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ManianFH
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: Lennyk]
#14136936 - 03/17/11 01:57 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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you know whats weird, I dont give a shit if my girlfriend looks through my computer or phone or anything, I got nothin to hide, am trustworthy and thus a boring person. But if I ever pick up her phone without asking, cause im just used to not asking permission for that kind of shit with the relationships ive had in my life, she kinda freaks out, and will take her phone back, or shut her computer quickly like shes got something to hide.
-OP - What was the content of the 'sexual' messages you were sending to other girls? Whether or not you were doing anything, this kind of content is probably off-bounds when you're in a relationship (probably, cause im not exactly sure what you sent).
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14139541 - 03/17/11 09:16 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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mick said: you know whats weird, I dont give a shit if my girlfriend looks through my computer or phone or anything, I got nothin to hide, am trustworthy and thus a boring person. But if I ever pick up her phone without asking, cause im just used to not asking permission for that kind of shit with the relationships ive had in my life, she kinda freaks out, and will take her phone back, or shut her computer quickly like shes got something to hide.
I dont know if shes got something to hide, or if shes secretive, or what. It makes me not really trust her fully though.
-OP - What was the content of the 'sexual' messages you were sending to other girls? Whether or not you were doing anything, this kind of content is probably off-bounds when you're in a relationship (probably, cause im not exactly sure what you sent).
Yea, I'd say she's got something to hide...or something she is embarrassed about.
Either way that's not a innocent reaction.
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: amilibertine]
#14140365 - 03/17/11 10:59 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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But if I ever pick up her phone without asking, cause im just used to not asking permission for that kind of shit with the relationships ive had in my life, she kinda freaks out, and will take her phone back, or shut her computer quickly like shes got something to hide.
I dont know if shes got something to hide, or if shes secretive, or what. It makes me not really trust her fully though.
wow she just discovered another problem. Dude .. it is very CLEAR that she has something to hide. Your probabaly questioning and thinking back right now. Its time you open up your own thread, cuz some shit is not right.
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14140622 - 03/17/11 11:41 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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mick said: you know whats weird, I dont give a shit if my girlfriend looks through my computer or phone or anything, I got nothin to hide, am trustworthy and thus a boring person. But if I ever pick up her phone without asking, cause im just used to not asking permission for that kind of shit with the relationships ive had in my life, she kinda freaks out, and will take her phone back, or shut her computer quickly like shes got something to hide.
I dont know if shes got something to hide, or if shes secretive, or what. It makes me not really trust her fully though.
-OP - What was the content of the 'sexual' messages you were sending to other girls? Whether or not you were doing anything, this kind of content is probably off-bounds when you're in a relationship (probably, cause im not exactly sure what you sent).
Dude you're a fucking dense as shit pushover. She clearly is hiding shit
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: Azure Essence]
#14141476 - 03/18/11 03:24 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don't think so.
She has always been honest with me even at disadvantage to herself, and vice versa. She has told me she slept with people before when she could have lied (that situation we were separated, but still sleeping together, and I thought we were still being exclusive). There is no reason for someone in a relationship to want to hide their shit the way she does; I've never experienced that in a relationship before, but I don't think its because shes cheating. It just confuses me.
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14143360 - 03/18/11 02:00 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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hahaha whatever you say man ...
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(that situation we were separated, but still sleeping together, and I thought we were still being exclusive). There is no reason for someone in a relationship to want to hide their shit the way she does
lol wake up
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14144062 - 03/18/11 04:19 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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mick said: I don't think so.
She has always been honest with me even at disadvantage to herself, and vice versa. She has told me she slept with people before when she could have lied (that situation we were separated, but still sleeping together, and I thought we were still being exclusive). There is no reason for someone in a relationship to want to hide their shit the way she does; I've never experienced that in a relationship before, but I don't think its because shes cheating. It just confuses me.
I didnt say shes cheating, she's just hiding things. Whatever it is, could be anyone's guess, but something is being hidden
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: dshow]
#14145009 - 03/18/11 07:23 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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dshow said: hahaha whatever you say man ...
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(that situation we were separated, but still sleeping together, and I thought we were still being exclusive). There is no reason for someone in a relationship to want to hide their shit the way she does
lol wake up
Wake up from what exactly dshow? What would your response be if this were your situation?
you never hide anything from anyone before? i hide shit all the time; I just dont expect it from the girl i call my gf. like this is some catastrophe that i should have been aware of and the world is falling apart and im the biggest fool for not being keen to it; gimme a break with that conjecture.
Doesnt mean shes an awful person whos hurting me behind my back.
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14145435 - 03/18/11 08:37 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Wake up from what exactly dshow? What would your response be if this were your situation?
you never hide anything from anyone before? i hide shit all the time; I just dont expect it from the girl i call my gf. like this is some catastrophe that i should have been aware of and the world is falling apart and im the biggest fool for not being keen to it; gimme a break with that conjecture.
True, she probably isnt awful. but Hiding is hiding. And hiding your phone is usually hiding someone.' I didnt expect it from a girl that was my gf either. I thought oh she just doesnt leave her phone lying around anywhere ever. And ohh she probably deletes her texts all the time, thats why i never saw any texts when i checked her phone. Then i found out she was hiding something. Another guy. Only then it was too late, i got backstabbed by my friend, who was messing around with my girl.
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: dshow]
#14145664 - 03/18/11 09:22 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Its better to have found out the ugly truth. The way I see it, it was never too late for you; a woman, and a 'friend' willing to do that, never worth it in the first place. It was only a matter of time before you learned better one way or another, even if it was what happened or something else down the line. That is something someone smart enough will figure out eventually. And if it happens, it happens, for you, me, anyone else.
I have every reason not to trust women with my past; cell phone crap not too different from this. But I'm pretty smart, pretty perceptive. I don't think it's as transparent as we assume sometimes. Who knows what this scenario is really all about.
Im rambling.
/threadkiller
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Re: girlfriend looked through my phone [Re: ManianFH]
#14149474 - 03/19/11 05:07 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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