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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: nasem]
#14154063 - 03/20/11 02:03 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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this is a tough one, i dont agree with a father turning in his own kids that just seems wrong to me, however his kids seemed like little assholes that deserved to get arrested for doing that. i just think it should be up to the assaulted boy and his parents whether or not they press charges and put this kid through the legal system. if i were the dad i would have done everything else that guy did but i think i would have taken the kids home and smacked them around a little to teach them a lesson, i mean the boy was 17 not some helpless 5th grader i would have prob broken his jaw but not turned him into the police.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Envix]
#14154096 - 03/20/11 02:09 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Another opinion of mine: picking on someone for wearing glasses is probably the stupidest reason to pick on someone that I can imagine.
picking on anyone for any reason is retarded
unless they're muslim or retarded
You don't call retarded people retards. It's bad taste. You call your friends retards when they're acting retarded.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: LeeHarvOz]
#14154097 - 03/20/11 02:09 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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first bullying
then murder
its a lack of control that needs to be dealt with
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: amilibertine]
#14154099 - 03/20/11 02:09 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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This had happened before and the father probably already talked to them about their behavior. And they are were still doing it.
I wouldn't have taken my kids to the police station, but I would have brought them to the assaulted kid's house and made them confess to the kids parents. Then let them decide if they wanted to press charges. And stood behind any decision they made.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: LeeHarvOz]
#14154189 - 03/20/11 02:26 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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LeeHarvOz said: i would have taken the kids home and smacked them around a little to teach them a lesson, i mean the boy was 17 not some helpless 5th grader i would have prob broken his jaw but not turned him into the police.
Wow, you're no better than those punk ass kids. I mean seriously, if these were your kids no wonder they beat someone up. Beating your kids is not going to make them peaceful.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: learningtofly]
#14154214 - 03/20/11 02:30 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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maybe he should've gotten the glasses kid they were bullying to kick the shit out of them
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Envix] 1
#14154224 - 03/20/11 02:32 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Or maybe you could end a needless cycle of violence
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: learningtofly]
#14154233 - 03/20/11 02:34 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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or tie them to a chair facing the sun and tape their eyes open so that they have to start wearing glasses
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Shroomerette]
#14154270 - 03/20/11 02:40 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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he did the right thing. bullying is for elementary school kids. i've never seen a bully older than 9. 17 and 15 year old bullies are some fucked up individuals.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: meatcakeman]
#14154325 - 03/20/11 02:52 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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meatcakeman said: he did the right thing. bullying is for elementary school kids. i've never seen a bully older than 9. 17 and 15 year old bullies are some fucked up individuals.
Yea theres a line between being a young (1-10) bully and being an adult (17comeon) beating random kids-thats some psyco shit police involvement-absolutely
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Micawber]
#14154471 - 03/20/11 03:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Bullying is one thing that I absolutely despise and would not tolerate. That being said, I don't know what I would have done. If the other parents pressed charges I would not feel bad.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Shroomerette]
#14154572 - 03/20/11 03:41 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Shroomerette said: Father turns in own kids for bullying
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An Ipswich father claims he was so irate when he caught his two children attacking another that he turned them into police to be charged.
The father, known only as Matt, told Brisbane radio station 97.3FM he witnessed his 17-year-old son and 15-year-old daughter bashing a 13-year-old boy, breaking his jaw, because he wore glasses.
Enraged after experiencing similar bullying in his childhood, he marched his children to a police station to have them charged with assault.
He said he also sold his son’s car and daughter’s horse as further punishment.
"Yesterday afternoon I’m on my way home ... come ‘round the corner three streets from home [and] there’s my 17-year-old son and my 15-year-old daughter and they are fair beating the living crap out of this kid," he said.
"I pulled up, I damaged the car [as] I put the car up the gutter. I grabbed a hold of both of them, threw them in the back of the car, got the young kid that they were beating up ... took him home to his parents [and] marched both my kids into the local police station.
"They have both now been charged with assault."
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He said it was not the first time the teens had bullied the younger boy.
“About three weeks ago it was brought to my attention, through the school they attend, that they have been bullying a child at school,” he said.
The children later admitted to bullying the younger teen because he wore glasses, the same reason their father was bullied as a child.
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The father said he and his wife would stand behind the parents of the bullied child if they pressed ahead with the charges.
Basically I wonder, what would you do in this situation if you were the dad? Obviously it was very serious bullying if they broke the kids jaw, they certainly deserve some serious discipline for it, but I have problems with parents turning their on children in to the police for anything short of murder. Personally, I'd probably do everything the dad did except for the part where he drives them to the police station. I'd probably leave it up to the parents of the other kid to report it to the police if they wanted to. How about you?
