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michaelsartery
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Fathers spanking their daughters??
#14221548 - 04/01/11 03:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I was speaking to a female friend recently, who strictly felt the role of fathering does not include disciplincing or spanking their daughters. She thinks it would pyschologically leave a negative impact on their daugthers. And I strongly disagree. I would like your thoughts on this matter...
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: michaelsartery]
#14221554 - 04/01/11 03:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I was spanked as a kid, and I turned out fine. I love my parents, and I'm glad they hit me when I needed to be hit.
There's quite a difference between spanking and beating. I don't think there's anything wrong with spanking, and I'm pretty sure I'll spank my kids when necessary.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: BothHands]
#14233279 - 04/03/11 08:54 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I was spanked too from both my parents. The role of a parent is to foster guardianship, while building fine and good natured citizens. With this philosphy being applied, discipline, not abuse should be warranted.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: michaelsartery]
#14233296 - 04/03/11 08:57 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Spanking was fine until the 90's. Every raised before that time was fine, now everyone is a tard that doesn't understand consequences.
Beat that shit.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: 4runner]
#14233310 - 04/03/11 08:59 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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anunnakian said: Spanking was fine until the 90's. Every raised before that time was fine, now everyone is a tard that doesn't understand consequences.
Beat that shit.
Very true, it really makes me wonder how humanity has made it this far. Seems to me that the more "intelligent" a species is, the more delusional and it gets.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: michaelsartery]
#14233319 - 04/03/11 09:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: Caine]
#14233325 - 04/03/11 09:02 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i would spank my children
you can tell the ones that are punished and the ones that arent
theres obviously a limit though, and i firmly believe a good spank is better then a verbal meltdown or letting the little shits run the house like many parents do
i notice a contrast between the way my dad raises his sons (much younger then me) and the way my mom does. my dad lets the kids run and do whatever the fuck they want and they're little assholes. my mom spanks my sister (also much younger) and she's the sweetest thing i've ever seen.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: 4runner]
#14233333 - 04/03/11 09:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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anunnakian said: Spanking was fine until the 90's. Every raised before that time was fine, now everyone is a tard that doesn't understand consequences.
Beat that shit.
pretty much
like george carlin would say
we're living in a age of "professional parents" and the world is becoming full of little fucking girls (male/female)
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: pfxtc]
#14233334 - 04/03/11 09:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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What's that saying about touching a hot stove?
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: Caine]
#14233359 - 04/03/11 09:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Touching a hot stove.... 
Makes me think of my friend who kept warning his sun to stay away from the grill. It was at a point where he said "I warned you" and got close so if he did he could say "I told you" and then help him.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: The_Ghost]
#14233369 - 04/03/11 09:09 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anger and pain is a negative force...but a lot of parents cross a line and do cause trauma to their kids when they spank their kid. There are better ways for smarter people to solve problems. Too bad most people are god damn idiots.
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DarkMatterOfFact said: Anger and pain is a negative force...but a lot of parents cross a line and do cause trauma to their kids when they spank their kid. There are better ways for smarter people to solve problems. Too bad most people are god damn idiots.
this is what most people who have never had any experience with raising children say
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: 4runner]
#14233399 - 04/03/11 09:12 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Cant wait to spank my daughters
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: pfxtc]
#14233410 - 04/03/11 09:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't see anything wrong with it under controlled circumstances (IE - to learn a lesson and not out of anger) though sometimes even the best parents fuck up. I remember when I was young once I scratched my family's new car all down the side with my bike handlebar and my Dad really gave me a few good licks. The few times he did this though he always recognized it and apologized. Sometimes you get mad and do things you regret, everyone experiences this.
It is important that spanking isn't the be all end all of punishment, too. You should talk about cause, consequence, what should and what will be done in the future.
It is hard to say what I would or would not do because I do not have kids and that is a pretty big key to this whole thing.
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DarkMatterOfFact said: Anger and pain is a negative force...but a lot of parents cross a line and do cause trauma to their kids when they spank their kid. There are better ways for smarter people to solve problems. Too bad most people are god damn idiots.
I don't understand where these views come from, anger and pain are not negative forces at all, they're simply forces. We might not like pain but at least our body is doing its best to tell us when something ain't workin' right. It's a Pavlovian response in children, anyways. Spank them when they do something wrong, and eventually they will stop doing it
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: Azure Essence]
#14233413 - 04/03/11 09:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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with my cock.
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: pfxtc]
#14233434 - 04/03/11 09:17 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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spanking people jus seems kinda creepy ...
i mean if they cry they're just faking it any way
its jus a way to humiliate people then they grow up all jealous and shit no one else got there ass clapped
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Re: Fathers spanking their daughters?? [Re: pfxtc]
#14233437 - 04/03/11 09:18 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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DarkMatterOfFact said: Anger and pain is a negative force...but a lot of parents cross a line and do cause trauma to their kids when they spank their kid. There are better ways for smarter people to solve problems. Too bad most people are god damn idiots.
this is what most people who have never had any experience with raising children say
haha like giving birth to a kid takes any special talent? Its dealing with people in a humanly way that does. if you wanna raise your kids on fear go ahead. i never will. Then i again i dont consider myself a typical self absorbed, desensitized, hypocritical american. With their head straight up their ass.
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DarkMatterOfFact said: myself a typical self absorbed, desensitized, hypocritical american. With their head straight up their ass. 
Spoken like an arrogant self absorbed american with his head in his ass.
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pfxtc said:
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DarkMatterOfFact said: Anger and pain is a negative force...but a lot of parents cross a line and do cause trauma to their kids when they spank their kid. There are better ways for smarter people to solve problems. Too bad most people are god damn idiots.
this is what most people who have never had any experience with raising children say
haha like giving birth to a kid takes any special talent? Its dealing with people in a humanly way that does. if you wanna raise your kids on fear go ahead. i never will. Then i again i dont consider myself a typical self absorbed, desensitized, hypocritical american. With their head straight up their ass. 
obviously never raised a kid.
i was right. and i've never given birth either, mostly because i'm a man.
raising children takes talent, not giving birth.
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DarkMatterOfFact said: myself a typical self absorbed, desensitized, hypocritical american. With their head straight up their ass. 
Spoken like an arrogant self absorbed american with his head in his ass. 
what she said.
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