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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: Zwieback0]
    #1427685 - 04/04/03 01:18 AM (20 years, 11 months ago)

I think you two (seti and Zwieback) are misunderstanding each other. You are both correct, but you are talking about different things. seti is talking about seduction techniques (ie bedding a woman a.s.a.f.p.) while Zwieback is talking about forming a relationship that could quite possibly last a lifetime. I definitely agree with both views because they work well in each of their respective situations. The thing is, secduction works on the vast majority of women, but it usually can't create a lasting relationship. If you spend all of your time trying to have sex with a girl, how can you have anything meaningful for the basis of your relationship? Almost all relationships based purely on sex fizzle and die. Sex is obviously an essential part, but for a long relationship the mental connection (can't think of a better term there) is more important than the physical connection (although not all that much).


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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: shroominbloom]
    #1429752 - 04/04/03 06:32 PM (20 years, 11 months ago)

I think you are right shroominbloom, we were talking about two different perspectives. Although seti might have just been trying to clear up the confusion if my underlinning motives were to either have casual sex or a relationship with her. It was the latter.

Thanks. Anymore?

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    #1434815 - 04/06/03 10:47 PM (20 years, 11 months ago)


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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: Druginduced]
    #1436537 - 04/07/03 02:52 PM (20 years, 11 months ago)

What you're doing already is the way to go, man. You're being a gentleman, you're letting yourself be good friends with a girl, and you're not punishing her for not being something she isn't. What you have going on is healthy and positive. If anything, her boyfriend would be jealous because he wishes he could have as good a friendship with her as you have. You've got it goin' on! It's fuckin' great that you've got a good female friend, and that you're not trying to turn it into a sexual/romantic relationship. There's nothing wrong with you two being great friends. Having another guy around is important to her, and you're a very special part of her life. She obviously doesn't want to lose you. Don't fuck things up; don't be suggestive, and keep it platonic. If she thinks she wants to move shit in a more romantic direction, think about what you want, and don't do *anything* unless she's single. Remember, becoming sexual isn't "moving forward". It's just a change. It's not better, but it may be worse.

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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: Druginduced]
    #1436823 - 04/07/03 04:50 PM (20 years, 11 months ago)

RydawgSupreme:
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ask her if she has ever had crazy ass monkey wild sex. And hopefully she will say no. If she says no then you also say that you haven't either and that you should probably do it since you both have never doen it before. If she says yes then your screwed!




Haha. Hopefully that was a "joke!" My God, I laughed my ass off reading that. thanks for putting some much needed spice into this post!

Virgil:
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You're being a gentleman, you're letting yourself be good friends with a girl, and you're not punishing her for not being something she isn't.




Thanks alot Virgil I appreciate your comments. I wish to only do the right thing. A friendship would have probably been better anyways... I'm still young and hormones have probably gotten the best of me these couple of years. But I dont regret anything, no matter what Ill end up with a good friend.

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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: Zwieback0]
    #9629795 - 01/18/09 02:22 AM (15 years, 2 months ago)

From what I've read, I've been in a similar situation.

I didn't have much self-esteem and I took all the attention from girls that I could receive. A girl befriended me and we started hanging out a lot. In fact I actually started hanging out with my other friends a lot less just to be with this girl.

She initiated every encounter, and we would go out drinking but nothing sexual would ever happen. Fast forward a couple of months, we are lying in her bed watching a movie. I'm holding her very close to me and she has her leg over me. I realize at this moment that I have been attracted to her all along and that my ambition to become her friend was just my suppressed sexual desire.

My advice is to try your hardest to be totally honest with yourself. And once you know what you want, go for it relentlessly.

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Re: Whats the deal with this girl? [Re: Zwieback0]
    #9630764 - 01/18/09 08:37 AM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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