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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147615 - 03/19/11 09:31 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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So? Are you telling me you understand absolutely everything you read?
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147619 - 03/19/11 09:34 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'd guess Icelander wasn't talking about you or her. Just in general.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147629 - 03/19/11 09:37 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Olympus Mons said:
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Icelander said: Potential is a meaningless termfalse. Her potential was what she did. Everyone does exactly what they are capable of and no morefalse. Had she the potential to be more she would befalse. Were she an ugly crone we wouldn't be having this conversationdouble false. IMO there's nothing PC about BS.
any other assumptions? you dont know enough about me or her for you to say that.
No that pretty much covers the reality of the situation.
I'm basing this of course on what you provided and how you said it. I guess this isn't the response you wanted. I rarely give those.
Well I guess there is one more thing. We usually choose people to be in our lives that fit well with our own psychology and limitations.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14147857 - 03/19/11 10:46 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Icelander said:
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Olympus Mons said:
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Icelander said: Potential is a meaningless termfalse. Her potential was what she did. Everyone does exactly what they are capable of and no morefalse. Had she the potential to be more she would befalse. Were she an ugly crone we wouldn't be having this conversationdouble false. IMO there's nothing PC about BS.
any other assumptions? you dont know enough about me or her for you to say that.
No that pretty much covers the reality of the situation.
I'm basing this of course on what you provided and how you said it. I guess this isn't the response you wanted. I rarely give those.
Well I guess there is one more thing. We usually choose people to be in our lives that fit well with our own psychology and limitations.
i woudnt say that because i wasnt expecting a specific type of response hence the absence of questions. And as far as choosing people that fit well with our psychology, that would makes sense if we actually fit well, i was just young and dumb, so sue me for not being all knowing as a teenager.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14148745 - 03/19/11 02:33 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You fit with her at the time. Maybe part of you would still like that. I'm not blaming you for anything. I'm commenting on your thread is all. Whatever you actually do or actually mean is fine and dandy with me. It's your trip but you posted about it. I've made dozens of stupid connections with women and it was the best I could do at the time. I was just as fucked up if not more than they were. And I'm still not capable of sustaining a decent relationship with a woman. I'm not picking on you.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14157361 - 03/21/11 12:42 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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If it was my most recent ex, I would go pick her up and take care of her. That's all I can say.
Edit: Well, I can't leave it at that. The reasoning is because there is still that hidden connection between me and her. I just assume you still have that. If you don't, then, well, I'm useless.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Joolz]
#14157411 - 03/21/11 12:55 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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People change No use clinging to the past. Breakups probably suck but theres always someone worse off than you. If I had a girlfriend and lost her, I'd be thankful for the time we shared together.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14158360 - 03/21/11 08:50 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Icelander said: You fit with her at the time. Maybe part of you would still like that. I'm not blaming you for anything. I'm commenting on your thread is all. Whatever you actually do or actually mean is fine and dandy with me. It's your trip but you posted about it. I've made dozens of stupid connections with women and it was the best I could do at the time. I was just as fucked up if not more than they were. And I'm still not capable of sustaining a decent relationship with a woman. I'm not picking on you.
yea i feel ya, i havent had an actual relationship since her. ive just been dating around and getting immediate red flags. thanks for your input.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14158369 - 03/21/11 08:53 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can sustain a very healthy relationship with sheep however.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14159644 - 03/21/11 02:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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gross.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14160042 - 03/21/11 03:57 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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No just one or two.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14160586 - 03/21/11 06:03 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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5 or 10 is fine too. But 1 would suffice if its good enough lol. Do you go for the RAM's as well?
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: lolwut]
#14161098 - 03/21/11 07:42 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Rams get a little ornery when you try to kiss them.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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