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Is this Shady?
#14174797 - 03/24/11 09:31 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm a little "put off" by one of my friends right now, and I don't know if I'm "allowed" to be.
She went to a party with weed and alcohol. Everyone was getting high, and drunk playing pong, etc.
That doesn't make me upset. What pisses me off is there were two babies in the house while this party was happening, and my so called "Good friend" wouldn't leave, or tell the parents they should have gotten a baby sitter, or to grow up.
She just joined in, got high and drunk, while she's underage, and there are kids in the house. Infant children.
Like I said, it doesn't bother me that she was stoned, or drunk, it just bothers me the situation she allowed herself in.
Do I have a legit reason to be put off by this?
What do you guys think of the situation?
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174802 - 03/24/11 09:33 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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people are stupid
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This is Shaddy

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Were the children hitting the buds?
jk
That is irresponsible. If one of the kids were to have a health issue neither parent would be in the right mind to deal with it. you are not wrong imo.
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Devlish2]
#14174820 - 03/24/11 09:37 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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you do realize HE's not really anna faris right?
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174823 - 03/24/11 09:38 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Where were the kids in the house? Asleep in their own room?
Eh,although it would be the right thing to do,it wouldn't be her place to say anything and also the parents know themselves what's up and don't need it pointed out to them. They'd probably snap at your friend for interfering.
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: biff]
#14174828 - 03/24/11 09:39 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I seen a prego bitch doing coke once ...then she became Ragu   
Really though, people suck
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TBH I don't see the problem. Tell people to smoke outside, but other than that NBD. I've been to friend's parties where their child (infant) was sleeping. Babies sleep through anything lol. As long as the child is not in direct harm I don't see a problem. Should they have gotten a sitter? Yes. But I don't think you can be mad at your friend for a decision someone else made.
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depends on how old the kid is... i would never leave a kid unattended while i was drunk if they couldnt get in and out of their own bed. smoking pot is a different situation. i dont see the problem with smoking while you have kids around. i would never smoke in front of my kid, but i wouldnt mind getting high out in the garage while they veg on yo gabba gabba.
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Jimtown said: Where were the kids in the house? Asleep in their own room?
Eh,although it would be the right thing to do,it wouldn't be her place to say anything and also the parents know themselves what's up and don't need it pointed out to them. They'd probably snap at your friend for interfering.
They were in their own room, but what if something happened? I guess that's the way I'm looking at it. What if's y'know?
Maybe she didn't have to say something, but she could have been like "Oh sorry, I'm not having any part in this."
Think of the children!!!
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Olympus Mons said: you do realize HE's not really anna faris right?
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174843 - 03/24/11 09:42 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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thats like that without kids. if everyone is fucked up and your girlfriend goes into an overdose or seizure. if you have a brain, drunk or high you still know what to do and how to do it. i could be trippin my ass off but as soon as something goes down i know how to react.
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Unless its your kids are the children are in danger its not her place or yours.
My babies momma does shit like that ALL the time and I flip out every time I find out.
Unless you can prove abuse there isnt shit that CPS can or will do
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alcoholocaust said: thats like that without kids. if everyone is fucked up and your girlfriend goes into an overdose or seizure. if you have a brain, drunk or high you still know what to do and how to do it. i could be trippin my ass off but as soon as something goes down i know how to react.
What if you have 2 kids, and god for bid one climbs out of the crib ( it happens, my nephew does it ALL The time ) and he slips, or his foot gets caught, falls and breaks his arm. You're gonna have to bring him to the hospital, yeah? You going to do that tripping, or stoned, or drunk?
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174877 - 03/24/11 09:50 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Eshu said:
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Jimtown said: Where were the kids in the house? Asleep in their own room?
Eh,although it would be the right thing to do,it wouldn't be her place to say anything and also the parents know themselves what's up and don't need it pointed out to them. They'd probably snap at your friend for interfering.
They were in their own room, but what if something happened? I guess that's the way I'm looking at it. What if's y'know?
Maybe she didn't have to say something, but she could have been like "Oh sorry, I'm not having any part in this."
Think of the children!!! 
Provided people don't get retarded drunk and at least some people are able to keep their heads I don't really see the problem. If something did happen,what's stopping anyone calling an ambulance or bringing the child in a taxi to the hospital as you normally would do?
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174882 - 03/24/11 09:51 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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well for one i wouldnt have two kids. and two ill do what i have to do to get my kid to the hospital. my girlfriend doesnt smoke or trip so if any case like that happens she can take him in. i really dont have a problem there. im just sayin if there was a time to get up and do something im doing it. im not going to sit there and stare at a problem. if my boy ever broke his arm and i was stoned or drunk (which i dont even really drink) i would have no problem taking him somewhere. i live in the city, things are close. same with trippin if someone (doesnt have to be my son) was in dying need or medical assistance i would have no problems getting them to a doctor. just because you have a kid doesnt mean you cant do anything. you just have to be smart about it.
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Eshu said:
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Jimtown said: Where were the kids in the house? Asleep in their own room?
Eh,although it would be the right thing to do,it wouldn't be her place to say anything and also the parents know themselves what's up and don't need it pointed out to them. They'd probably snap at your friend for interfering.
They were in their own room, but what if something happened? I guess that's the way I'm looking at it. What if's y'know?
Maybe she didn't have to say something, but she could have been like "Oh sorry, I'm not having any part in this."
Think of the children!!! 
Provided people don't get retarded drunk and at least some people are able to keep their heads I don't really see the problem. If something did happen,what's stopping anyone calling an ambulance or bringing the child in a taxi to the hospital as you normally would do?
Everyone was playing beer pong according to her story, and the only people that were old enough, were the parents.
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and if you read my post earlier i said i wouldnt leave my kid unattended like that if he couldnt get out of his own bed and get back in. as in walking and being active and vocal. therefore he has no crib to fall out of
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alcoholocaust said: and if you read my post earlier i said i wouldnt leave my kid unattended like that if he couldnt get out of his own bed and get back in. as in walking and being active and vocal. therefore he has no crib to fall out of
Oh sorry. Thought we were all discussing the infants at hand.
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Re: Is this Shady? [Re: Eshu]
#14174900 - 03/24/11 09:55 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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its ok man.
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