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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14151078 - 03/19/11 10:16 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hell yeah man. I guess I'm still looking for an excuse to get fucked up...but it should be a positive reason. Maybe I just got laid? hahahaha.
Man what the fuck. If you want to know, I have one piece of advice for anyone who cares. You only live once, so live life to the fullest. Now drugs for the most part are a way of living life to the fullest. However, at a certain point they're a way to NOT live life, and that's what I was wanting to do. Fuck that shit. Live life like you only get one go around, cause it's true.
Party it up! Get some stories! Go to a lot of school, learn all you can! Knowledge without mileage is bullshit, however. Go out there, learn shit. Enjoy life. Don't let drugs turn into a way of not living life.
The way I see drugs, at a certain point they lose their magic and their fun. Everyone reaches that point, however people that know whats up can live without them. Others can't. That's addiction.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14153924 - 03/20/11 01:38 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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In Taoism i remember they dont consider all things we consider bad "sins".
Basically drugs don't lead you towards a spiritual life (most of them and even psychedelics to some degree). However it isn't "wrong" to use them. Once you do use them they are like toys. You get bored of them and move on. Then the curiosity to try them is gone you know exactly "what you are missing out on". If you wind up addicted its a different story, but if you toy with them and move on you learn something by experience.
Just understand you don't "need" drugs even if you "want" them. I'm not saying never try them or don't do them. Just realize they're little fucking toys you pick up and eventually put down. That or they completely ruin you.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14155310 - 03/20/11 06:30 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well I went today...completely sober. I have never been that nervous. Over the past few days I could sleep, I couldn't eat. However today went well (she told me I was really nervous), and we're now going out. All without a drug.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14155323 - 03/20/11 06:33 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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couldn't sleep***
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14156070 - 03/20/11 08:48 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Well I went today...completely sober. I have never been that nervous. Over the past few days I could sleep, I couldn't eat. However today went well (she told me I was really nervous), and we're now going out. All without a drug.
Well then i guess you were wrong because you could do it sober (The title being you can't do it sober).
The more you think you need a drug the more you need the drug.
The less you think you need a drug the less you need the drug.
Sure if you took Xanax you wouldn't have been as nervous. But then every time you get nervous or go on a date you're going to have some dumb thought like "oh i need to take a xanax because of X".
In reality you did just fine. Most guys want to date an understanding girl. An understanding girl understands a guy might be a bit nervous on a first date. A total bitch, not so much, but who wants to date a total bitch?
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Anonymous #3
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14157213 - 03/20/11 11:59 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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now jack off
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Joolz


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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #3]
#14157895 - 03/21/11 03:49 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: now jack off
Lol'd
But seriously, this is like step number 2.
-------------------- Prohibition didn't work for God; Eve ate the fruit.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Joolz]
#14164739 - 03/22/11 01:49 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well done dude, for what it's worth I am very proud of you. I used to date a girl who made me feel inadequate because of how nervous I was every time I was around her which eventually led me to believe that I wasn't good enough for anyone when I was sober. I know now that she was an immature, unrealistic brat and that doing drugs when you aren't supposed to do them can never lead to anything good.
The fact that you sucked it up and took it like a man is awesome, and I commend you for it.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: shimishimiman]
#14166145 - 03/22/11 05:56 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm always super nervous too man until Hello then it all goes away.
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: pfxtc]
#14167323 - 03/22/11 10:29 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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About 5 out of the 7 times I hung out with my last GF for the first two or three weeks I had a shot or two. The first date was a double date with my friend and I got FUCKED up before hand. Mostly because I was too much of a pussy to kiss her and I had to make out with her at restaurant in my mind, hard to explain lol. I actually calmed down a lot as I got to know her better and didn't have to drink, but the best times of our relationship were when we were both smashed I'd say. It only lasted three months, but it was a good run.
I wish I had this advice and support before that though, maybe it would have kicked me in the nuts to not start a relationship around a substance.
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