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Anonymous #4

Re: Love [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14317834 - 04/19/11 02:35 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I fear that my current relationship is heading the same way.. I'm in the same boat as you, she's my first and I loved her more than anything. She was my best friend before I started dating her and I would have thought her to be the last girl in the world to do it, but she cheated on me.. (funny thing is that she's very outspoken about cheaters... ha)
It hurt like hell, still does and I think about it all the time even though its been months since. I feel like she's still hiding things about it from me for fear that I'll leave her if she tells me the whole truth. I can tell she's trying really hard to change and be a good girlfriend but somethings missing now, I just cant feel for her like I did before no matter how hard I try. In that respect I can relate to you exactly and I feel our relationship is heading down the same path. She's trying really hard and honestly that's the only reason were still together but I feel like I can't trust her anymore, hell I feel like I can't trust anyone anymore.. and its only getting worse. I'm really torn on what I should do, I feel like such a pussy for staying with her after what she did to me. But on the other hand I feel like she's trying so hard to make it up to me, she treats me much better than she did before the incident. she would be everything I ever wanted now had she not betrayed me like that.. things have gotten better and I still love her but I feel like our relationship is still just a hollow shell of what it once was.
I guess "tainted" is an appropriate word to describe how it feels.


Edited by Anonymous (04/19/11 03:03 PM)


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Anonymous #1

Re: Love [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #14318900 - 04/19/11 06:12 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I fear that my current relationship is heading the same way.. I'm in the same boat as you, she's my first and I loved her more than anything. She was my best friend before I started dating her and I would have thought her to be the last girl in the world to do it, but she cheated on me.. (funny thing is that she's very outspoken about cheaters... ha)
It hurt like hell, still does and I think about it all the time even though its been months since. I feel like she's still hiding things about it from me for fear that I'll leave her if she tells me the whole truth. I can tell she's trying really hard to change and be a good girlfriend but somethings missing now, I just cant feel for her like I did before no matter how hard I try. In that respect I can relate to you exactly and I feel our relationship is heading down the same path. She's trying really hard and honestly that's the only reason were still together but I feel like I can't trust her anymore, hell I feel like I can't trust anyone anymore.. and its only getting worse. I'm really torn on what I should do, I feel like such a pussy for staying with her after what she did to me. But on the other hand I feel like she's trying so hard to make it up to me, she treats me much better than she did before the incident. she would be everything I ever wanted now had she not betrayed me like that.. things have gotten better and I still love her but I feel like our relationship is still just a hollow shell of what it once was.
I guess "tainted" is an appropriate word to describe how it feels.




"Tainted" is exactly how I feel regarding my relationship due to her sleeping with another guy. I can relate to you man, it just and won't feel the 'same', i'm sorry dude, but I think breaking up with her would be for the best, it's hard enough living a lie. I'm in the process of breaking up with mine, but it's really hard her being my first and only as I assume is with your situation. But I am positive that with time, the pain shall reside.


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