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Problem orgasming...
#14205273 - 03/29/11 06:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Female here..
I think my vagina is broken. Or my clit, rather. I get hardly any pleasure from clit stimulation. It feels kind of good for like 2 minutes and then I'm just like "umm this is boring". Doesn't matter what it is, myself doing it or a guy using his tongue.. I haven't tried a vibrator though.
On the other hand, g-spot stimulation feels 100000x better. If I can get in a sex position that hits it in the right spot, I can get really close to orgasming... but I never have, but then again I haven't had that much sex in my life.
Is this weird? I thought women need clit stimulation for orgasm, and therefore sex doesn't do it. But I really think if I had sex long enough in the right position I could climax through the g.
Is it possible I have some kind of.. nerve damage in my clit? It just really doesn't feel all that good no matter which way it's rubbed.
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AIRDOG



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different women have different sensations when it come to sex... there are clit orgasms and vaginal orgasms, but im no expert explaining it.... maybe you are not relaxed/horny enough?
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hesus321
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: AIRDOG] 1
#14205459 - 03/29/11 07:20 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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AIRDOG said: maybe you are not horny enough?
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: hesus321]
#14205723 - 03/29/11 08:09 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Are you on psychiatric drugs?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Are you on psychiatric drugs?
Nope.
I take birth control (Loestrin) and that's it.
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Anonymous #3
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How old are you? The clit gets more sensitive with age.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: How old are you? The clit gets more sensitive with age.
I'm 20
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Shroomerette
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I'm on loestrin too! A vibrator is definitely worth trying, just so you know
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Humility
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: hesus321]
#14206497 - 03/29/11 10:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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hesus321 said:
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AIRDOG said: maybe you are not horny enough?

I lold hard
I agree with this though. That and increased G-spot stimulation.
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: Humility]
#14207623 - 03/30/11 02:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Vibrators are so fucking annoying when youre trying to have sex with the girl.
Jesus fuck, if you can build yourself up to cum through gspot stimulation then forget about the clit. Gspot orgasm is longer, deeper, and all around more awesome then clit orgasm.
My gf cant cum through vaginal sex, she needs clit stimulation no matter what. Maybe because she conditioned herself that way. But really, just focus on gspot for now
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Seuss
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> Is this weird? I thought women need clit stimulation for orgasm, and therefore sex doesn't do it.
Not weird. Every person is wired a little bit differently. What works for some people will not work for others. The trick is to figure out what works for you, and to find a partner that can scratch that itch. Also, an orgasm has a very large mental aspect to it... although physical stimulation is usually part of it, if the proper mindset isn't there, then the orgasm is not going to happen. Some of us have to learn how to have a good orgasm. Just like anything else, practice makes perfect (and what a fun thing to practice!)
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mindbentempire said: m.
My gf cant cum through vaginal sex, she needs clit stimulation no matter what. Maybe because she conditioned herself that way. But really, just focus on gspot for now 
I am the same way.
Op, you sound you need to explore your body and figure out what works for you. Most men haven't been able to make me orgasm vaginally, but I can make it happen myself. You just have to learn what feels best for you. Once you figure out yourself, share it with your dude.
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Anonymous said: How old are you? The clit gets more sensitive with age.
I'm 20 
Either someone isn't pleasuring you right or it hasnt become sensitive yet. 20 is still pretty young.
I've heard of other girls not feeling much for clit sensitivity.
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: Are you on psychiatric drugs?
Nope.
I take birth control (Loestrin) and that's it.
I do not know much about the subject, but I red somewhere that certain birth controls can lower your libido.
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: Simms]
#14212017 - 03/30/11 09:08 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, BC can lower your libido.
and the psychological component to sex is undeniable, too. If you're with someone you're not compatible with, then it'll be harder to orgasm. I think clitoral and vaginal orgasms are both possible.
You probably just need to relax, and don't worry about it! It'll come..
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Loestrin can lower your sex drive if you google it.
Are you horny when you have sex/ before sex? Is it just an issue of finishing? Or is your sex drive not so rampant?
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mindbentempire



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penelope_tree said: Yeah, BC can lower your libido.
and the psychological component to sex is undeniable, too. If you're with someone you're not compatible with, then it'll be harder to orgasm. I think clitoral and vaginal orgasms are both possible.
You probably just need to relax, and don't worry about it! It'll come..
You're spot on there. 99% of the female orgasm is all mental
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koraks
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I just saw an ad in a newspaper that called for women who have trouble reaching orgasm. Apparently, they're trying to test the effectiveness of a testosterone ointment applied to the nostrils. This is in The Netherlands btw, so probably not of much use to RP.
Just saying
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Re: Problem orgasming... [Re: koraks]
#18980407 - 10/15/13 08:24 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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All you need is a stimulant and a vibrator. If possible learn to orgasm in a sunny place because the UV can coax the clit to swell up so it feels a bit more intense automatically. Get mentally into it and you're gonna be insatiable soon. Enjoy.
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FishOilTheKid
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What about suction on the clitoris and the 'come hither' g-spot stimulation...??
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