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What would you do?
    #14219903 - 04/01/11 10:16 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14219910 - 04/01/11 10:17 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Fuck dude, that shit's gnarly. My condolences.


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: koraks]
    #14219919 - 04/01/11 10:20 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

damn man, i'm sorry  :sad:

much :heart: to you


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14219971 - 04/01/11 10:36 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

:sad:

I am sorry.


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14220002 - 04/01/11 10:44 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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skyjohnny said:
We were inseparable growing up, my cousin was like 3 months older than me. We went through our drug years together. (my first ever cubes were shared with he and his wife.) Until recently, we were still inseparable. My wife decided over a year ago that since he wasn't clean and sober, I was breaking some sacred marriage or sobriety rule if I wanted to have contact with him. I have not spoken to him in as long.





Wow..  I'm really sorry!  I don't even want to know what it's like to lose someone that close.

To answer the question in the subject, I would have asked for a divorce a year ago.  Your wife may be family by law, but your cousin shares your blood!  She was wrong to even put you in a situation where you had to make a choice between your marriage, and your family/best friend.


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14220013 - 04/01/11 10:47 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Wow, I'd be angry too.
I'm sorry for the way things turned out :sad:


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: Happy2fly]
    #14220022 - 04/01/11 10:50 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

In all seriousness man i'm sorry that happened to you and your family.

But I have to 2nd Happy2Fly there.
Family is family and there is no reason to have to shun somebody due to the opinion of another. 
I hope everything works out for you man.


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: Happy2fly]
    #14220040 - 04/01/11 10:53 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Happy2fly said:
Quote:

skyjohnny said:
We were inseparable growing up, my cousin was like 3 months older than me. We went through our drug years together. (my first ever cubes were shared with he and his wife.) Until recently, we were still inseparable. My wife decided over a year ago that since he wasn't clean and sober, I was breaking some sacred marriage or sobriety rule if I wanted to have contact with him. I have not spoken to him in as long.





Wow..  I'm really sorry!  I don't even want to know what it's like to lose someone that close.

To answer the question in the subject, I would have asked for a divorce a year ago.  Your wife may be family by law, but your cousin shares your blood!  She was wrong to even put you in a situation where you had to make a choice between your marriage, and your family/best friend.




What he said.

Fuck dude I am so sorry. I know how it feels. My best friend committed suicide last year, and living with that guilt is one of the worst things in the world. Please please talk to someone about it, don't just push it away. It eats away at you like a vulture.

My heart goes out to you and your family.
May your cousin find the inner peace he sought after :mushroom2:
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Re: What would you do? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14220251 - 04/01/11 11:30 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Edited by skyjohnny (05/18/11 11:36 AM)


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14220459 - 04/01/11 12:12 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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skyjohnny said:
We were inseparable growing up, my cousin was like 3 months older than me. We went through our drug years together. (my first ever cubes were shared with he and his wife.) Until recently, we were still inseparable. My wife decided over a year ago that since he wasn't clean and sober, I was breaking some sacred marriage or sobriety rule if I wanted to have contact with him. I have not spoken to him in as long.
  This morning my sister called and told me he had hung himself from a tree in thier family's yard last night or this morning. With everyone chillin and partying inside.
  My biggest regret is that I had shunned him for the last year, even though I would have preferred not to, even though at times I could feel that he needed me. I chose to, under duress and great pressure, I chose to ignore him. To soothe an angry, control freak (who I hate for the way I feel right now.)



i hope you're trolling but know that you are probably not.


this is a terrible guilt ridden circumstance.

Your wife did what she felt was right and you listened to her out of love.

YOu could probably made a case for seeing your friend every once in a while, but thinking about that wont bring him back.

The guilt wont go away, you will feel always like this is somehow your fault

but think about it

your friend would not want you to suffer. im sure he understands why u could not see him.

He probably understands too well and thats why he ended it.

I was there not too long ago when my girl n family had shunned me.

Its a terrible feeling not being able to clean up and being outcast because of it.


maybe Your friend just could not handle the pain.


i am really sorry for your loss, this story brought a tear to my eye.



Your friend is free, he is at peace.

Call me sick, but whenever a junky commits suicide there is a sense of relief in my heart.

I am a junky

i know wat its like

and i am very suicidal

to know that he does not suffer anymoar is comforting. Those he left behind are undoubtedly devasted.

Who was helping him tho?

did he have support?

did you guys(his friends) notice he was getting depressed?


no one is to blame i just want to understand this better

I do not want to make the pain worse. But wat addiction?


If he as an opiate or alcohol addict and going on 5 or more years of heavy usage i can't help but sympathize with him. I dont think he is a coward or a bastard...sometimes when you've gotten as high as you can get, the only step left is death.


I will pray for you, your friend and his family

Much love you, and my there soon be peace in your heart .

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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14220698 - 04/01/11 12:48 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

skyjohnny said:
We were inseparable growing up, my cousin was like 3 months older than me. We went through our drug years together. (my first ever cubes were shared with he and his wife.) Until recently, we were still inseparable. My wife decided over a year ago that since he wasn't clean and sober, I was breaking some sacred marriage or sobriety rule if I wanted to have contact with him. I have not spoken to him in as long.
  This morning my sister called and told me he had hung himself from a tree in thier family's yard last night or this morning. With everyone chillin and partying inside.
  My biggest regret is that I had shunned him for the last year, even though I would have preferred not to, even though at times I could feel that he needed me. I chose to, under duress and great pressure, I chose to ignore him. To soothe an angry, control freak (who I hate for the way I feel right now.)




So sorry so lost.

You can ask yourself all the questions you want, but none of them will ever be answered. I had a buddy killing himself too...

What you need to do is accept his decision, mourn him and wish that he is in a better place.


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: Patlal]
    #14220727 - 04/01/11 12:52 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Patlal said:
Quote:

skyjohnny said:
We were inseparable growing up, my cousin was like 3 months older than me. We went through our drug years together. (my first ever cubes were shared with he and his wife.) Until recently, we were still inseparable. My wife decided over a year ago that since he wasn't clean and sober, I was breaking some sacred marriage or sobriety rule if I wanted to have contact with him. I have not spoken to him in as long.
  This morning my sister called and told me he had hung himself from a tree in thier family's yard last night or this morning. With everyone chillin and partying inside.
  My biggest regret is that I had shunned him for the last year, even though I would have preferred not to, even though at times I could feel that he needed me. I chose to, under duress and great pressure, I chose to ignore him. To soothe an angry, control freak (who I hate for the way I feel right now.)




So sorry so lost.

You can ask yourself all the questions you want, but none of them will ever be answered. I had a buddy killing himself too...

What you need to do is accept his decision, mourn him and wish that he is in a better place.




The questions are the worst - what ifs.
:sad:


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Re: What would you do? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #14241016 - 04/05/11 10:18 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Edited by skyjohnny (05/18/11 11:36 AM)


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Re: What would you do? PLZ HELP! [Re: skyjohnny]
    #14241101 - 04/05/11 10:37 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

my condolences on your cousin and even though I'm pointing it out, I believe
you already know your marriage just ended because of her pettiness


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