Home | Community | Message Board

MagicBag Grow Bags
This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Shop: Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom   Original Sensible Seeds Bulk Cannabis Seeds   North Spore North Spore Mushroom Grow Kits & Cultivation Supplies

Jump to first unread post Pages: 1
OfflineJonnyOneNut
Sponge
Male


Registered: 11/13/06
Posts: 303
Loc: Massachusetts
Last seen: 7 years, 11 months
Trouble moving on
    #14237355 - 04/04/11 05:21 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

My girlfriend and I broke up about a year and a half ago. The first few months were hell for me and I was very depressed b/c I couldn't stop thinking about her and how much I missed her. I was OK during the summer and then I relapsed for some reason. I flat out asked her if any part of her wanted to be with me and she said no.

Every once in a while she would text/call or Facebook me, probably to keep me just close enough for whatever reason. Christmas came and I finally told her to delete my number, she said some pretty harsh things and she's only texted me once since. Yet, I think about her every single day, multiple times and I still miss her. I even dream about her..

There isn't a shortage of girls for me, but I rarely develop feelings for a girl because I'm very picky. What can I do to stop thinking/dreaming about her and missing her?


--------------------
:regularshroom:BABY BOTTLE LC TEK:regularshroom:
Fix it or accept it, but do not stress about it.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineMad River
Reverend, Churchof Todd
Male User Gallery

Registered: 04/29/08
Posts: 1,114
Loc: The Great Lakes Region, U...
Last seen: 2 years, 6 months
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: JonnyOneNut] * 1
    #14237429 - 04/04/11 05:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Date. Develop a hobby.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineZardos
Stranger


Registered: 09/18/10
Posts: 1,077
Loc: Flag
Last seen: 4 years, 6 days
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: Mad River]
    #14238209 - 04/04/11 07:59 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Mad River said:
Date. Develop a hobby.




--------------------
December 1960:
"They took the drug one evening at Leary's house and had a profound experience, during which Ginsburg prophetically realized that it was a time to start "a peace and love movement". He then ran naked around the house, attempted to get Kruschev and Kennedy on the telephone and announced to the operator that he was God."


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlineshimishimiman
Jaded Optimist


Registered: 03/21/09
Posts: 469
Loc: Shmexas, Texas
Last seen: 1 month, 27 days
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: Zardos]
    #14238264 - 04/04/11 08:08 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

you'll never get over her dude.  every time you think about her you will always be left with the painful memory of rejection.  all you can do is move on and try other things.  i have been through similar shit and i have done everything in the book to get over "the one that got away," but no matter what you do you will never be able to erase that shit.  just keep your life going and eventually you will learn to cope with it. 

beautiful naked women that want your cock are all over the place - you've just got to find out where.


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Anonymous #1

Re: Trouble moving on [Re: shimishimiman]
    #14239083 - 04/04/11 10:23 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Do everything you didnt do when you were seeing her. Have hobbies. See old friends. Do whatever you want because you're FREE.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinedshow
Nomad
 User Gallery


Registered: 01/22/09
Posts: 5,255
Last seen: 12 years, 2 months
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14239452 - 04/04/11 11:31 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

you'll never get over her dude.  every time you think about her you will always be left with the painful memory of rejection.  all you can do is move on and try other things.  i have been through similar shit and i have done everything in the book to get over "the one that got away," but no matter what you do you will never be able to erase that shit.  just keep your life going and eventually you will learn to cope with it. 




wow yea.. op just move on. put it in the past and live a better life.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinemindbentempire
Male


Registered: 10/26/09
Posts: 258
Loc: Australia Flag
Last seen: 17 days, 6 hours
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: dshow]
    #14240378 - 04/05/11 06:14 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Get a telemarketing job, fucking works like magic.