Another opinion of mine: picking on someone for wearing glasses is probably the stupidest reason to pick on someone that I can imagine.
my dad did something similar to this, but instead of turning me in he let the kid i was beating up, beat my ass.
i was only kicking the shit out of this kid cause he stole my bike and fucked it up, but of course my idiot dad didnt ask any questions. he instead, ran up and knocked my ass on the ground. he then helped the other kid up and explained to him who he was then picked my ass up and started to choke hold me. he told the other kid to fuck me up. at first the kid was a little hesitant, but after a sec or two he punched me in the head a few times then once in the stomach and twice in the nuts.
this is no joke. this all happened word for word. after the kid finished beating my ass while my own fater held me he took off and my dad threw me down and kicked me once real hard in the side. i was actually bruised. on the side for a little under a week.
after i got over the anger part of my dad i explained to him what had happened. he paused for a sec, laughed, then said this and i quote, "my bad son.".
not only did i take the leftover anger from this kid stealing my bike and fucking it up. i also took the hurt and anger i got from my dad for taking the actions he took and added those feelings to the fact that this kid knew he was in the wrong in the first place but still took it upon himself to beat my ass and let all these feelings explode on this kid, his older brother and his faggot cousin who thought he was a fucking thug.
i got 6 months in juvy for assault. all the other charges were dropped cause the brother and the cuz jumped in and i was only defending myself. fucking bitches. i always pray that i run into this fucker now that im a grown ass adult. i would gladly fuck him up once more.
i also got revenge on my dad as well. about 3 years later my parents were having a party which i thought it would be a great idea to bring my new girlfriend too. my dad started running his mouth saying and i quote, " a pretty girl like yourself doesnt need to be with a fag like that." . i only lost it cause my mom was sitting right there.
i broke his jaw, his nose, and i made sure to give him a nice bruise on his side.
fucking bitch...
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Dunno]
#14154745 - 03/20/11 04:31 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think parents should have the choice to eugenicide their children, im sure the father would have done so if it was an option. Sometimes the genes just combine in a fail way.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: zergroz]
#14154772 - 03/20/11 04:35 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I would slap both of them upside there heads repeatedly then they would be the house slaves for the next couple of months.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Dunno] 1
#14154797 - 03/20/11 04:41 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Shroomerette said: Father turns in own kids for bullying
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An Ipswich father claims he was so irate when he caught his two children attacking another that he turned them into police to be charged.
The father, known only as Matt, told Brisbane radio station 97.3FM he witnessed his 17-year-old son and 15-year-old daughter bashing a 13-year-old boy, breaking his jaw, because he wore glasses.
Enraged after experiencing similar bullying in his childhood, he marched his children to a police station to have them charged with assault.
He said he also sold his son’s car and daughter’s horse as further punishment.
"Yesterday afternoon I’m on my way home ... come ‘round the corner three streets from home [and] there’s my 17-year-old son and my 15-year-old daughter and they are fair beating the living crap out of this kid," he said.
"I pulled up, I damaged the car [as] I put the car up the gutter. I grabbed a hold of both of them, threw them in the back of the car, got the young kid that they were beating up ... took him home to his parents [and] marched both my kids into the local police station.
"They have both now been charged with assault."
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He said it was not the first time the teens had bullied the younger boy.
“About three weeks ago it was brought to my attention, through the school they attend, that they have been bullying a child at school,” he said.
The children later admitted to bullying the younger teen because he wore glasses, the same reason their father was bullied as a child.
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The father said he and his wife would stand behind the parents of the bullied child if they pressed ahead with the charges.
Basically I wonder, what would you do in this situation if you were the dad? Obviously it was very serious bullying if they broke the kids jaw, they certainly deserve some serious discipline for it, but I have problems with parents turning their on children in to the police for anything short of murder. Personally, I'd probably do everything the dad did except for the part where he drives them to the police station. I'd probably leave it up to the parents of the other kid to report it to the police if they wanted to. How about you?
Another opinion of mine: picking on someone for wearing glasses is probably the stupidest reason to pick on someone that I can imagine.
my dad did something similar to this, but instead of turning me in he let the kid i was beating up, beat my ass.
i was only kicking the shit out of this kid cause he stole my bike and fucked it up, but of course my idiot dad didnt ask any questions. he instead, ran up and knocked my ass on the ground. he then helped the other kid up and explained to him who he was then picked my ass up and started to choke hold me. he told the other kid to fuck me up. at first the kid was a little hesitant, but after a sec or two he punched me in the head a few times then once in the stomach and twice in the nuts.
this is no joke. this all happened word for word. after the kid finished beating my ass while my own fater held me he took off and my dad threw me down and kicked me once real hard in the side. i was actually bruised. on the side for a little under a week.
