would happen the first time we hung out wasnt expecting to have sex esp since she just broke up with her BF) and then like 30 minutes later she calls me and talks for a bit and then says to me "why didnt you kiss me when we were sitting on your couch I realy wanted you to?" and I just felt so stupid.  Im worried I blew my chance with her and she is gonna think Im a pussy but I realy just didnt want to make an unwanted advance and get rejected since she was saying a few days before how she was glad to be single and blah blah.  Im so frustrated over this and feel like the biggest idiot.



Well something finaly went my way for once, I have been talking to this girl for the last month, I hadnt seen her for awhile and she seemed kinda distant since the last time we hung out and when I would ask her to hang out she would say she already had plans or had to work or to tired from working.  I kinda started to think nothing was going to happen and was about ready to give up.  I talked to her last night and she said she'd call me today and maybe we could hang out for a couple hours.  So I didnt think much of it maybe just go out and get something to eat and that would be that.  I picked her up took her out to eat and then afterwards went back to my house to watch a movie.  For awhile we just layed on my couch and made out and I wanted it to go further but I wasnt sure if she did.  Out of nowhere she said lets go down to your room and watch a movie and I was like:awedance:.  I started making out with her again and tried to make an advance and she stopped me about halfway in a playful way but clearly said to stop, I was like god damnit.  Then like 10 minutes later I go to kiss her again and she basicaly started ripping mine and her clothes off and then I proceeded to have to best sex I have ever had.  I havent had sex with that many girls or anything but man this girl was hot as fuck and liked it rough.  I was banging her hard doggystyle and I couldnt finish because of being on suboxone and I she had to stop me because she said she was so exhausted:lol:  She was screaming and telling me she was cumming and if she wasnt putting on a show (which I dont think she was) Im so pleased with myself haha.  Im like a real shy dude but having like 8mgs of lorazepam in me turned me into an animal hah.  I feel so good right now, its like the biggest confidence boost especialy since I havent gotten laid in awhile.  The plus side is I realy like this girl alot too.  Tonight FTMFW


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245464 - 04/05/11 11:45 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

*wakes up tomorrow with strange scabs*



























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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245486 - 04/05/11 11:49 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

hahaha


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
    #14245491 - 04/05/11 11:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

:lol: Now you got me worried.


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245521 - 04/06/11 12:01 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

did ya wear a condom? I'm more worried about kids than herpalitis

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
    #14245534 - 04/06/11 12:04 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

no but shes on birth control


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245542 - 04/06/11 12:07 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

:omgz: Potential double whammy in the near future :lol:




"O yea, that birth control? I lied."
"O yea I'm clean? I lied."

jk congrats I'm just mad cause I havent gotten any for 2 months

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
    #14245556 - 04/06/11 12:11 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

It had been well over 2 months for me so I feel sooooo much better right now about everything, I was starting to think it would never happen again:lol:


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PeterGriffin467]
    #14245562 - 04/06/11 12:13 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I just met a guy at my new job that told me "I havent been with a woman since 1986"

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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH]
    #14245594 - 04/06/11 12:22 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Just relax. What's the worst that could have happened if you had made a move? She rejects you...
There are like 3,000,000,000 chicks out there, if ONE denies you, who cares?

I'm pretty sure there's nothing to worry about...she's calling you up, asking why you didn't make a move...she's obviously into you. Use this knowledge and don't be a pussy! Chicks don't like guys who look weak...

Seriously, for me the most attractive part of a chick is if she has self confidence. I'm sure they see us the same way. Even if you aren't all that confident, at least fake it until you're comfortable enough to be confident.


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Re: I think I just blew it with this girl because of my stupid social anxiety [Re: PreparationH] * 1
    #14245604 - 04/06/11 12:23 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

today I am fucking two girls at different times and one got me booze and the other is bringing me more booze and cigarettes in 30 minutes

DAMN IT FEELS GOOD TO BE A GANGSTA


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