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Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love
#14144789 - 03/18/11 06:43 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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We dated for about two years as i was graduating high school. We were young and naive, me most of all. I did everything i could to please her.i changed who i was for those two years. This of course was before i knew that changing yourself for someone will inevitably end tragically. She was the most beautiful, vengeful, wrathful creature ive encountered. She may or may not have cheated on me, it was never proven, but i was more suspicious in hindsight. We dated off and on after we officially called it quits, and then one day out of the blue she turned on and treated me in a way that no human should be. This relationship not only altered the course of my life but it also broke me down to a level lower than ive ever been and jump started my spiritual journey. I reached a point on my path that i realized i had to let go and forgive her, i even went the extra step to actually be friends with her. Over the course of the last 5 years or i've learned so much about myself and her, and why even though we were in love, we could never work. I've been there for her when her abusive boyfriend hit her, i was there for her after her suicide attempt, i congratulated her on her pregnancy, and now we are here, on the phone. We made plans to hang out tonight after work, i went to a friends house first, my battery died, had to jump it off. I get home, pet my dog, eat some fish and load a bowl with two scoops of kief. I hit it all and exhale, the phone rings. She sounds weird. She says " i want to come by but i dont know, could i hide my car?" "I dont want my mom or brother to see me there." I tell her she's being extremely vague and i'll stop trying to figure out why. She immediately breaks down in tears, crying harder and louder than ive ever heard anyone cry. Between sobs she tells me she just had all her stuff moved out of the apartment they were sharing, and doesnt know where to go and that she found out he cheated on her for a second time(confirmed). She's crying uncontrollably, and here we are.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons] 1
#14144891 - 03/18/11 07:01 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Do the right thing... go pick her up, or meet her where she can leave her car, feed her, give her a place to crash and collect her thoughts. Karma will take care of the rest.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons] 1
#14144897 - 03/18/11 07:02 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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sounds like ur the new side sausage and she doesnt want her prime time man to catch her with the seat warmer... tell that cunt to bugger off and find some vag thats worth your time brah....
i learned long ago that just cause you have feelings for someone it doesnt mean shit unless they have those feelings back.... dont risk getting hurt again
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons] 1
#14145073 - 03/18/11 07:34 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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All I can say is, you sure know how to pick em.
Any involvement with her is a mistake imo. But I can tell you'll have to learn that the hard way. If she didn't have a pussy and look beautiful you'd never have had anything to do with that nonsense.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons] 1
#14145236 - 03/18/11 08:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Wall-o-text!
-------------------- Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. -- Bob Dylan  fireworks_god said:It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14145262 - 03/18/11 08:07 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Man, oh, man.. That story pretty much summed up my first love experience to the T.. except for the ending part...
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Poid]
#14145569 - 03/18/11 09:07 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Icelander said: All I can say is, you sure know how to pick em.
Any involvement with her is a mistake imo. But I can tell you'll have to learn that the hard way. If she didn't have a pussy and look beautiful you'd never have had anything to do with that nonsense.
Ha, i only made that mistake once. I realized long ago that she has to be bipolar or something. she asked me what she should do, and i said she shouldve planned it out a little better. She was talking all crazy about how it was weird that she's pregnant and she just didnt want to feel. i convinced her to call her cousin's house for the night. she's gonna get a room after that.
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Poid said: Wall-o-text!
hey man that was live to-the-second news. appreciate it.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14145594 - 03/18/11 09:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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PROTIP: Dont mess with the bull Violence is bad Just sayin
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: lolwut]
#14146527 - 03/19/11 12:06 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Mess with the bull you get the horns Mess with the elephant you get the trunk Mess with the tiger you get the teeth
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: lolwut]
#14147411 - 03/19/11 08:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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she called my a shitload in the middle of the night and im pretty sure she came by ringing my bell. But i was asleep.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: NewWavePeace]
#14147417 - 03/19/11 08:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Like NewWavePeace thisQuote:
NewWavePeace said: Man, oh, man.. That story pretty much summed up my first love experience to the T.. except for the ending part...

Nail on the head, while reading the OP I was like, "fuuuck this sounds so familiar."
My first real love ended abruptly with the girl leaving me for a guy she'd worked with at an old job. She gets pregnant and then they break up. So what does she do? Comes to me and wants to be friends again.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147435 - 03/19/11 08:25 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lots of women have fall guys. It pretty much sounds to me like you're the fall guy when the chips are down. I'll give you an example; You'll help her on her feet and she'll dis you just like in the past. Quite the conundrum for anyone to figure out the best play of game here. All I can say is don't give her any money.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Stein]
#14147467 - 03/19/11 08:45 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I think it would be very satisfying to tell her to fuck off to her face. Actually you'd be doing her a favor.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147474 - 03/19/11 08:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Why do you love her, anyways? Is it because of this:
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Olympus Mons said: She was the most beautiful, vengeful, wrathful creature ive encountered.
-------------------- Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. -- Bob Dylan  fireworks_god said:It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Poid]
#14147527 - 03/19/11 09:04 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i dont love her in the way i used to. i still care about her though, she had so much potential but got caught up with the wrong people and now she has nothing but a bun in the oven. I find it interesting how time changes situations, not that anyone couldve seen this coming, but this is soooo different than she or i envisioned her life.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Stein]
#14147535 - 03/19/11 09:08 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Stein said: Lots of women have fall guys. It pretty much sounds to me like you're the fall guy when the chips are down. I'll give you an example; You'll help her on her feet and she'll dis you just like in the past. Quite the conundrum for anyone to figure out the best play of game here. All I can say is don't give her any money.
it's not a matter of me being a fall guy for her, it's a matter of me continuing to be a decent and helpful person knowing good and well that i wont get anything out of it. it's not just her that ive done this with there are other people who have wronged me in the past, and the old me wouldve told them to die in a fire and just go on with my business. My life is so much more rewarding when im kind to everyone, not just those who can do things for me. also since im "volunteering" i know that if i wanted to have nothing to do with her than i could, but froma karmic standpoint she's already got what she had coming to her as far as im concerned. But who just wants to be left in the dust when theyre at the lowest point in there life thus far?
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I close my eyes and seize it I clench my fists and beat it I light my torch and burn it I am the beast I worship....
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147539 - 03/19/11 09:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Potential is a meaningless term. Her potential was what she did. Everyone does exactly what they are capable of and no more. Had she the potential to be more she would be. Were she an ugly crone we wouldn't be having this conversation. IMO there's nothing PC about BS.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Icelander]
#14147552 - 03/19/11 09:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Icelander said: Potential is a meaningless termfalse. Her potential was what she did. Everyone does exactly what they are capable of and no morefalse. Had she the potential to be more she would befalse. Were she an ugly crone we wouldn't be having this conversationdouble false. IMO there's nothing PC about BS.
any other assumptions? you dont know enough about me or her for you to say that.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Olympus Mons]
#14147561 - 03/19/11 09:15 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't think you understood him correctly.
-------------------- Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. -- Bob Dylan  fireworks_god said:It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.
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Re: Im currently on the phone with a girl i used to love [Re: Poid]
#14147579 - 03/19/11 09:19 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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i can read.
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