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tripp23
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am i a cheater?
#14168279 - 03/23/11 02:58 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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today i hung out with my ex tht i still have feelings for all day. didnt do much, just watched 2 movies through out the day and ate pretty much.. but i have a girlfriend at the moment. and i really like this girl, good personality and looks but seeing my ex brings me down. i never planned for this to happen.. this is just fate bringin me 2 girls at the wrong time.. since weve broke up, ive been always just wanting to get that last "goodbye" you know. not sex or anything, just a kiss and tell her that i love her.
so we were sitting there and she was falling asleep so i was rubbing her temples cuz it puts her to sleep and rite before i left, i pecked her on the lips once n forehead once n said "i love you n always will." and thats it, i left. she was asleep at that point so who knows if shell remember it in the morning.. but i need help shroomery..
i know i fucked up and i know this ex aint rite for me n i know this girl now is really good for me. tomorroew morning, i was just thinking of breaking the relationship off for alittle bit n if she still wanted to come around, she can. i need opinions though.. n thats y i come to you guys for 'muti-opinions'.
i was eighter going to tell her that i just want to cut it off because im not in the rite mind set rite now for a relastionship or i was just gonna tell her tht me n my ex hung out for alittle bit last night. nothing happened cuz its true.. but those 2 quick pecks.. n im not the type of person to lie at all so i dont know wtf to do.. 
helllpppp..
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: tripp23]
#14168292 - 03/23/11 03:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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just be honest
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irie.one
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It's probably not fair to your current girlfriend that you still have feelings for your ex. I guess my opinion with that is that if I have feelings for a girl still then I'm not fit to be in a relationship yet. I just hope she's not a rebound thing for you... That might help you make your decision. And you should definitely tell her that you can't be in a relationship right now because you still have feelings for your ex, that's the truth and if she's mature at all she should understand.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: irie.one]
#14168740 - 03/23/11 08:26 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have been in this situation before, and would be in the same situation if I let the opportunity come up again.
The way I figured it out was who I knew I would be happier with, had a future with, and then cut all contact with the other(my ex). Its the only way to stay sane.
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BeverageFace
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think about how you would feel if she did this to you.
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You broke up with your ex. Why? Has anything changed since then?
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but i have a girlfriend at the moment. and i really like this girl, good personality and looks but seeing my ex brings me down.
You see her and you feel down then you think about fucking about a perfectly good relationship to get back with the person you broke up with?
If you break up with the new chick you might just be left alone by both of them. Or wind up hating being with your ex.
Why did you guys break up? Do you think anything has changed?
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If you're going to stay with the current gf, maybe you shouldn't tell her.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: thoughts]
#14172350 - 03/23/11 08:06 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Honestly, my opinion, quit fucking yourself in the ass. You broke up with the ex, or she with you, whatever, its FUCKING OVER. Go date the new fish, and quit worrying about the old one. You probably don't even love the old one, you just love the thought of her. Clearly it didn't work out, so quit doing whatever the fuck you are doing and ruining it for yourself. Quit shoving a huge dick in your ass and screaming about it when it hurts. You're causing your own pain.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: Joolz]
#14173295 - 03/23/11 11:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I would bro, for seriously.
How is it going to benefit your girl to hear that you kissed your ex? Just don't do it man.
Everyone in this thread is in agreement. That means something.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: tripp23]
#14178419 - 03/24/11 08:32 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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For God's sake, don't tell her. Either stay with her and dont get together with your ex, or break up with her. Either way, she doesn't need to know about the kiss.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: automan]
#14181151 - 03/25/11 09:51 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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An ex is an ex for a reason.
Like you said, the girl you have now is good for you.
Why change that? Do you really want to fuck up a good thing just to possibly get back an ex that well, obviously you guys had issues with each other, or something.
My advice is to ditch your ex and go with the new girl..
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: Uzziel]
#14181160 - 03/25/11 09:53 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't fuck up a good thing. Seriously. Just move on.
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no sense leading the current girl on if you still have feelings for someone else.
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D.C
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Quote:
am i a cheater?
If you have to ask...
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: tripp23]
#14210344 - 03/30/11 04:07 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Lol. I'd assume that you're just using your current girl as a rebound. Because If you're a sane, not that big of an asshole kinda guy, then you'd know, that if you have feelings for an ex. You're simply not ready.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: automan]
#14210824 - 03/30/11 05:32 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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automan said: For God's sake, don't tell her. Either stay with her and dont get together with your ex, or break up with her. Either way, she doesn't need to know about the kiss.
I agree. If you tell her she is going to get pissed. That is the reality. Make up your mind and pick one but the less words you use, the better off you'll be. I don't like to lie either, but telling the truth about everything is just naive.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: tripp23]
#14237121 - 04/04/11 04:18 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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physicist said: ...I don't like to lie either, but telling the truth about everything is just naive.
It is only naive when you make a naive move on your part before the matter. We all have the ability to put ourselves where we want. Quit thinking for yourself and you might just put yourself somewhere you never really wanted to be.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: Cursive]
#14238462 - 04/04/11 08:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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You your X and hope your current doesnt find out. Basically have secret sex with your ex while your dating the other....
haha.. no seriously, do what the other people here said.
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Re: am i a cheater? [Re: dshow]
#14242303 - 04/05/11 02:47 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dude you should convince your current gf to pull a three way with you and the ex.... That would be omm nomm nommerific.
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