after i got over the anger part of my dad i explained to him what had happened. he paused for a sec, laughed, then said this and i quote, "my bad son.".
not only did i take the leftover anger from this kid stealing my bike and fucking it up. i also took the hurt and anger i got from my dad for taking the actions he took and added those feelings to the fact that this kid knew he was in the wrong in the first place but still took it upon himself to beat my ass and let all these feelings explode on this kid, his older brother and his faggot cousin who thought he was a fucking thug.
i got 6 months in juvy for assault. all the other charges were dropped cause the brother and the cuz jumped in and i was only defending myself. fucking bitches. i always pray that i run into this fucker now that im a grown ass adult. i would gladly fuck him up once more.
i also got revenge on my dad as well. about 3 years later my parents were having a party which i thought it would be a great idea to bring my new girlfriend too. my dad started running his mouth saying and i quote, " a pretty girl like yourself doesnt need to be with a fag like that." . i only lost it cause my mom was sitting right there.
i broke his jaw, his nose, and i made sure to give him a nice bruise on his side.
fucking bitch...
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Poid]
#14154858 - 03/20/11 04:56 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I wonder how the father feels about this. If I was a father I'd be very disappointed in my children. Im glad they are being charged with assault. 17 yrs old that is almost an adult in my eyes. You know better and if you can do the crime you can do the time.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Enthrall]
#14154870 - 03/20/11 04:58 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Wait this motherfucker was 17 and he was double teaming a 13 yr old?!?! If that was my kid I woulda busted his nose, fuck this jail nonsense kid needs some tough lovin to get his head straight.
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#14155022 - 03/20/11 05:35 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#14155072 - 03/20/11 05:48 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Senor_Doobie said: Calling the cops on your own family is the lowest of lows.
I rank it up there with pimping your grandmother to pay for your meth habit
family issues need to be dealt with as a family
This isn't a family issue, at all. The second it involves someone outside the family, it's public.
When your kids are going around beating up little kids with glasses, its now the issue of the kid being beat (and what the fuck is wrong with your kids). I'm kind of torn at what I would do.
I can't decide whether I would beat the shit out of both of them or whether I would go straight to the polcie and disown them. I mean really? Bashing his head in and breaking his jaw? That is just fucked up for having glasses. The poor kid won't be able to eat right for a long time and is gonna be scarred for life
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Re: Father turns in own kids for bullying - What would you do? [Re: amilibertine]
#14155202 - 03/20/11 06:10 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: family issues need to be dealt with as a family
This isn't a family issue when your beating someone in public, that's a public issue. Would it be different if those kids has bashed the kids nose into his brain and killed him? At that point can you call the cops on a family member? This kid they beat is gonna have issues (if he didn't already) for years after being assaulted and having his jaw broke.
beating someone in public makes it a public issue... lol
so this is why we have the government playing daddy in every aspect of our lives, need to shit, you need the government approved, quilted lint free potty papers because people stopped trying to resolve problems amongst themselves and decided to one up each other. back when I was in school I was picked on all the time, and of course when I fought back we both got sent to the office for suspension, when my mother was called and the situation was explained she told them to fuck off, they were not suspending me for defending myself. guess what, they didnt, I got sent back to class and I didnt develop any issues... about 4 years ago my sister went through the same thing with her son, nothing happened to him either after contacting a lawyer that happened to represent the school
the kids that picked on me, I suffered a broken nose once, one of them had 2 broken ribs and a concussion, a different kid got pinned between the bus seats and stomped until someone managed to pull me off, an 8th grader got pinned in the doorway with me kicking the fuck out of him until they spotted me and got someone around to get me off him, I was in 6th back then
matt pitts was slammed on his head, robert woods was the kid on the bus, he also met a steel post a few days later when he came back for more, maria houdak stabbed me in the back with a pencil while I was at my desk, I cleared her desk and made her eyes and the big ol' tater nose of hers swell up even more... I got in trouble for that one until my mom dug the pencil lead out of my back... wayne bagget jumped me in my back yard, my brother and 2 other people got me off him and he grabbed a saw to use as a weapon, I almost killed his ass on that, alan brock almost lost a finger when he started shit with me.... I got picked on a lot
back then people dealt with shit like people, if your kid sent my kid home with a busted jaw the parents handled it, now we're a planet of global cry babies that have to have the courts running our lives instead of teaching our kids to take up for themselves and defending our kids when they grab something and use it against their attackers. like my step father said, if someone bigger than you is whipping your ass, grab a stick and wear their heads out... that advice bit him in the ass but it was solid advice
BTW... you cant put someones nose or the bone into their brain and kill them, trust me, I've tried
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