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anyone ever came to the realization that...
#14141332 - 03/18/11 02:29 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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you've made a big mistake by treating your ex-gf like shit, and that deep down you don't really hate her at all? I dogged my ex so bad it's redic, and I never felt bad about it til now. I just realized that deep down I really did like her, and she put up with all my stupid shit no questions asked. she treated me right and I dogged her so bad she hates me.
for over a year and a half I've been convinced she was a stupid slut but now I have came to realize that I really always loved her and I made a huge mistake dogging her out of my life.
yep. such a realization feels strange as fuck.
fuck.my.life...
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141350 - 03/18/11 02:35 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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The girl that I truly feel was my other half I met way too early in my life. I messed that relationship up so bad that she refuses to have anything to do with me now.
I still love her, too.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141358 - 03/18/11 02:37 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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How long has she been the ex?
and what did you do to piss her off?
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: cacharstar]
#14141364 - 03/18/11 02:40 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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a LOT, but the straw that broke the camel's back was when I had sex with her mom.
yes, I really had sex with her mom.
but I mean we argued constantly and I was truly one rude son of a bitch to her. at the time b/c we were both so strung out I didn't realize how mean I was, but yeah...
damn, I miss her.
and we broke up Xmas 2009
Edited by zSDMF (03/18/11 02:41 AM)
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: blissedout]
#14141368 - 03/18/11 02:41 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I literally fucking cut ties with my ex gf 12 hours ago. She is a miserable person who did nothing but lie and fucking take advantage of me. I've never said this before but I hate her and never want to see her again. Time to move forward gentlemen. There is a reason you aren't together with your ex. And looking back on things we tend to remember only the good.
Hopefully six months from now i'm not saying the same thing as you but I highly doubt I will. For me it was best to cut her out of my life forever.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: biff]
#14141369 - 03/18/11 02:42 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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the reason I'm not with my ex is I am a huge asshole who dogged her to the point of hating me.
=\ hence why I feel bad
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: cacharstar]
#14141372 - 03/18/11 02:43 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I felt like this with my ex, we were together for 3 years, I was all emo for a long time thinking I had let "the one" get away plus there was a LOT of problems with my family so it just compounded.
Over time though I met this one girl I was kinda into, then another I really liked, then some other, and another, and another, then this other one, and o yea there was this one girl....
Then I realized... I hadn't even thought of my ex for months and I think I actually was selling myself short and I'm glad it ended, I can do better
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: blissedout]
#14141374 - 03/18/11 02:43 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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blissedout said: The girl that I truly feel was my other half I met way too early in my life. I messed that relationship up so bad that she refuses to have anything to do with me now.
I still love her, too.
Same here man. She put up with so much of my bullshit but if we never broke it off I probably wouldn't have grown as a person, she was a great match for me, most intelligent female I've ever known. I always felt resentment for her being so smart but now I realize that I really need someone of high intelligence to feel connected to. Having a couple GF's after her dumb as rocks I fucking can't stand not having a woman around that I can talk about math and science with.
You never know what you have 'till it's gone.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141378 - 03/18/11 02:46 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just relax and don't bank any randoms for awhile otherwise you might end up attached outta desperation. Think of a relationship as a chemical addiction. withdrawals sux. .
Or it seems you will probably get back with her in that case
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: cacharstar]
#14141380 - 03/18/11 02:47 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I would love it to death if we got back together but it just is not going to happen.
idk why I'm even thinkin about her so hard tonight but fuck. it hurts to realize I had something great and fucked it up so bad.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: biff]
#14141396 - 03/18/11 02:52 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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one time i shattered the most innocent girls heart you would have ever seen, we were definatly at diferent points in our lives and she had and still has amazing potential and she was ok with sex but i knew deep down she wasn't ready for the things i was in liife and let her go because i truley cared about her. i have a son now and i imagine she'll be off to college soon looks like were both gonna be busy with the lifes we lead. my babies mom is just like her it seems and i will not let this one go.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141432 - 03/18/11 03:08 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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zSDMF said: a LOT, but the straw that broke the camel's back was when I had sex with her mom.
-------------------- Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. -- Bob Dylan  fireworks_god said:It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: Poid]
#14141435 - 03/18/11 03:09 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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yea lol, I mean I look back on it for what it is. she was a great fuck.
but I cannot believe I fuckin did that to my ex...
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141440 - 03/18/11 03:10 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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What kind of mother does that to her daughter anyways?
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: pmb]
#14141443 - 03/18/11 03:11 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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... it was/still is a very fucked up situation and relationship. basically, a mom who was an oxy addict coupled with me, who at the time was also an oxy addict/oxy dealer.
plus she always had a thing for me. I got fucked up and gave into the temptation.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141451 - 03/18/11 03:14 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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You guys should've orgied.
-------------------- Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. -- Bob Dylan  fireworks_god said:It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14141457 - 03/18/11 03:18 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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HAHAHAHHA iight man, that beats me making jokes. My ex broke up with me because of multiple reasons she claimed 3 years of me treating life like a game and never being serious(it's true, I won't grow up lol) but that's not a bad thing, now I realize it just isn't meant to be and there are more compatible women I needa find.
My ex told me she met someone else and is "looking for something permanent and since you made up your mind about your future I think it's best we end this"
whatever slut your loss she tried to tell me I'm not mature enough for her, I just told her she isn't fun and became a stick in the mud
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: PreparationH]
#14141463 - 03/18/11 03:20 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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that attitude has kept me sane w/ this situation all this time. it was weird b/c tonite out of nowhere I just started thinkin about her a lot, and I realized that I had something special and totally fucked it up.
I don't think I'm gonna lose much sleep over my ex tbh, but the realization that I had tonight kinda blindsided me...
money over bitches takin that to the graveeeeeee
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14142574 - 03/18/11 10:49 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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Go masterbate, then see how u feel about her after.
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Re: anyone ever came to the realization that... [Re: zSDMF]
#14142750 - 03/18/11 11:29 AM (12 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't think you can really come back from having sex with her mom.
This is why repressing your emotions post-cutting off an ex too the extent you actually don't really have feelings for them anymore can come in handy on occasion, even if it leaves you very alone or codependent most of the time.
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