How I know? I just broke up with my fiancee the day before my first day at a new job. Charity call center. Mate, its not a very fun job, but it feels better then thinking about your ex non stop. I talked to about 600 people today and I dont have the mental capacity think about mine right now.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleirie.one
I Respect I Eternally
Male


Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 157
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: mindbentempire]
    #14241417 - 04/05/11 11:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

You have to find a way to think back on your relationship and view it in a positive light. There are two ways you can do it: Look back and get sad, or look back and see how the relationship has helped you grow.

Re-connecting with your pre-relationship identity can do great things to make you feel better about being single.

The concept of acceptance is a big one here too; if you're stuck in the past you'll never move forward and if you're stuck thinking about the future you'll never enjoy the present. The present moment is the most important one, if you learn to live in it you'll find you are able to appreciate life so much more. The present moment for all intents and purposes only involves you and nobody from the past is in your present moment. Try to think about it like that, if you can...

Love is an amazing, fucked up thing. For me it was more amazing than fucked up and those are the moments I focus on when thinking about my last relationship, and that I'm so much better off with the freedom to choose my life's path.

Good luck man, I know how you feel and I've even had the relapse you mentioned, it sneaks up out of nowhere and is frustrating when you think you've moved on successfully. But that will pass too, in a few years she'll just be another special memory from a different phase of your life.


--------------------
gettin' high to balance out the lows


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleJesusGoneRogue
 User Gallery

Registered: 10/24/10
Posts: 9,495
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: irie.one]
    #14242431 - 04/05/11 03:14 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

hearbreak hurts. bad. but you know what you have to do? same thing i did.


























:blewmeanie:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineJonnyOneNut
Sponge
Male


Registered: 11/13/06
Posts: 303
Loc: Massachusetts
Last seen: 7 years, 11 months
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: irie.one]
    #14242851 - 04/05/11 04:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

irie.one said:
You have to find a way to think back on your relationship and view it in a positive light. There are two ways you can do it: Look back and get sad, or look back and see how the relationship has helped you grow.

Re-connecting with your pre-relationship identity can do great things to make you feel better about being single.

The concept of acceptance is a big one here too; if you're stuck in the past you'll never move forward and if you're stuck thinking about the future you'll never enjoy the present. The present moment is the most important one, if you learn to live in it you'll find you are able to appreciate life so much more. The present moment for all intents and purposes only involves you and nobody from the past is in your present moment. Try to think about it like that, if you can...

Love is an amazing, fucked up thing. For me it was more amazing than fucked up and those are the moments I focus on when thinking about my last relationship, and that I'm so much better off with the freedom to choose my life's path.

Good luck man, I know how you feel and I've even had the relapse you mentioned, it sneaks up out of nowhere and is frustrating when you think you've moved on successfully. But that will pass too, in a few years she'll just be another special memory from a different phase of your life.




That is some solid, helpful advice.
thanks


--------------------
:regularshroom:BABY BOTTLE LC TEK:regularshroom:
Fix it or accept it, but do not stress about it.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineDungeonMaster
Male

Registered: 12/17/10
Posts: 436
Loc: TX, USA Flag
Last seen: 2 years, 5 months
Re: Trouble moving on [Re: JonnyOneNut]
    #14243010 - 04/05/11 05:06 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

:whathesaid:


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: 1

Shop: Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom   Original Sensible Seeds Bulk Cannabis Seeds   North Spore North Spore Mushroom Grow Kits & Cultivation Supplies


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Is abstinence sexual paranoia?
( 1 2 3 4 all )
DoctorJ 2,218 61 03/26/18 03:25 PM
by Jokeshopbeard
* welp.. i found my dream girl, but EXDIM 763 14 03/19/18 02:34 PM
by mndfreeze
* So tired mndfreezeMDiscordReddit 654 10 03/31/18 12:36 AM
by mndfreeze

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: Middleman, Shroomism, automan, yogabunny, CookieCrumbs
1,098 topic views. 0 members, 1 guests and 2 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.024 seconds spending 0.006 seconds on 15 queries.